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Is losing virginity to a prostitute at 22 years old reasonable? Being a virgin is starting to really bother me.
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>>34438039
you mean the one you pay or the one who will break up with you over minor incidents. Either way you aint gonna get a non whore in this generation. Its better you paid since thats a contribution to the economy one way or the other.
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To me it's completely obvious that it would be better to live chastely as a virgin than to corrupt yourself, but I don't know how to convince you since you somehow think these are at all in competition.
What do you think happens after the prostitute, are you somehow going to be more worthy of love after? Or are you just going to corrupt your view of sex and women permanently. I suppose it is better to have some experience if you are afraid of women, but then go learn PUA, loksmax, meet girls on dating apps, etc. Don't go with a prostitute...
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saying "being a virgin is starting to bother me" is like saying "not having salmon to eat is starting to bother me" & letting it get to you
chances are there's something else wrong/lacking in your life which sex/salmon might temporarily relieve, but not fix
and imo, relationships are something which should take care of themselves when you're "living properly", whatever that may mean
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>>34438039
if you are still a virgin i doubt youd have the balls to go to a prostitute and ask to fuck and then actually do it
it would probably be a shitty experience for you too
honestly i know the advice is shit, but youre probably better off just asking 100s girls on dating apps, just dont expect much
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>>34438039
better sooner than later, you're going to get obsessed over something that doesn't have that much importance over all
I lost my virginity at 12 but didn't have sex while a teen and even in my early 20s
finally I gave in and contacted a high class escort with what I saved for a month or so and I had a blast
and I didn't worry about that anymore and it even helped me being less desperate next to normie girls I was trying to date afterwards
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>>34438062
>chances are you'll feel the exact same way you did before only with a horrible sense of shame xd
This right here. It's not worth it at all. It will become something that will haunt him for the rest of his life. Better to stay virgin and look for a wife, or become a fuckboy even though I am against it degeneracy.
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>>34438039
Nahhhh bro. Don't give up something that special in your life to a situation like that. I mean, do what you want, but I strongly advise against it. Try to get laid in an organic situation. Even if it's just a one night stand, there will be real chemistry at least. Just wait it out, it's okay. Don't waste that moment.
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>>34438039
Anon, that's a terrible idea. Why? Several reasons. (1) If you're a timid virgin, you will not be able to perform for a prostitute. Your nerves will kick in, you'll get a massive cortisol dump, and your dick will remain limp regardless of stimulation. (2) If you do somehow manage to get hard (let's say 5-10% chance) one of two things is going to happen - you will not be able to ejaculate, or you will prematurely ejaculate. It's your first time - things won't turn out the way you envision them. (3) STD risk - condoms break, and HIV is lifelong. (4) A 'good' prostitute will charge you several hundred dollars for a session - that's like groceries for a month. (5) If you feel bad about being a virgin, you will feel much worse about yourself if you pay for pussy. You're not bothered by "being a virgin," you're bothered by your low self-esteem, inability to approach women, and a lack of intimate relationships. Fucking a prostitute fixes none of these problems. You need to put yourself there.
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>>34438039
I am indifferent to it. Sex with a prostitute does count. Don't listen to people who say it doesn't.
But personally i wouldn't do it. Girls who want to be monogamous would rather have a virgin male than a whore raper.