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I enjoy going to social events in general. A female friend of mine (late 20s) recommended me a singles event she went to recently (which turned out to be a dating event). I looked it up and the female tickets are already sold out, while the male early tickets are still available
What gives?
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>>220750803
>classes
I already graduated college and almost everything can be learned on the internet
>meetups
For what?
>Book clubs
Why do I need a club to read a book?
>do activism
I didn’t see her at the white pride rally
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>What gives?
Nobody wants to pay to go be judged by a horde of Stacies. If you want to talk to random women, you can do that for free
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>I have multiple friends who do female oriented activites and they don't meet any men there
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>>220750803
>classes
I go to grad school already
>meetups
About what?
>book clubs
These foids just talk about goonslop
>do activism
Activism is not necessarily a fun social activity if it's actually meaningful. Going to a No Kings protest and doing your interpretive dance is essentially useless compared to my planning the workers' revolution in my shitty apartment
Yeah this is peak liberal do-nothing woman, no gen Z guy wants to interact with these people
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Besides, if men are doing those activities, they're going to complain about it as well, like when men started to join dancing lessons. They really just love to complain for the sake of complaining.
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As a man, paying for a ticket to go meet women is really low energy, and signals that you have to pay money to talk to women. The women are hoping that since it's a premium event, there will be a bunch of rich successful men looking for high value premium women such as themselves, but why would such men be buying tickets to go to a speed dating event? For a man, buying a ticket to talk to women is a humiliation ritual. It's also really suspect for a woman to pay money to meet men, like there's only two types of women that can possibly exist in a place like that, either gold digger bimbos, basically glorified escorts, or then they're absolute sewer goblins that literally no man wants to hang out with (extremely unlikely, but even if they were, why would a man pay money to meet them?). It's an absolute no win situation
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>>220751194
>hotties seeking actual relationships
If literally no man wants to be in a relationship with them, a hot woman, there must be something seriously wrong with their personalities
>there not being enough men
I suspect "not enough men" means not enough men that fill their very specific list of criteria and arbitrary icks. Because again, they're hot women, and you can find men in relationships with average or even ugly women. So either it's that they're incredibly picky, or they have serious brain problems
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>>220750803
>book clubs
now this could work but only if it has a fixed topic, e.g. "Classics of world literature", "20th century sci-fi", or it is set up so that there must always be an equal number of men and women.
otherwise it is likely to be romantasy, "I Want to Fuck the Abusive Dragontamer Prince", and having to (pretend to) read that can't be worth being the only guy in such a club.
>meetups
what meetups? where are there just meetups
maybe there should be ones where you just talk cuz I haven't really talked to any unrelated female after finishing school
>activism
has awful connotations, you expect it to be something like "FIGHT PATRIARCHY KILL ALL MEN except my bf luv u bb ;)" or "WE NEED 10 MILLION MORE REFUGEES TO BEAT RACISM". even something sensical like environmental activism has become associated with trowing paint at priceless artworks or gluing yourself to the street.
and there should also be men in those, but maybe they are so soy they don't register as men to them.
so unspecific activism is kind of a red flag, but of course there can be reasonable, non-fanatic activism.
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>>220750803
I looked up blind dating registration sites for people in Munich.
In the young age brackets the male tickets are sold out for weeks in advance.
In the old age brackets the female attendees are higher than the male attendees (but not sold out)
Women really dont need men in this day and age. It's basically over for me.
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>>220751123
wrong image, the dating event one is in the /pol/ thread my dear engagement farming bot friend
>>220751315
how did an EOP retard stumble across /int/? see >>220750972
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>>220750803
Out of my social circle
>one dude is rich (his dad bought him an apartment, car, etc, etc), so he got a gf through an introduction by friends
>another got matched by his grandmother talking with one of her friends about her granddaughter (he also has a car bought by his dad)
>another met her on a job and his parents bought them an apartment and a car
So with these meager statistics in order to get a gf either I need to wait for my friends (I don't have much) to find me one or to find one on a job (I work from home and the ones I meet at the office are not single) or to have my family make a match (they won't even if they could) or one just happens to appear out of thin air. Also I need a car and an apartment which will never happen unless I win at a lottery because my dad never cared about parenting and my mom doesn't exactly live on a pile of gold.
It's over. (there was never a chance)
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>>220750803
>singles event
Outside of new york those are 50+ and mostly men
Also the pic is bs, ive attended most of those and i can tell you
>classes
Litterally just men even muh salsa classes
>meetups
80% men and boomers
>book clubs
Retirees
>activism
Old people and young men
Young women dont show up to any of those. Shes just baiting for engagement
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>if men are doing those activities
They already do. Dancing lessons are 70% men with no woman below 55.
Young women are the ones not showing up anywhere
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>>220750803
even if I went to the places with women I wouldnt know how to approach them
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>tell myself dating isn't for me
>alone and happy for 10+ years
>suddenly a girl approaches me and asks me out herself
>decide to play along
>go on one date and have a great time
>get a second date and have a great time
>texting back and forth, super excited
>suddenly she goes completely silent on me
>can't stop thinking about what i did wrong
>contemplate suicide for the first time in forever
never again
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My mom was telling me the other day about when she lived in France in the 80s or something and how the locals are all inceloids that can't talk to women
Says she would sit in a park reading a book and all day no one would come up to her except some incel freak elaborating how his mom doesn't love him
Says only the Arabs would approach women but they're gross dogs so better that they didn't
Says that it's way better getting constantly annoyed by locals catcalling and constantly dropping advances than being lonely
Made me realize that the common man in my dad's generation would just randomly strike up conversations with any woman he found pretty, that's how being a man was
I don't fucking do that
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>>220750803
>classes
Dropped out
>meetups
Doesn't exist, made up Hallmark movie shit
>book clubs
Reading is boring, interactive media like video games is way better
>do activism
Waste of time and sounds really gay and lame.
Why are modern women so fucking BORING. Genuinely no point in even trying to land a gf in this age, they're all career focused feminist retards.
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>>220750803
Most men are rotting in their pods (rooms, studios) playing battlefield and gaining fat. A lot are NEETs, live in cramped apartments, work some shitty jobs like bicycle food delivery at age of 37
While girls are indeed busy joining classes, going to gym building that defined ass, going to museums, books shops, cafes, restaurants etc
It's what I observed both in russia and serbia where i lived too
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>>220750803
>classes
>meetups
>>>book clubs
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It never occurred to this chick that she has to look for men in male dominated spaces at all huh?
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>>220753779
It's because like 90% of young women live in 5% of towns. In my city they unironically dominate public spaces. You can go outside on a Tuesday morning and there will be refugees, old people and young women doing jack shit
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Trvkes
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Classic Finnish words of wisdom
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>>220750803
Men don’t go to singles events and none of those bitches get it, they want to meet men on their terms doing shit THEY imagine is fun but it’s fucking stupid and gay. Bitches are so goddamn stupid it’s hard to imagine these are the retarded whores we’re supposed to marry and have children with one day. I would rather jump as naked into a jet turbine cock and balls first COMPLETELY sober than set foot in a fucking singles event.
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>>220759512
this is no mere perch my boy, get the thickest line you can muster and cover it in the sturdiest of iron lest the pike will take your lure and soul down into his murky domain, if your sword and or mettle were to fail this battle, your body may leave the lake but you will never see another sun rise again
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Now that the chuds have said their part, where are the lifehack activities where you can ACTUALLY meet receptive women in current year?
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>>220750803
I hardly leave my home. The only time I talk to women is at work. I dont like asking women out. Theres a cute girl at work but she seems really boring. Shes the kind of girl thats glued to her phone watching tiktoks and no hobbies.
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I just wonder how much longer this will go on...
>men and women not talking
>people with no friends
>people not having kids
>unaffordable house
>NEETdom on the rise everywhere
>depression, anxiety, drugs, brainrot, ipadkids
no one can handle the competitiveness of this god forsaken free market capital world
what are we doing...... I just dont fucking get it
how is anything still functioning..... holy fuck
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>>220759560
families also have friends and those friends may have a daughter and other friends and those friends may also have a daughter and if you invite some of them to a birthday or a party you get to know them and their daughters. get some friends that aren't low lives.
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>>220759577
It used to be a big thing for sure.
>>220759593
What a weird statement. Everyone isn't Turkish you know. I literally cannot even imagine how tha conversatiom would go irl.
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>classroom activities
>prepubescent children
nobody is being set up here. the lil chuddies in this bunch will be left hanging out to dry while the girls will fuck the few chads and also many other guys not in this picture
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>>220759975
anon I'm not an 8 year old in rural germany
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not everyone lives in the country
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Women are scary.
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>>220759548
College. Youre fucked once you graduate
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Idk in which paradise city you live but ive been all around my country and there no women anywhere. They must all be in new york or some shit
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>>220760019
>implying women below 60 show up to village parties
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I live in rural moselle and can tell you there isnt a single young woman in the countryside. Idk where they all go either
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I agree with folx here that it gets much harder once you're out of uni, but here is how I met the girls I either gf:ed or had sex with:
>swimming club in HS
>activities during the intro week of college and then going to the gym with her
>through friends and then fucked at a halloween party
>hinge
>tinder
>classmate in a course
There are obviously more women your age when you study, but even when working I've come into contact with potential dates before, just never had the courage to ask them out
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being ironically antiwhite is still being antiwhite
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Idk i think they are only in a couple of cities in europe like london
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Back when i worked for a bank female colleagues would go in our database, retrieve the personal information of our rich clients and attempt to go outwith them, my siblings had some uberratrractive milionaire message them ln dating and language apps so i assume thats how it works now
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>>220760660
>Women just replace men with pets, travel and designer clothes.
Replace designer clothes with an actual hobby and you get the same thing. There are so many single carfags, hikers, marathoners in their 50s. I came across a single dude in his 50s who does nothing but travel to fancy restaurants to try out their food just so he can post his reviews on TikTok.
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>>220751057
Genetic workers should be assaulted though, actual BLACKED is so much better
Btw half the posts itt are gov shills trying herd anons.
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>shills trying herd anons
what is there left to herd? it's all priced in.
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>>220750803
>women are self reporting the fact that they don't consider sub-8s human again
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>>220763637
but are we human? or are we dancer? after all, we're all at the dancing lessons >>220751113
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I don't get incels, get any low tier job and you'll find plenty of unhappy women trapped in marriage with some subhuman or already divorced eager to fuck to forget their grim existence
>B-but I want a virgin highschooler
Nigga you're 30 and balding, you missed that train 15 years ago
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>>220763950
Im male.
>>220763992
Incels are whining because they are not the subhuman that trapped an unhappy woman.
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and? your post didn't say anything about that, just "get any low tier job"
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>>220750886
yep, then when you try to set even the most basic boundaries like "on days x hours y are my personal time" or "we're not doing x this week"
They'll immediately start insinuating toxicity to their foid friends, I've seen it with my own eyes
unironically the best option you have in the modern world is some no father figure borderline mentally retarded becky who you'll basically have to babysit until she does some retarded shit with your money kek
What a great time to be a sexually active male
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>>220764781
Yes and no. I'm a boomer who grew up with everyone gaslighting me, blackpill knowledge when i was young was very very fringe. My nephew is a zoomer and his zoomer circle pretty much accepts much of the blackpill lore, without having talked to them before. On the other hand there are way more whores making money off only fans etc so things aren't perfect. But I think the absolute number of non Chads that became aware is higher. But maybe things are more polarized as well.
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>>220750803
We dont care kf being questioned shit. Most of men that need sex will just go to a nightclub and pretend to care about what foid talks to them while being intoxicated
Belive me im a serious club enthusiastic and there isnt a better feel than talking drunk with your friends then starting to approach women when you are in peak of joy. Talking to them becomes actually funny by then
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>thought I'd get to meet someone in uni
>started in march 2020
>2.5 years of covid lockdowns
>followed by academic strikes
>followed by war
I can count the times I've attended class in person on a single hand
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>>220750803
I'm too busy trvecelmaxxing
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>nordwood jobless manlet
ayy lmao
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I was at an easter festival where they burn a large pyre 2 weeks ago by myself.
I was the only sad bum who was walking around by himself.
I felt like I was at school yard again. Alone. No ine to talk to.
Didn't help that everyone was either younger or older than me.
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>>220764657
He's right. Attending a social function for an activity with the primary motive of meeting a partner, rather than simply engaging with the activity itself is retarded. You're supposed to meet your partner serendipitously and not through some calculated ploy like that.
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There are no young women outside the big cities desu
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who cares about women, where is anyone in their 20s at all?
every club, church, or class or whatever event post college is just 30s typically 40+. Basically everyone in their 20s is gone, inside or moved elsewhere.
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Threads and posts in general like that about men not dating are almost always made by men not dating trying to create some narrative where men not dating is the new norm so they're not outcasts missing out on something everyone else has experienced, experiences and will experience. They always come up with news articles using anecdotal "evidence", social media reactions and testimonies (sometimes even reddit) or clickbaiting claims with zero evidence such as "67% of men not dating! half of men between 18-25 are virgins!" and other nonsense. This is all a coping mechanism. Most of you can't even confirm it since you don't go out. But people who have jobs and a minimum of a social life know that once you turn the computer off and go outside, you see people dating, you see men with women, you see young couples, you see a lot men living, not rotting. This reminds me of when NEETs used to pretend that pretty much every other young guy was a NEET or almost a NEET when in reality unemployment rates for young adults aren't and never will represent a majority or a significant percentage.
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>(((white))) culture
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>>220774106
you can't really undo decades of male immigration and feminist policies that are against these men. tfr shows it's reality and eventually every female and leech will run out of gibs as the state weakens. mgtow/incels/whatever are just ahead of the curve and they feel the decay first.
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>>220774106
>But people who have jobs and a minimum of a social life know that once you turn the computer off and go outside, you see people dating, you see men with women, you see young couples, you see a lot men living, not rotting
I have both and can tell you its not the case. Most men i know are single, even the fairly normie ones
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>>220774106
I could see it varying by where you live, but most of my friends are not. I've known two to have gotten married, only about half have ever dated. My state also has one of the lowest marriage rates in the country, though, so that may play into it. I hardly see anyone my age at all outside by friend groups. This world was made for old people
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>>club books
imagine going to a club to hear females talking about the new book of the 'werewolf bilionarie serie'
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>>220774106
>They always come up with news articles using anecdotal "evidence"
>you see people dating, you see men with women
>my anecdotal evidence good, your anecdotal evidence bad
Literally everyone is talking about loneliness epidemic, even tabloids for normalfags, but anon thinks that all of them are wrong because he saw a few couples outside.
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>>220750803
I feel the same way except opposite. I never even have a chance to interact with females in any meaningful way. The only times I talk to the opposite sex is when I say hello and goodbye to the cashier. 0 interactions otherwise
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>>220771891
>You're supposed to meet your partner serendipitously and not through some calculated ploy like that.
Everyone ever has thought about dating when picking activities to do. It's only in the west, since the year 2000, that thinking of dating opportunities is "icky and degenerate".
>>220774106
>My anecdotes are more powerful than your anecdotes
not an argument
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>>220774106
It's overstated but it's definitely a sizable portion of the population. We've gone from 85% of the population achieving the normalfag nuclear family lifestyle to less than 50%. And for the lower classes especially, there's been a decimation.
F Roger Devlin decades ago wrote about all the incel shit with hypergamy and the sexual revolution causing dysfunction. His conclusion was that it would eventually result in mass depopulation through lower fertility rates, then the replacement through a more conservative and traditionalist culture. That could be in the form of a more traditionalist revival, or through a foreign traditionalist culture like Islam being imposed on the west.
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>>220750803
Most mean realized women will not take you seriously if you are not tall, wealthy, or beautiful, whilst simultaneously realizing the women holding these standards don't even hold up to your own ideals you were willing to pragmatically not stick to, so there was no point wasting your limited time, energy, and resources pursuing them.
Modern women instituted hypergamy in an environment where not only more men than ever can no longer measure up to due to civilizational socioeconomic problems, but the women themselves can't even compete in themselves due to being mids or uggos with shitty personalities.
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>>220759550
>Theres a cute girl at work but she seems really boring. Shes the kind of girl thats glued to her phone watching tiktoks and no hobbies.
Probably because she can get away with doing nothing at work, but you've never talked to her to find out if she has any hobbies and you probably don't have any hobbies either.
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>church
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>>220751113
Niggas can't even sit down in church without stacy the altar server complaining about it
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>>220750803
modern dating is a test of how much public humiliation can a man endure for a woman that might or might not be the one, unless you work at something where you constantly meet new people it's pretty hard once you stop being a student
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also this, in my uni days we were a minority and like half of the guys were fags too
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>>220783717
If she's glued to her phone she has no interest in him. If a girl has any interest in you whatsoever so will display some cues. I'm a fucking 30 year old virgin and even I could tell, because they make them fucking obvious.
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>eugenic
how is it eugenic when the dominant empires of Europe killed themselves with collapsed birthrates and let indians and sub saharan africans inherit the world using the industrial technologies so kindly provided to them?
chad is fucking the women but he isn't making babies
the industrial revolution has been a literal inversion of fitness at a global scale. the civilizations that were the most adapted lost hardest, and those who were the furthest behind won the hardest.
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>>220750803
I don't date because I'm autistic and every woman pisses me off to a certain extent because they talk too much
re: the book club thing I don't know what this bitch expected, most young men don't read and the ones who do treat it either as a form of entertainment they don't need to attend clubs to enjoy or are just autists who realised a long time ago they can find better conversation partners for their hobbies online. I have a gaggle of discord friends and old mates from HS I discuss literature with, why would I go out to some club that's either full of pseuds or foids when I can have a rivetting discussion on Heidegger with them online?
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>>220786101
>how is it eugenic when the dominant empires of Europe killed themselves with collapsed birthrates and let indians and sub saharan africans inherit the world
it's purging the dysgenes which allowed that to happen
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>>220750803
I'm in a relationship with a russian woman, but in my experience, it's nearly impossible to find anyone *compatible* with my lifestyle and interests, especially in the local region (eastern europe), without hiding/concealing my power level in many things, or just pretending to be someone who I'm not really am. And me and her knew each other for 10 years before ending up in the relationship, with no prior dating (unless you count hanging up together in a circle of shared friends once in awhile as such, which I wouldn't, personally). Most women here are too normie and just npc roasties.
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if any of you faggots are in college, just get drunk and approach a girl you like, its what i did. i think alot of the problems you nerds have is that you arent willing to bend the rules, sometimes you gotta treat ur autism like a natural debuff, i do so i use alcohol for social stuff. i admit i am pretty good looking though but alot of people are in their 20s.
unrelated but had a bitch calling me cute and stuff today for a project and damn she has big tits and a nice ass, ive been with the gf for 1.5 years tho and dont wanna throw that away but i do wanna fuck other women, both her and my gf are on the same campus too, wat do? my current girl is a cunt but shes insecure with herself and obsessed with me which i think is a good thing but sometimes 10/10 women throw themselves at me and its like damn dude. 90% sure im gonna regret staying loyal honestly
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>>220750803
i'm too busy being a bender and fucking other dudes tbqhwhyf
at least they know how to play battlefield
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>>220786101
The only ones breeding are rich and religious so people with the most money and self-perpetuation sense respectively. Total slaughter of young and poor on dating market is something good from eugenic point of view as well as it lets flourish chads and older men with better genes and more accumulated resources
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>>220786101
It's called an extreme selection event. If only a tiny fraction of a population reproduces, that's going to have an insane impact on which genes get passed on. No matter if you like these genes or not.
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>>220789709
>Extreme events can be a major driver of evolutionary change over geological and contemporary timescales. Outstanding examples are evolutionary diversification following mass extinctions caused by extreme volcanism or asteroid impact.
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>Evolution is most likely to occur when extreme events alter community composition.
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>How organisms respond to extreme environmental conditions depends in part on their behaviour, prior exposure to extremes, how phenotypically plastic they are, the degree to which they are genetically variable in fitness-related traits, and demographic factors such as lifespan and dispersal (gene flow) [25], as well as the magnitude of deviations from average environmental conditions and on how long these conditions persist relative to the lifespan of organisms.
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