>>34437287
Make content because you enjoy it. I very rarely post photos of myself and use it to send funny things to my boyfriend or friends. Don't actually care about anyone..

>>34437306
I just enjoy legal age attractive pussy and making money. I don't really consume content. It's a means to an end.
Thinking to get a 2nd phone and SIM to make an account like a dating app without my family/friends getting recommended to follow it. Prob would use my middle name and a fake last name too with new photos just to be sure.

>>34437287
Haven't tried that, but yes. If you talk to girls irl, ask for their insta. You can try to get something from instagram directly too.

>>34437316
>If you talk to girls irl
Where do you recommend talking with them? I'm open to cold approaching when out at stores or bars/clubs, but it seems adding on IG funneling to stories etc is the most efficient. I can even boost my pics at $10 a day to add girls who liked the photos. Main goal is just to get as much exposure as possible efficiently. I'm already a well off attractive guy (just introverted)

>>34437287
I met my first gf on Instagram. But we were very young, like 16 and 17. The chances are slim. You need to showcase an attractive lifestyle, and have friends.

>>34437336
I can show a pretty good lifestyle since I travel a lot, but none of my friends are on social media anymore except one. I usually just message a buddy to meet for tennis or a hike through the week, that's it.

No thats incredibly retarded. Its really hard to fake being cool and popular with social media like that. You are really stepping into the womans frame with instagram

>>34437322
You know what your doing. Don't listen to me.

>>34437353
I only care about hitting my goals, which is a harem of hot girls to date. Open to other ideas. I haven't found good results from cold approaching or bars though. Sometimes it works, but most of the time it seems like a waste. With dating apps I've had harems, but I'm mostly dating down in terms of looks, I want a looksmatched situation, maybe someone slightly above who finds me especially their type. To me it seems most likely on IG + pay to win on dating apps funneling to IG.

>>34437344
Showing vulnerability, relatability a lil dorkiness, fun, attractive selfies, etc etc; would be your best bet. That's what most girls I talk to are interested in. Not really money and materialism. Having money is like having a big dick. Yeah women like it, but they want the deeper aspects. If you attract a woman using your wealth, you're attracting a gold digger.

>>34437287
kek i just created a thread about this, and I did not see yours. Sorry. Instagrammaxxing is the way to go.
>>34437298

>>34437385
I don't mean to attract women through wealth, just through lifestyle and good pics of myself, then keep them through nice dates where I get to know them.
>>34437392
Oh yeah nice. Will check out

>>34437316
Is Snap dead then? I thought insta was just a way to share photos youve taken, but I'm way out of the game if youre supposed to use it to meet women

>>34437492
I've met women through snap just by adding the recommended, but it's mostly dudes larping as girls from what I've seen or girls with onlyfans trying to make some quick money. Better ROI go for IG

>>34437492
Snap is just for texting people and buying drugs lol. Always has been. Stories were just a bonus

>>34437369
I just don't get it man. You are talking about building an infrastructure to funnel girls into meeting you at the bar when you could just.... met girls at the bar. And if you don't use the instagram stuff you have way more power to bend the truth and represent yourself as being cooler and more successful than you are and stuff like this.

Its not a bad idea to build yourself a mouse trap or whatever but if you are going to do this then go all the way. Set up something IRL where YOU are the leader and where females are likely to attend. Thats a major hack to getting pussy espeically if we have established that your game and interpersonal skills are lacking. Of course instagram can play into this as well. But I would think its much smarter to frame things as a buisness rather than being guy number 9000 trying to appear like a cool chill popular guy on instagram in her dms

>>34437504
Nah it's funneling to meet girls for coffee, getting a bite to eat, a bar or straight to my place.
Most girls don't show up to bars and if they do they're in a group of other girls who won't let them go away with anyone. I do agree bars can work though. I sometimes book a hotel next to one I know with hot chicks on holidays, then bring a girl back walking distance. On non-holidays it's a gamble.

>Set up something IRL where YOU are the leader and where females are likely to attend
Like what? I know it could work, but then it's a massive time sink where you have to commit to showing up very regularly for months and you can't really date another girl without spoiling the well.

From what I've seen the future of meeting people is online with some success occurring through cold approach too.

>>34437504
Setting up something irl has little ROI. Instagram is better because you don’t have to leave your house to play the numbers game, and you can still pull in the end.

>>34437504
Dude, meeting girls at bars...if you meet a woman at a bar, you're meeting trash. Do better. Meet a woman at the gym or church or somewhere that represents values.

>>34437501
I was in college in the early 2010s and it was basically a sexting app even then, where do people sext now? I'm not about to send shit in an IG dm message

>>34437534
This is my thinking, too. I still approach from time to time at the farmers markets or at Trader Joes, but it's like 3/10 chance she's single and 1/10 we go out.
With IG and dating apps I can talk to 10 single chicks at the same time. I can even just copy/paste the same shit to speed up the funnel.
>>34437545
>if you meet a woman at a bar, you're meeting trash
True, but it's the same shit at IG and dating apps. I'd argue bars are better than dating apps since those chicks are usually with groups of friends who will cockblock the shit out of most guys. Girls on dating apps sleep around anon straight to a chad's place.
>gym
Every gym chick I've known was a bar thot, too.
>church
This can work assuming she's under 22, otherwise she's prob a born again christian whore.
>>34437546
It still is a sexting app. I funnel chicks I don't plan to meet on there to just sext. Wouldn't do it on IG since they can report you and ban the account. Texting can be ok but then they can save it/blackmail.

>>34437545
>>34437576
It’s actually the complete opposite of what you think. Any woman who you can pick up at the gym is going to be trash and a hyper extroverted whore. Normal women require the social lubrication of alcohol and to be in a setting that encourages meeting strangers. A girl you would actually want is going to be EXTREMELY uncomfortable being approached at the gym. You are tremendously fucking stupid for not understanding this.

>>34437687
Idk why you (you)'d me. I said they were trash too. I've dated the most introverted girls that went bar hopping with friends and they'd always reveal they got blackout drunk at times and left with dudes on occasion. You don't want girls who ever did this. You'd be lucky they even reveal anything. Most will lie and say it never happened.

>>34437534
I don't understand. You mean to tell me you are taking these bitches directly from texting to them coming over and having sex without an IRL meetup? Enjoy your aids lol

>>34437523
Witch path is shorter retard bro?

bar>sex

instagram>texting>coffee>dinner>bar>sex

>>34437731
Bars are best when it works, but that only works certain days of the week towards the end of the night. By that time I'm already tired. You also have to live really close or she'll bail.

>coffee>dinner>bar>
It's also not all those steps. It's usually texting -> my place or meeting at a bar/coffee then my place. No dinner unless it's a quick fast food thing.

>>34437726
No, there are dates between texting and having sex, but it’s just less of a hassle than building something irl without guaranteed pussy. Just get to the point lmfao

>>34437576
Well, by that logic every woman you can meet anywhere will be a whore. So my point is, meet a woman where there's values in play. Gym=a woman who shows discipline and is willing to put the work in. Church=faith and hopefulness. Etc. what does the bar represent? Hedonism. >>34437687
If you meet a "normal" woman at a bar who requires booze to be social, chances are, she's been there a lot to get "lubed" an fucked plenty by men she barely knows. Maybe your anecdotal evidence is real, because I only go to a Mauy Thai gym where no one is there for fucking. But, my anecdotal evidence is that women at conventional gyms are actually extremely uncomfortable with being hit on. Not that I go there, but from the videos of women getting bitchy because a guy walked up and talked to her. Also, nice lil insult there, calling me stupid while your whole point is built on bullshit honestly.

>>34439066
>women at conventional gyms are actually extremely uncomfortable with being hit on
This is because they don't have makeup and they're in gym clothes. They don't want guys looksmatched to them to approach (i.e. a 5 to a 5). They rather put makeup to make themselves a 6 or 7 and have a legit 6 or 7 approach them (then turn back to a 5 when they lock them in a relationship).

>>34439029
>adding extra steps is less of a hassle

not making sense to me. If she likes you online she might still not want to fuck you. If she likes you in person odds are way higher of closing. Its usually the step of going from online to in person when girls get the random ick and shit. You literally are making no sense.

The only argument for instagram or whatever is that you can "approach" at a higher rate of speed than you can IRL. No bar has a thousand girls in it. But otherwise IRL is just superior, faster, and more rewarding.

>>34439066
A bar only represents hedonism to your retarded muslim fucking ass. Millions of normal girls get dragged out to bars with their coworkers friday after work. You have a small childs idea of what a bar is lol

>>34439826
>Millions of normal girls get dragged out to bars with their coworkers friday after work
These are whores. Non-whores wont agree to bars with coworkers who want to fuck them or see them embarrass themselves to get them fired.

>>34439833
lol you are a mentally ill freak, the actual last person who should be giving anyone else advice

>>34439846
Whores are great for fun but you have low standards if you'll wife up girls who frequent bars and work for a corporation etc.

>>34439856
nah bro stop talking you are mentally ill as fuck

also the thread is about how to get girls not how to find a virginal wife fucking nigger

Just to remind everyone in this thread: women are generally sluts/whores. The only thing keeping them from fucking a certain man is their standards. If she’s not fucking someone, it’s because he’s not attractive enough for her. That’s literally all it is.