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How to find a nerd boyfriend? I adore guys who are very passionate about some topic and can talk about it without interruption, I generally like to listen. If you're a nerd, please share what you like about girls
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>>34436909
I like when they like what I like, or at least respect those interests :) (music and poetry in my case)
I also like when girls have hobbies and interests of their own, things they get really passionate about and excited about. It's so cute when their faces light up talking about things they love.
Also ambition is sexy
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>>34436909
You like extroverts? Because I could talk deeply about a wide range of topics, I like to learn about new things but drop them when they start being about rote memorization. However, I don't initiate conversation because of avoidant personality. I fear people talking about me, judging me etc, so anxiety builds up and I can't figure what's the right thing to say or how to say it, brain overloads and the window to talk closes.
What do I like? Well, that she probes me to keep me talking, that she's physical and drags me to places. That makes it clear that she trusts me, unlike anyone else, so in turn I can be spontaneous around her without judgement.
What else? Appearance. Dressing like a bimbo or gothy-punky, having big tits and showing them off like in OP. I'd love it if they were into a wide arrange of anime (not shonenshit of course) or movies. It seems girls hardly ever have personalities.
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>If you're a nerd, please share what you like about girls
Was never a nerd as a kid/teen I was always a bit of a rogue and a street kid but turned out I was a closet nerd in the end.
What I like about girls is their emotive perspective, how they always feel before they think, the way they care more about people than things, their passive care for perfection or at least making sure things are "just right", and I really like their color coordination and their ability to have an eye for all things beautiful.
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I love boobs so fucking much. Will you add me on discord? I'm the ultimate nerd bf. Love medieval/fantasy events, love folk music, I'm in a choir, I enjoy deep conversation, I'm highly empathetic, I love d&d, I love playing board games, occasionally enjoy video games (and it's also what I study), and I'm a good looking fella with long black hair. Please. Get to know me. (I'm from the Netherlands)
What I like about girls is when they care about me, are attentive to me, have a very deep attachment style that some would call clingy, but still a respectful person, and she's a girl that's into taking walks together, cooking together, doing everything together. <3
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>>34436909
He will probably try apps when he is ready for a gf. He will look for someone kinda cute and nerdy themselves, not an aura farmer. Whatever his passion is he will mention it in his bio. He will really like it if you try to learn at least a little so you understand what he's saying, he will do the same for you probably. Wish I had more advice but that's it
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>>34436909
>what do I like about girls
I don't like the structure of this question. On a broad term, I like feminine curves and features. But beyond that, I don't like anything about anybody. I don't know them, so I have nothing that I can say I like.
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>>34436909
I like different things about different girls.
I had a strong attraction to one for her personal strength and dark nature, while another one for her innocent demeanor and exceptional smile.
Generally, though, I like girls when they have a cute sense of humor, or a playful detachment from situations that I find calming.
Mostly it varies, though, and I enjoy seeing two differing personalities react to one another to create novel connections.
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>>34436909
>If you're a nerd, please share what you like about girls
Admittedly I'm an unholy mix of nerdy and country so I might not be your target demographic for the question
I love a cozy girl with ambition. I like a girl who's not afraid to roll up her sleeves and help me build her raised garden beds, a girl who's ok with passing me tools as I fix our home. I like a girl who cooks with me, tells me straight if the food is missing something and likes trying new things. I like a girl who is just as happy to be cuddled up on the couch under a soft blanket. I like a girl who holds my hand while I drive, who asks me to play the games I got her hooked on with her and who loses her cool when she sees a cute animal. I like a girl who can RAMBLE about her interests, who can't help but spill her work gossip as soon as she gets in the door, a girl who tells me all the weird things that happened at work even though she knows body stuff kinda grosses me out. I love a girl who rocks sweats or dresses, who dresses like a librarian most of the time and who blows my mind every single sundress season.
My wife. I love my wife.
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>>34436909
Assuming you're serious and not a tranny, hit nerd hotspots like local game stores (and sometimes video game stores, but those are a dying breed) and pick one, if you're not a hamplanet their reactions will range from slightly nervous to terrified
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>a girl who tells me all the weird things that happened at work even though she knows body stuff kinda grosses me out.
Are you memeing that you're the husband of a stripper? Have you stooped this low for a cuck fantasy? Enjoy your nut nerd nigger
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The fuck do you think people will assume with "body stuff"
Also cute post but I think people here want to hear how you blow out her pussy and fill her womb with cum way more than the whole cutesy settled down life thing that you're selling here, no worries if you enjoy it. I'm just saying we're all incels and sure we all want to hear about how you had a meaningful connection but then also how you fucked her in the ass and came in her ass
Dirty gal that she is (only for you of course)
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>>34436909
Milk
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Leche
Leite
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>>34436909
We're usually so immersed in our interests that we don't usually go out as much. The more outgoing nerds will probably be in clubs or hobby groups, or more likely in online chat rooms. The more introverted ones will probably be in places where they need to be in public to pursue their interests, like academic institutions or again, clubs or chatrooms, or they may be quietly tagging along with their nerd friends. There's also libraries and conventions too.
As for what I like about women... that's actually a difficult question to answer and not for a bad reason. The truth is that most people will have their own list of traits that they like about women, and it probably has a 90% overlap with a list of things they like about people in general. The only obvious outliers are their bodies and typical feminine characteristics, which even then there's still a wide range of opinions out there on what's the best. Also, not all traits are valued equally at all stages of life. Younger guys tend to be more shallow and hormonal about their tastes compared to older men for example. Really you should just focus on developing your own passions, develop your own edges so to speak. Work off of your strengths, and round out your weaknesses. As long as you can show what you enjoy you'll be naturally attractive to like-minded people and people who are interested in your lifestyle. Being a good person will get you 90% of the way there and that last 10% is down to individual taste which is hard to account for.
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Funny how boys can quickly give their shit up lol
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>>34436909
>How to find a nerd boyfriend?
I'm not sure how a girl would find me, I don't really do much social stuff.
>If you're a nerd, please share what you like about girls
Aside from the obvious being physical attraction, I like the idea of having a companion that I can share my enthusiasm for interests with. They don't need to be someone who actively involves themselves with what I do, but at the very least don't impair my ability to interact with said interests.
If they do take an interest of their own, great, but it isn't required. Reliable romantic relationships are built on shared values rather than shared interests, but both is good of course.
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I wasnt thirst larping, though I did give OP my honest answer. You act as if it wasn't obvious she was doing the most obvious female manipulation to fish for easy attention. And her manipulation game needs a lot of work too, a lot of work. I've seen 16 year olds with better cunning
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How are you all retarded for this shit?
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Humiliation loses its weight in anonymous spaces. Other people are required to feel it or experience it. And there also has to be a piece of you that wants to cater to the wants and needs of others. You might feel you're humiliating me by pointing it out, but I don't feel that same humiliation. You're just feeling it yourself on my behalf when I couldn't care less.
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>Go to a discussion board
>Ask a normal question relevant to the board's general topic
>People start discussing it and giving honest answers
>HAHA I MADE YOU GUYS TALK ABOUT A NORMAL TOPIC GET OWNED LOL
This is like the anti-joke of trolling, where you troll so hard it comes back to being a completely normal discussion.