Thread #34435627
my bfs into feet but im too embarrassed cause im lwk autistic and walk on my tip toes at home and my soles are kinda hard cause of it what do i do? Pedicure isnt an option im broke rn and will be for a while +too embarssed to ask him to buy me one. would he care? He puts my feet on his face and shit but i get so embarrassed
im too scared to give a fj and hes asked me so many times im just so scared man idk what to do he looks so sad and thinks itll never happen im just too scared
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>>34435627
He probably wouldn't care, sound like he already likes your feet as they are. Have you asked him to give you a pedicure? Since he loves feet, it might be something he enjoys, then you have a nice little bonding session over it.
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>>34435627
inb4
>I can't explain it
I get extremely frustrated when women shut down due to "pressure" or "embarrasment", and so I would like to use this opportunity to ask you to please describe what it feels like to be embarrassed, how the embarrasment works to inhibit you, and why it is impossible for you to just push through the embarrasment and just do it anyway? Please, OP, it would help me and many other men immensely.
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>>34435627
You're not supposed to do anything with your feet other than get them on his laps
Insecurities in women are absolutely unsexy to men, not whatever your soles are
Also by my experience you're completely delusional about your feet as well as having anxiety and complexes. Work on your psychology, not cosmetics. Start by giving him the feet to play with. He's invited you long enough.
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>>34435627
I'm seconding this >>34436955 post. The problem isn't about your feet. A sudden magical transformation by the most talented pedicure specialist is only a bandaid solution to the underlying problem. It's an emotional/confidence issue, and how to fix that depends on what your underlying assumptions and formative insecurities are. For example: is it a type of perfectionism? Does it NEED to match a specific standard you've internalized? Are you worried you can't meet his standards, or at least your idea of what his standards might be? Do you have a highly positive self concept and are worried that messing up while trying something new might disrupt that self identity? Are you communicating these issues with him. Has he been understanding towards it? Has he suggested anything?