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/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything
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How To Get Out?
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I’m looking for advice about a long-term relationship that I feel stuck in.I’ve been with my par...
losing all motivation for sex and relationships passed the age of 25
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Is it normal to have zero interest in sex or relationships passed 25? I am 29 now and since i got mi...
Thread #34441955
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I don't feel right when I'm in harmony with my friends, family. I feel like I'm being managed. I fee...
Why don't women show interest in me online?
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I'm handsome, 6ft+, good hairline, fitzpatrick 3 skin colour, Indian living in India and not fat. wo...
Obsession
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I fear a may be obsessed with a man, but I don't think it's mutual. I don't want to think about him ...
peptides for anxiety
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has anyone tried GB-115 or any other peptides for anxiety?
Thread #34441811
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>hanging out with my girlfriend>we've been together for four months>we haven't had sex because I don...
Would it be worth it to get diagnosed with schizophrenia?
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My mental health has been spiraling downward the past several years. I was pretty bad before I got i...
Am I doing something wrong??
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I'm an engineering student. I plan to take some internships this summer but so far I get by everyone...
Too late?
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At 26, I am a KHHV, no friends no social life. At my age is there any point even trying with women s...
Sexual frustrated due to gf libido
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Basically sex drive is very different between me and long term gf. It started fine, with sex at leas...
Thread #34440355
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Okay, so I'm broke as fuck and on food stamps, and I'm resorting to this ramen noodle shit as my bas...
Thread #34439534
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What advice can you give me to ensure I don’t waste my twenties?
Thread #34437665
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How bad looking is my toe? Is it bad?Forgive me for being brown.
Thread #34440343
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>Be me>22 y/o moid>Start talking to 18 y/o foid from Plebbit>Some days later "I'm actually 17 btw">S...
I'm becoming my mother and I dont know what to do
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Im getting old and my life feels completely empty. My mom was at least married by my age, and its re...
Embarrassingly haunted by interracial porn thoughts
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Hello, this is rather embarrassing to admit. But lately I've been trying to confront my flaws and mo...
Thread #34436701
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I believe I made a crazy good app for the pebble smartwatch.There is a contest and the app is doing ...
Hit dream job, can't stop thinking about women
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I've been unemployed most of my youth, but due to some friends having knowledge in the industry I've...
advice for u today
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1. Wear mismatched socks on purpose. 2. Ask a stranger what color their thoughts are. 3. Hide a tiny...
Learning Guitar at 30
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How do I play guitar? I know I started way too late but how do I even get good at this? I want to pl...
Thread #34441462
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How do you deal with jealous people?
Thread #34433710
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Is life better if you avoid women? Seems it's 10x more stressful than being alone, but then again it...
How to get a personality
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I feel like I have nothing to talk about with others. Seems like I've been this way since elementary...
Rejection message after first date
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Went on a date for the first time in a while last night, thought she was the most amazing girl I’v...
Thread #34441625
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What do straight people find hot about a woman wanting cock? Or the man desiring the woman? I like t...
My advice on how to make the best of /adv/
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(1/2) FOREWORDI love /adv/. It is truly a privilege to be able to offer someone wisdom in their time...
Thread #34439197
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Why shouldn't I kill myself?I live in a shitholeAbused by single mother, cut contactcountry doesn't ...
Pornography addiction
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I don't think I need to tell you why it's pornography is extremely harmful for your wellbeing. I kno...
Thread #34437644
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I accidently shot cum onto my headphonesWhat do?
Zoning Out
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Lately I have been chronically zoning out incredibly hard. Everything was going well a few weeks ago...
anyone good with blankets?
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I have this plushy blanket that I don't really want to get rid of, but it smells like sweat. It's be...
Hacks to ascend (if you want to try)
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Since I was not getting women irl or on dating apps, I decided to use other methods. Some of you her...
Thread #34438877
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If you’re going through a tough time and feel like you won’t be able to pull through, think twic...
Side income
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I'm looking to make some extra money each month. -things like being a handyman in my state are illeg...
Thread #34438237
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I’ve skipped every obligatory seminar because i’m a social reject and panic outside alone unless...
Stuck in a rut
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I need practical tips and advice to get out of a creative rut, I spend the day wasting away and avoi...
Dreams
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How do I stop excessive dreaming?My dreams are fucking endless and just stress me out, the best slee...
how to get hair like this
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i want floofy hair.
Thread #34439103
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If you're bored, literally up your risk factor
Thread #34439923
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Is hopping from video to video on YouTube worse for you mentally than channel surfing was in the 90s...
How’s my handwriting?
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>Been told its looks shit in hs>Worked on it ever sinceHow am I doing chat
Thread #34441583
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When I was younger, I used to get these bouts of hypomania that were the greatest possible high I co...
Dating women older than you?
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For once in my life a woman is actually interested in me and I actually like her also. I rarely get ...
Custom Audio Cable Business
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I've decided to start a custom cable business in which I'd made specific length and connectors accor...
Thread #34441093
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How do I progress my career as a junior lawyer?I am a lawyer working in a very niche commercial law ...
severely autistic man looking to move to another country. how do i do it?
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>be me>sheltered by my mother for most of my adult life>has been through so much trauma and abusive ...
Thread #34440913
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How do I make good use of my time as a NEET?
Drowning, career pivot at 35
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After 10+ years in VFX in top tier films and TV, the last 2 years I have been more unemployed than e...
How to appease a subreddit ban?
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So I recently got permabanned from a subreddit, all because I told some tranny that they will never ...
Thread #34435364
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What would you do if you had millions of dollars but you already did everything you wanted to do in ...
Why do I love big women?
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I dream about having a big wife I come home to, kiss her and rub her big belly then fucking the shit...
G.I.O.Y.C
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Vent here. Its safe here frenz
Thread #34435982
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I'm 30, been working as a programmer for 6 years and got in right after graduating uni with the equi...
Thread #34440636
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Would you be friends with someone who has schizotypal? And if you find out someone you're friends wi...
Thread #34440218
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How do you cope with the fact that nobody likes you, nobody cares about you, and even if some people...
Thread #34438101
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Is it possible to find an 8/10 woman that would gladly date a 3/10 loser like me?What do I bring to ...
Thread #34439331
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Have you ever done something stupid in your life that was completely out of character for you. Somet...
Second date in 24 hours
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She moved it forward 2 weeks to tomorrow. Any last minute advice bros?
Thread #34439175
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How do I cope with being 5'7?
Thread #34437760
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Why does me not having a personality freak people out so much?
Need some perspective
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What do you guys do when feeling nihilistic and like there is no future to be had? I've reached a po...
Thread #34439079
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How do I get over my past?
Chasing Success
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I want to be a filmmaker but I have no connections, no friends, and this dream of mine seems hopeles...
is their any hope for me?
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>37>NEET for basically entire life>no high school or college education>dropped out of school in 8th ...
Thread #34440570
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I just got a wheel of epoisses cheese from the grocery store out of curiosity. It smells fucking put...
IS THERE ANY HOPE FOR ME???
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>29>Employed at a shithole but the experience and pay is cool>Graduated high school>Left the house b...
/htgwg/ - How to Get Women General #343
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>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your ques...
Likelihood of Getting Breadcrumbed?
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My friend says that this is more than likely but I think he's a retard and a cynic. Then again he ha...
Don't trust men
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I view all men as my enemy; in degrees of course. But it causes me to constantly be stressed out whe...
unhealthy habit
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i consider myself a good person even if sometimes i believe and think about stuff that are by standa...
Thread #34438630
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My grandfather owned a large ranch in Mexico. When he left, he left me and my dad as the only two be...
Thread #34436993
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Every woman I've approached has rejected me because I didn't like some shit that they like.And if I ...
Thread #34436177
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>put one of my moms tampons up my asshole to see what it feels like>didn’t realise you are suppose...
Can a man see an ugly woman's inner beauty?
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I'm far from conventionally attractive. in fact I think most people would agree I'm ugly/below avera...
Thread #34439892
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it seems like work is overwhelming agitating and depressing no matter how easy the job itself is or ...
Thread #34440350
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I took a very serious decision in my life after i finished high school. Basically i went down the ra...
Buspirone
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Redpill me on Buspirone. I have been prescribe it as an alternative to SSRIs for anxiety/panic attac...
I am a MASTER SEDUCER - AMA
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Having trouble with women? Use this as a thread to enquire.I am a lifelong student of psychology, ev...
Thread #34438344
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What's a good job for an overly sensitive person that hates being around people?
How does an introverted loner find love?
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I rarely go out, but when I do, I'm usually with my mother, who refuses to let me go alone despite b...
bf going soft
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hello. so my bf is on a cocktail of drugs including an upper and apparently he said it only started ...
Life is going downhill.
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> Study> Attempt Suicide> Drop out> Job seek> Find job> Attempt suicide> Get fired> No job, no studi...
Thread #34437998
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Stupid people still know how to lie and be emotionally manipulative.I couldn't find a thread for thi...
How to find a girlfriend and make it work.
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I'm a 18 year old female, turning 19 in like... 20 days. I genuinely want to find a girl to love and...
Thread #34439490
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>write lots of words to give a thorough explanation>some faggot asshole prick douchebag shitface say...
Thread #34435745
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Should I just get it over with and hookup on Tinder? I'm a 25 year old KHHV, I don't have sex since ...
Is this manipulation
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How much of social deception is too much? I know everyone does it from time to time, pretending to b...
Thread #34439217
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so i said something to a friend which she found extremely offensive and sexist, i talked with severa...
Thread #34438494
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I’m a 25 year old virgin interested in getting into dating. What advice would you give to me, a to...
Thread #34384000
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I want to have a large family. What steps do you need to take to have one? Where and how can you fin...
Should I do mushrooms or DMT
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I've already done mushrooms once, but I want to try a really big heroic dose now. But I've been hear...
Thread #34438829
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The more I lose my hair the more self-conscious I get. Can any anons who went through this tell me h...
Thread #34436909
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How to find a nerd boyfriend? I adore guys who are very passionate about some topic and can talk abo...
Thread #34437287
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Have you found success treating Instagram like a dating app? I saved this advice a bit ago and found...
Thread #34434343
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How do I tell my Jewish girlfriend that I'm an anti-Zionist who supports Iran and Palestine?
where to go for weird internet happenings
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the internet feels boring nowadays. does any crazy weird or crazy shit still happen?
Thread #34435627
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my bfs into feet but im too embarrassed cause im lwk autistic and walk on my tip toes at home and my...
/atoga/ - Ask The Opposite Gender Anything
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Old: >>34436195
Thread #34437548
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How difficult is it to become a professor in academia? (fine art field specifically) as someone with...
Thread #34439758
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Im handicapped, i want to live on my own and move out but i dont hv a job or money. Thalassemia mino...
Thread #34436963
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My father keeps telling me I'm the one who needs to change when I say everything sucks.Why can't I f...
Thread #34403925
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Alright, simple fucking question.I wear women's lingerie when I'm masturbating or just lounging abou...
Is this too rude?
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How are you?>Thanks, but you don't have to pretend to care about that. I know you don't like me. I t...
Running away
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I was thinking of hitting the road without telling anyone, just disappear. I'd be homeless and live ...
Thread #34439351
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Is it normal to be embarrassed by my brown girlfriend in public? I always feel like other people wil...
Thread #34439105
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how do I get women to show interest in me and chase after me?>inb4 make the first moveno, that's aga...
Thread #34439583
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Am I a retard if I'm into cum tributes?
I wasted my life
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I'm almost 30, still haven't graduated from college yet, it was my dream to go into a PhD and become...
I want a cat but keep getting rejected
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I've been applying for cats at animal shelters and rescues and I never hear back. Sometimes they get...
Every day I think about my old job
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This is a rant. I've worked at 4 supermarkets in my life. I've currently been working at a supermark...
What are some things I can do for fun while I’m on IR?
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I’ve got multiple ligament tears in my wrist which is going to prevent me from doing a lot of acti...
Thread #34436818
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do any of you anons have any advice on how to rescue this dog from its caged kennel? the previous ow...
Bearded Dragon Care
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It looks like I'm going to be fostering a Bearded Dragon for some indefinite amount of time. It's be...
Thread #34438012
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How does a 5'2 Mexican find sex in NYC? This honestly seems to be hell. Most Latinos are PR/Dominica...
why do goth women seem to always like dudes like this?
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if it's not some fat geek, it's some scott pilgrim-ish weezer type dude, is it "bpd and wanting to f...
What job should i try to get?
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I have a master's in Computer Science and have been unemployed for almost 1.5 years. Applied to 2000...
How to get full-time job at 16 years old
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> be me> 16, living in the US> going to school but it feels pointless> most of the stuff they teach ...
IT or nah?
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Is IT still worth pursuing in 2026.>muh A.I and layoffsYeah yeah yeah. I'm aware. But this is someth...
Thread #34430760
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My boyfriend can masturbate (including to photos of me) but can only have sex with me with Viagra. I...
Relationship material
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How do you even meet girls who want to date?Every girl I've fallen for just wants "casual" stuff, ju...
Thread #34429553
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Girl I wanted to ask out has a small tattoo in her right arm shoulder. I don't think can't take her ...
Thread #34438039
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Is losing virginity to a prostitute at 22 years old reasonable? Being a virgin is starting to really...
ostracization
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I can't understand the narrative of "I faced hate and ostracization" therefor I shall deceive thy on...
How Do I Adjust to My Adult Life?
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>Be me>just out of college>23 y/o>Job: Paralegal at local gov.College was rough for me. Knew a lot o...
Thread #34438472
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Is taking viagra more than 3 times a week actually a problem? I'm having a girl over for a week and ...
GIOYC
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Feel free.
Thread #34437147
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Why is everyone so cruel? To me and each other? Why do they lie telling themselves and others they'r...
Thread #34436089
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I have a business, it is making decent money but it is just drudgery work. my passion and talent is ...
I love my kid but I regret becoming a parent
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I became a father few months ago. I love my kid but I don’t think we’ve made a good decision to ...
Failure
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I'm posting this here as I just need to say it.I feel like a failure.I can't clean the house, make m...
Leave job with nothing lined up
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I've been working at some tech company in Dallas for the past 3 years and while the job is high payi...
how do i get a latex freak gf in a 200k+ city in central eastern europe?
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what are the requirements? How do you find women that are into latex? Is it just fetish sites? Do yo...
Thread #34432396
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What advice do you have for someone who feels extremely cynical, pessimistic, and wholly outcasted f...
SSRI
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Has anyone ever sucessfully quit these things?I am not depressed but I have used Zoloft most of my a...
i love being pathetic because I think I'm worthless
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I feel trapped in an endless cycle of behaviors that reinforce and deepen my selfhatred. I overapolo...
Can I be prideful in my work
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How do I stop feeling like a loser for working at McDonald’s at 34(All I could get as a 5-yr forme...
I told the truth
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And I'm having a panic attack.The truth wasn't in my favour an I basically loose a part of land beca...
how to get out of hospitality work
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i am 22, and all of my work experience is in hospitality/kitchen work. i dread imagining im going to...
Thread #34436808
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>Went off my meds>Was on Wellbutrin>Started taking control of my life and had optimism>went off 2 mo...
Thread #34438834
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How do I deal with obesity in my family?My father died of a heart attack when I was 8. He was over 3...
Help with side hustles
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You guys know about any side hustle i can do from home? I've tried dataannotation and outlier AI, bu...
When is an age gap too big?
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I am a 24 year old male and I have been going on dates with a 19 year old female college student. We...
Thread #34430002
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Manlets who do well with women how? Do they approach you or what?Also how tall
How to become asexual
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I’m an incel and I have no motivation to do anything for that reason. My family is aware of that I...
Uplifting media
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I am bedridden for at least another month, and nobody to interact with. What's worse is I've been jo...
How do you get a gf these days?
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I'm a male, late 20s.I really want a girlfriend, but I don't know how to get one. I have a job, but ...
HELP
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I don't wish to have bastardized children. I don't want my children to be known as that of a mommy w...
Thread #34436815
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what would you guys recommend me to do?i have a lesbian friend who i developed sexual feelings for b...
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