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I'm a 18 year old female, turning 19 in like... 20 days. I genuinely want to find a girl to love and devote myself to but can't find any interested.

I found a girl on tinder who seems to be interested... but I genuinely don't know how to keep a conversation going properly without oversharing or ranting. Not in a negative way, I just genuinely can't shut up about things I like or I'm passionate about.

She likes a lot of things I like so I'm trying to go with that... but I'm scared of being too much.

I'm autistic and have BPD so I'm genuinely trying my best not to let it show while remaining true to myself...

Any advice on how to make it work out?
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I really really want a stable and nice and long term relationship...
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>>34439526
A date is a time to test the waters, so to speak. You can get the feeling of the type of person the other is, what they like, how much they like to talk, how they handle things, their preferences, how they behave...in time, you get to understand the other and share about yourself. Just try to enjoy the moment as best as you can.

I think at first it'd be best to just try and take it easy, avoiding oversharing and talking too much if the person doesn't want to. Just go, get to know each other, talk, but also listen to her, comment a bit on the stuff she brings to the table, on the stuff you like... you can also do the same, talk about stuff like uni or a job or the future, stuff like that, whatever is on your mind. Just don't do all the talking unless she wants you to lead the conversation, but also try to notice if she's getting bored by it.

Good luck OP, at the end of the day, like I said, just try to relax and enjoy getting to know each other.
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>>34439576
Thank you anon... I'll try my best! ^_^
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>>34439526
Kill yourself
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>>34439526
>I'm a 18 year old female
Find a boyfriend instead ^-^
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>>34439950
I'm bad at that.
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>>34439526
>I'm a 18 year old female,
tranny detected, no girl calls themselves a female.
if you are a girl: tits or gtfo.
>>34439526
>Any advice on how to make it work out?
get a lot of therapy and do a lot of self help. you're not tyring to make the relationship work out, you are trying to make yourself as good as possible so that when the opportunity for a relationship comes along, you don't fuck it up.
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>>34440199
technically speaking trans girls can have tits too... anyways I'm cis but wtv... might follow on the therapy thing tho

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