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My best cat just died an hour ago. Cat was old and sick. Had a good life.
Now what? I will receive an urn with ashes eventually. I'm not keeping it, that thing had nothing to do with my cat. I'll probably dig a hole next to a tree and bury them there.
Some people put pictures of them in their houses. To me it looks as if the cat has been tragically captured in the second dimension and can't move. I don't want pictures around. I don't want pics in my phone. I don't know what to do with my feelings, with my memories of my great cat.
I want all her stuff gone, her toys, her bed.
I want to remember her, eventually, but right now everything that reminds me of her is filled with fire and sulphur and I need fresh air to keep living
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Really sorry for your loss anon.
Don't get rid of her stuff or traces of her, the heartache it's causing you now is nothing compared to the guilt and regret you'll feel down the road when you have nothing left of her or to remember her by.
Trust me. I did that when my dog died. And five years later it still keeps me up some nights.
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Thanks for replying.
I still feel miserable about all this. I've been watching old pics and vids of her and damn we were so happy. I need to keep that stuff.
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It gets easier fren. I lost my buddy Rex a few months ago. Don't avoid thinking about it purposefully, it will sneak back up on you if you don't fully come to terms with your feels.

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