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Is life better if you avoid women? Seems it's 10x more stressful than being alone, but then again it's stressful dealing with FOMO on romantic experiences
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>>34433710
damn I would fuck that stupid bitch
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One rape accusation and your entire life is ruined. You don't even have to actually touch a woman for her to permanently destroy your life.
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Nope, it isn't. Living a life where you try to be peaceful with everyone leads to a less stressful life.
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>>34433710
no of course not. men smell bad, they aren't fun to hug (too muscley instead of soft) and they don't ever give sweet compliments.
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>>34434076
Attention seeker.
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>>34434511
Grumble grumble grumble.
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>>34433710
nah, ever since my ex wife cucked me I've had nothing but peace. Just the other day I dreamt of her and woke up stressed.
Don't think I'll ever commit to a woman again, just whoremaxx and lie to dumb cunts I don't pay for.
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>>34433710
>Seems it's 10x more stressful than being alone
It's more complicated. Life is stressful.

If a person brings more joy than misery to your life, then it might be worth keeping them in your life. Gender is irrelevant.

What fucks people are up is developing various expectations on themselves and others and then stressing over meeting those expectations.
Drop your expectations and imagined meanings. Respond to the reality in front of you.

If the woman you're with is upset over insane nonsense you don't care about, the reality in front of you is that she is upset and you should probably care about that.
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>>34434564
>lie to dumb cunts I don't pay for.
what do you mean by this?
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>>34433710
Short answer: yesn't (yes if you're somewhat in the ace spectrum)
Long answer: If you're one of the types, subconsciously or not, trying to prop up your dating value by selling a "strong independent man" appearance, then give up. It won't work and you'll end up more bitter and frustrated.
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>>34433710
Getting your heart broken is worse than being alone.
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>>34433710
You can literally buy romantic experiences. Love isn't real anyways. Fucking and just enjoy a woman's body is real. Intimacy and orgasm is real. To each their own but I never be able to live with a woman 24/7. Women are sex objects, and wants to be treated like such. This is my experience, maybe I'm wrong, but who gives a fuck about women anyway? Getting into a relationship seems so anticlimactic..
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>>34434932
>buy romantic experiences.
How do you go about this without breaking the bank?
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>>34434932
>Love isn't real anyways.
No, love is entirely real.
What you're likely confusing it with is individual perspective. Your individual perspective of reality isn't truth. It's just your flawed perception.

>Women are sex objects, and wants to be treated like such.
Yes. So are men. It's treating them *only* as sex objects that causes issues.
And I'd like to add that I can respect your willingness to acknowledge that your mother is a sex object. Not everyone can appreciate that.

>who gives a fuck about women anyway?
Giving a fuck about "women" is a losing proposition that I don't recommend.
Giving a fuck about a specific woman can be an incredibly gratifying and wonderful experience.

>Getting into a relationship seems so anticlimactic.
That's likely from your perception of what it was going to be like versus the reality of interacting with another individual human being. Flawed perception is fairly universal. It's important not to learn the wrong lessons from such things though.
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>>34434803
>Getting your heart broken is worse than being alone.
Having experienced both I can testify that is true but only for so long. Eventually, being alone is worse.
I handled the first decade fine. After fifteen years I felt being alone was worse than heartbreak could be. Then I experienced heartbreak while still being alone and confirmed that being in love and having your heartbroken was better than not having loved at all. And I continued to be alone for another five years, rounding out the second decade.

Ironically, I disagreed about this with the girl who ended up breaking my heart after we heard that song.
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girls are not that stressful. Yes, the first year after a heartbreak is the most brutal thing you will experience but you will eventually forget about it and realize you get to search for newer, hotter girls. Being alone is only "worth it" if youre in school or training or investing in yourself in some way. If youre stabilized there is no reason not to have a dating and sex life.
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>>34435502
>there is no reason not to have a dating and sex life
Zero privacy/freedom
Money sink
Compromise

Basically zero upside except sex (hookers and tinder exist). Long term relationships used to be called marriage and having children, which nobody is doing anymore. I feel like this is a case of an old way of doing things becoming obsolete before it fully hits everyone. Actually women are ahead of the curve on that front, men are still stuck being romantics
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>>34433710
>Is life better if you avoid women?
Yours maybe, sure.
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Test.
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>>34435540
Nta

>Zero privacy/freedom
That's just your inability to set boundaries.

>Money sink
Meh, it beats WH40k

>Compromise
Alright, settle down, Rorschach.
Human interaction involves compromise. And, like it or not, human beings are social creatures.
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>>34433710
women treat me right so I like it when I have them around
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Yes.
Humans kill themselves trying to make kids. Then the kids turn out gay like op
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>>34434675
He means, fuck girls who are stupid enough to believe his lies that he loves them and wanted to commit, girls who he met off dating apps, through friends, or just irl, and without paying for them.

>>34434564
And honestly, I agree. Based fellow cucked individual. I was cucked after 5 years together. Heartless, she is.
Whoremaxx is the answer
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>>34436160
Setting boundaries does not result in women obeying boundaries, it just results in women leaving you.
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>>34436443
>Setting boundaries does not result in women obeying boundaries, it just results in women leaving you.
That's either unreasonable boundaries, communicating reasonable boundaries poorly, or the boundaries working extremely well.

Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't respect you and your respectfully established boundaries?

My girl awkwardly but angrily punched me on the arm once. I got out of the parked car, walked to the end of the block, stood for a bit, walked back, got in the car, and calmly explained that she wasn't going to hit me again because I was never going to hit her and I wasn't tolerating a relationship where she could hit me in anger and I was just supposed to take it. It didn't even hurt in the slightest. It was simply crossing a boundary of respect as she'd hit me as hard as she could at that angle.

She was stunned and had never had a guy react like that but accepted my rule immediately.
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>>34436760
And then everyone clapped.
But probably better than my corrective rape idea.
You're very mature.
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>>34433710
Life is better if you follow your true will.
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Life is better if you unironically disregard the appearance of women and choose them based on the quality of their character.

95% of men can't do it

caveat: quality of character and appearance are not completely unrelated. if she has retarded tattoos and smells like cigs and cat piss then obviously steer clear
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>>34436975
Why should I waste time and money on a woman I don’t find attractive
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>>34437000
because it doesn't matter. You will become desensitized to her beauty after a while anyway. Have you heard the expression that goes something like "every 10/10 has a guy thats tired of fucking her" or something? Its pretty true.

also looks are the literally the bait they use to turn you into her servant and provider. The looks which are pretty fucking fake in terms of makeup, shapewear, flattering clothing, expensive creams and the rest.

If you are smart you will flip the script and get woman who percieves you as being better than her, who is willing to serve you, submit to you, etc. Thats how you find happiness with women. You MUST be better than her.
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>>34437012
It's more than beauty eventually fades anyway.
Invest in a person who you want to spend your time with.
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>>34437277
people also change. Every girl is in her best behavior up until marriage where she can slack off and you can't do anything without risking half your assets to her plus tip
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>>34437277
No, its more what I said. Contrary to popular 4chan belief, hot women tend to remain hot for a very long time unless they are mexican or have a thyroid issue or let themselves go.
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>>34437345
why do latina women age so poorly? Is it their diet and lack of self control?
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>>34437345
40 yo white women can be incredibly hot, but sometimes incredibly gross. It depends on lifestyle, genetics and god knows what else.
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>>34433710
Yes and no. On average western women suck. They've been ruined. But, finding the right woman will make life a lot more sweet. Unless you suck as a man too, in that case, the shitty women won't feel as shit.
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>>34437349
Their food is incredibly good and incredibly unhealthy. Genetically they are also just more predisposed to obesity than white people. And everyone is more genetically predisposed to obesity than asians as well.
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>>34437372
western = white women?
that's the only ones I'm into.
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>>34437377
Yes and no ig, since white women are the majority of women in America. But I mean overall. If you want to torture yourself with a white woman who thinks she's on par with men, go for it. But Asians know how to be feminine
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>>34437394
Yeah but your son will be feminine as well. I would unironically rather impregnante a sheboon than an asian. At least I could mold my mulatto son into an elite athlete or something
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>>34437405
Especially given that we are approaching a future where IQ doesn't mean shit since AI does all the thinking.
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>>34437405
I didn't mean physically feminine. Asian women know their role as feminine women. I know a lot of physically masculine af Asian men at my Mauy Thai gym. Don't hate on Asian men, they might have smaller peens, but they're a warrior race.
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>>34437405
Also, I have a black gf and I'm going for a mixed son as well lol. I was going to suggest a black women, as they are very feminine as well. But just assumed you weren't gonna be interested at all, so I just went with Asian suggestion for you.
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>>34437394
can you find asians in America or must it be japan/thailand etc?
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>>34437449
asians in america only live in the bluest of the blue george soros controlled hellscapes and are worse than white girls imo
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>>34437449
You can definitely find Asians in America. Chinese have done great things for themselves here. Find a Chinese woman or Korean. But if you want the best, go to a real Asian country. If me and my gf don't work out, I'm heading to Thai land and getting a Thai gf. But, having a feminine trad woman means you need to be a masculine trad man. Don't think you can just be a gay loser and keep a feminine trad woman.
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>>34437455
yeah that's true in my experience. That or massage parlors.
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>>34437281
>Every girl is in her best behavior up until marriage where she can slack off and you can't do anything without risking half your assets to her plus tip
Meh
It varies.
It's genuinely not difficult to tell if you're being treated with respect by your partner. But half of all men are below average intelligence. On the other hand,
I knew a 7ft slow fella who was able to discern that a girl only wanted to date him because his family, not him, had money.

Everyone changes. Marriage is about commiting to each other throughout life's changes. Some marry poorly.
I'm not sure what you're arguing for exactly.
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>>34437345
>Contrary to popular 4chan belief, hot women tend to remain hot for a very long time
Cute beats hot every time.

What you're likely thinking of is that happy and healthy people seem more attractive and they also stay attractive longer.
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>>34437012
I still fantasize about my highschool crush 15 years later, and still get turned on thinking about how she looked. I don’t understand how you lose interest.
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>>34437394
White women are not a majority in any country wtf kind of cope is this. Or do you actually believe Hispanics are white? You know they have black DNA.
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>>34438358
ahhh yeah I have been there. It didn't take me 15 years but it was more like 8. I had dreams about her on a weekly basis. This type of obsession about your first love is not really subject to the desensitization.

Go find your favorite porn video. Exclusively watch that porn video every time you jerk off. See how long you can go. I bet you quit around the 2 week mark. Thats the desensitization I'm talking about
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>>34438367
I cycle what I pleasure too, same content for 12+ years.
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>>34438373
Well you might have a special type of autism that prevents you from craving novelty like a normal person. I assume you also eat the same chicken nuggies at every restaurant and other shit like this as well. You are an outlier and defy conventional wisdom
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>>34437374
>picrel
not real Mexican food…
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>>34438358
What did it for me was seeing her in her 30s and how she aged. I think it just proved to me it was a one sided fantasy and I never really liked her besides lust and teenage hormones in the first place. Which is kind of a disservice to her for all the attention I put on her over my life
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>>34438814
After she got married she got really fat. It’s gross.
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>>34438377
Craving novelty is a made up lie. Not a thing.
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>>34433710
I'm a recluse and can tell you my life is 100% better without hardly anyone in it
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>>34438377
Not really. I like to try new food items but nothing crazy like goat brain or insects.
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>>34434373
Retarded foid.
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>>34439286
you don't know what you're missing. A wife and kids could make you actually fulfilled instead of some hedonist manchild
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>>34439585
I’m not the anon you are replying to but I agree. And that’s what makes me hate life. The stress and defeat of missing out on the only thing I wanted in life has destroyed my body. Made me hit the wall before I was 30. I’ll never get to have a teen gf or take each others virginity.
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>>34439769
You can still find a chick in her early 30s to have a a kid or two with.
>teen gf or take each others virginity
I did this and it's overrated. I don't even think about it much.
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>>34439771
Women over 23 are ugly
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>>34439882
didn't you say you were ugly? It's a looksmatch. Unless you're paying up that's the best a guy can do. Girls usually date up since they have so many options to choose from with social media.
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>>34439882
Kek. Post pics. Lets see your striking beauty, anon.
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>>34439882
Men with an IQ under 23 are ugly.
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>>34440135
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>>34439882
19 year old women are ugly hags
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>>34440142
you yourself are an ugly hag so you'd be lucky to get someone that's not a Quasimodo
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>>34434564
I'm pretty much there as well. I wasnt cucked but my well is empty on giving an honest fuck about a woman. I'm perfectly OK with getting ass and then cutting her loose. My last 2 relationships showed me in great detail why I should of never made things serious just cause we were fucking.
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>>34437349
Hispanic women whore out very young so it's damn near impossible to find one in their late 20's that doesn't look like a tatted up street rat. Some say it's because they get abused by uncles or some shit but I believe it's mostly just their culture giving them the green light to be a little slutbag as soon as her puberty ends. I mean idk where you live but if you look at young teen hispanic girls? You can instantly tell she's sucking/taking dick.
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>>34440162
you need your hard drive checked
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>>34440730
Was raised around em, grew up and went to school with em, lost my virginity to one, and i live in a predominantly hispanic area. You can continue to be retarded if you like.
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>>34440142
The ones that don’t get tattoos, tans, fat, vape and smoke are actually pretty. But yeah 18 is usually when they start to wall, from all the underage alcohol and smoking they do, and sex.
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>>34433710
Cute feet

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