>>30207204
No. They're called social SKILLS. If you want to improve them, you need to go out and grind.

Go talk to girls.

Also, I'm not commenting on the prostitution. Do that if you want.

>>30207322
>Autistic
>go talk to girls
Anon, you are hilarious

>>30207335
Nah, he's right. Although, I've watched my autistic friends "talking" to girls. THAT is hilarious.

>>30207335
Let go of your limiting belief, anon.
You could be literally retarded and still talk to girls.

>>30207204
You get what you pay for. There's no shame in it.

>autistic
>talking to this generation of women
You better have friends who have your interest at heart.

You do realise there are autistic females as well, right?

Join a theatre/dnd group. They're full of horny spergo girls

>new captcha sucks ass

>>30207204
I dont know if its your only option but its definitely worth it if you have the money. When I broke up with my last girlfriend I paid a girl to suck my dick for three hours. Was nice, would do again if I felt I needed it without hesitation.

>>30207204
They help with anxiety around fucking a woman but that's it. Some girls are also fun and might want to talk after the deed for one reason or another.
I saw them through my 20s when I would work long days and didn't really have time for a GF.

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>>30207396
yes, and they're not stupid. they can tell something is off in a heartbeat. I had a roomate who was autistic and thought about doing it.

>>30207204
I'm not going to say it one way or another.
>Age?
>location? (not specific place, but like a suburd, rural area, boondocks?)
>how are your looks honestly?

there are alot of factors to consider. if you get a hooker, it will feel gross afterewards(IDK how you'd feel).

My question is, what do you think will change for you if you do this?

>>30207204
Get yourself some autistic adult male therapy and stop traumatising sex workers with your untreated sperg bro

They showed me a retard with a wife and kid, but he was a big guy and none of that face shit, so just taunting me with fake gay shit

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>>30207204
>>30207322
>>30207335
>be autistic anon
>take other anons' advice and go talk to girls
>end up with lots of friends that are girls
>still single and forever alone
>at least I have friends
th-thanks I guess.

>>30207204
If dating now is as bad as everyone says. It might be a better move to hire a prostitute once in a while. If you're never going on a date or having sex with a woman normally. If every girl you meet on app ghosts you after a few days of texting. Eh..maybe you should? I mean, when I was 18 I went on a date with a different girl every day of the week. Some were just strangers I walked up and asked out in the mall. Things aren't like that now though. You don't want to catch hiv or anything but also I can tell you that maybe around the age of 35 or 36 your dick starts behaving differently. Eventually you have to coax it awake. Eventually you have to take viagra or something. Also, the real sucky part is, as your testosterone drops with age, women eventually just start looking kind of anatomical to you. Kind of the way they did before you went into puberty. Not nearly as much magic, not nearly as exciting. Also, you're fucking power just goes down over time too. You START the day with joints that don't seem right. Oh..also sometime around age 40 the amount you ejaculate falls off a fucking cliff.

Don't listen to this fag >>30207552

>>30207651
Social SKILLZ. You can work on them. You're assuming you will always be as shit as you are now.

>>30207204
yeah probably.
even if you "talked" to a thousand girls, thered still be a low chance you'd get laid.

No, prostitutes hate autistics, they're also racists and sexists against men, the worst people in this world are prostitutes. go get a rope anon

>>30207204
Be the prostitute anon. You get paid for sex. You will fall in love with cock.

>>30207335
>>30207204
this, except talk to autistic girls.
only hard part is finding the ones that arent fat.

>>30207204
Yes if you're ugly. If you're cute you do really well because toxic women assume you are easy to manipulate and then you can pump n dump. Works for me anyway

Autistic girls these days are into they/them shit

>>30207846
I used to be fwb with a autistic German girl, she wasn't even fat, but she was weird and her moans sounded like she was challenging the Third Reich. Used to tell me about dudes she was dominating, she'd make em eat dogfood and she'd sit on their back while they crawled around the room.

>>30207552
>yes, and they're not stupid. they can tell something is off in a heartbeat.
Right, this is why women are so great at avoiding the men with a long criminal history who beats the shit out of them or who'll pump and dump. Oh wait..they're a magnet for that and sometimes into it. Then they'll blame average good men and call every autist a creep for existing. Fun times

>>30207694
what the fuck are you talking about, i'm 40 and my dick still works. how bout you quit being a weird bitch and take care of yourself. who the fuck needs to take viagra in their 30's? how fucking fat are you?

>>30207781
It's funny you say that when the opposite is true. Lots of hookers don't mind any clients unless they're rude, smelly, dangerous. As for racism, yeah they might avoid black guys but that's pretty much it. They're also politically sane compared to most people, especially in comparison to other women. Should be considered as some of the top ranked people but they get treated as the worst. But it's all a larp. The same people who hate them will watch their content, fuck them behind closed doors or fantasize about doing so.

>>30207421
>horny spergo girls
Those are run through like crazy, but I guess if you are looking for something easy they are a good option. I've been to more than a few cons where you would see a rather young autistic girl with a black dude that's 40+ years old. They are so fucking retarded that they don't understand that being that easy can be bad in any way. At least normie chicks have some sort of social understanding.

>>30207846
Where do I find autistic girls? I don't give a shit if they are fat, just as long as I can fuck them.

>>30207204
I'm very grateful the universe made me a horse hung aspie, I probably would've killed myself otherwise

Absolutely not the only option my man! and it really depends what you’re looking for.
I’m speaking from lived experience. I lost my virginity around 22–23, then became pretty sex-obsessed for a while. I’ve tried escorts.. quite a few.. and at the time I was working not-great-paying jobs to afford it. They were nice enough, and yeah, it filled a void, but it also emptied my pride and my bank account. Most of the time I couldn’t even finish. Honestly, the massages were usually the best part.
Around that period, friends started floating the idea that I might be autistic / Aspergers. I did end up seeing someone briefly (she was a workmate), but it didn’t last. My family always reassures me that I’ve got the “best genes” looks-wise, but honestly that never translated into social ease or confidence, everything else still needed (and still needs) a lot of work.
As niche and annoying as this advice can sound, what helped me wasn’t chasing validation but learning to trust myself, especially what my body was telling me. Noticing when I was anxious, forcing things, When I slowed down and listened to that, things changed. The right people tend to tag along when you stop trying to perform.

PART 2:

One of my biggest weaknesses was putting people on pedestals, people-pleasing, and then quietly holding some pretty resentful or hateful thoughts toward those quick flings i had. I’ve been in therapy for a few years now, and last year my therapist re-raised the idea that I might be autistic. Since then it’s been hard not to see the patterns everywhere. These days I mostly talk to him about my sex life and my career, (or lack of one.)
So far I’ve had 3–4 flings outside of escorts. I’m not proud of how I went about learning all this, it was very much the hard way, but it was still learning..
If you just want sex, escorts can serve a purpose. Just take it easy, be respectful, and know what you’re actually trying to get out of it? because sex doesn’t automatically fix loneliness or self-worth..
I’ve also just finished my first year of study. And yeah, I know this might cop some hate, but my professor actually put me onto ChatGPT. I’ve used it as a tool to help with creativity and confidence in online dating messages, because I get completely flabbergasted in person. For me it’s not about being fake.. it’s about having support when my words lock up.
All these signs and struggles have honestly just reinforced the autism possibility for me. Right now I’m messaging a girl I genuinely click with. We’ve been talking for a few months and have had one face to face date so far.
It’s never too late to pick things up and learn.
Stay strong homie

>i have a friend in the exact same situation as you
> he is 25+yo and never touched a woman
I hate to say it to you (and him) but you can’t asked for things you can’t give
And it start with basic social skills
You need to try, get rejected, try again
Nothing will come miraculously bc you asked for it
> what about prosties ?
You will feel bad, hate yourself more than ever
And your self confidence will shatter so much that you will never try anything with an actual person fearing rejection (and knowing that a few dollars will get you the same result with less effort)
> how to beat it ?
Use your autism to learn basic social skills, psychology and stuff
Not manipulation, nor about those fake ass flirting coach
Just watch some videos on youtube, watch how other people do it
force yourself to get out your confort zone
Stop using autism as an excuse to not learn about what other people like, other hobbies and stuff
Main hobbies that people admire : sport (doing it, not watching it), music, dress codes, cooking, culture (science, history, etc)
Learn things to talk about AND to show (not asking for a show off. But if you say you can cook, you better not be making some wet ass undercooked butter pasta)
> easy to say, not easy to do
I was in this position too
But I’ve learned the hard way (over 10years) that life isn’t that polished shit leftist try to shove us
If you want to live, you have to make it happen even when it’s hard

>conclusion ?
learn how to get out your confort zone, find interest in as many things as possible, learn basic social skills (try copying movie’s characters if it suits you), always questions yourself (write it down if it helps you), etc
Never force a character you are unconfortable with and can’t handle yourself
> morals ?
Courage isn’t the lake of fear. It’s about being afraid but doing what needs to be done.
Self confidence comes from learning from your mistakes when getting out your confort zone. (Meaning expending your CZ)

>>30207694
normies like you who disrespect fitness and nutrition disgust me

>>30207204
Advice: expect to be swindlered. I've heard countless times the man go to a girl's house and isn't the girl from the pictures, or it was a overpriced massage instead of sex, or there's a thug to steal your shit instead. Honest whoring is rare and precious, good luck.

>>30208388
>No don't have sex with a nerdy girl they are run through
>You are better off with a whore
>In fact nerdy girls would be better off with old black men
What the fuck are you talking about.

>>30207322
>Go talk to girls.
Why would you want to?

>>30208607
>>30208612
Thank you for making us read your blog.

>>30207204
not your only option but seeing them has a really good chance of improving your chances with women by simply being a lot more comfortable with the whole process.
and if you are too shy to talk to women it will definitely fix that problem.

you could just spend ages going out and talking to women and improving your social skills, then finding a partner, and going from there. or you could do that while also fucking prostitutes and maximizing your returns.

idk it worked for me
but I also found dating apps to be a huge confidence booster in that I would actually get matches so there are clearly women attracted to me, I never had a problem having friends and having people like me, so I just had to bring it all together, prostitutes helped a lot with that.

>>30207204
No, because their job is to fuck youor listen to you. So they'll help you lose the v card or be your therapist, but if you want to talk TO a girl instead of AT one, go to strip clubs. It's gonna be about the same cost in the long run depending on where you are, and if you're somewhere with more than one you can kind of rotate between them so you don't just fixate on one girl.

>>30208866
Nerdy girls ARE whores you fucking retard. Did you not read what I just said? You fucking bot. They fall any guy that's nice to them.

The real trick is start with the same thing every time, let THEM be the variable.

Hey, excuse me for interrupting, my name is [Name], what's yours?

Then hold you hand out to see if they shake it. If they do, then don't panic, just REPLY.

If they're willing to touch your hand, they're willing to make basic dialogue.

Ask questions about them.
Seem interested in them.
Ask if they want to get coffee.

Repeat until one isn't an uppity bitch to you.
Start at your desired hotness level and work down until you find someone on your level.

And the guy >>30207421
Has a great point. Hunt in your own territory and you won't stumble over neurotypicals

>>30207470
>They help with anxiety around fucking a woman but that's it
you say that like a minor issue. knowing your way around a woman's body is a necessity and they're not giving out many second chances out here.

>>30207204
Petition to ban tatoos and piercings on women worldwide

>>30207651


>be autistic anon
>end up with lots of friends that are girls

So you ended up making lots of friends, yah you're not autistic then.

>>30207204
sad but true.
I hope you have better luck than I did, but I had to pay myself.

>>30208618
for fuck's sake, why?! why is all this shit necessary? none of this shit is going to matter once you turn thirty and any semblance of a social life withers and dies. sure, do it for yourself but holy hell even contemplating such an extertion makes me want to vomit.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MXdTP-yG8t8

>>30209295
Fuck off, some of us like tatooed/pierced bitches.

>>30207846
Chubby autistic girls are actually peak pussy, ngl

>>30207204
Probably and you'll be persecuted for it in most countries, evil world

>>30208618
>You will feel bad, hate yourself more than ever
this is such nonsense and what limited validity only exclusive to mongering in pussy prison usa. no man ever regretted fucking a 9 providing decent service. sure, maybe fucking used up crackheads is a bummer but such things as they go are purely an artifact of the american p4p scene.

>Autistic
>Only ever been on one date
>22
>never kissed a woman
>the one date was awkward as fuck, didn't know what to say
>paid for everything
>drove her home
>apparently she had good time?
>messaged me a bunch after but I just didn't really feel anything
>never asked her out again
>went back to wallowing like the fat retard I am.
Idk how to explain it but I feel like such a weird fuck man. Like im fat, but not so fat weirdos would be into me, im short but not short enough for it to matter (5'7), I'm not ugly, but certainly not attractive lol. I feel like it's genuinely possible to date people when you're autistic, but I just get so caught up in not embarrassing myself that I barely say anything...

>>30208866
Nerdy e-girl types are as ran through as stacy. Actual autistic women scare off most men and unless you've met one you wouldn't know the difference.

>>30207204
>Are they worth it bros?
They're fun. You're paying for quick sex with a total stranger and it can be great or bad.
It shouldn't be an alternative to actual relationships, you don't need to be a John just because you're autistic. Literally just talk to women
>>30209697
Therapy might help, unironically.
Seems like she had a great time, wanted to do it again, but you were too inside of your own head to realize that your perception of things might not be the perception of other people.
You'll never learn to not be embarrassed if you don't get embarrassed from time to time, it's normal

>>30207204
No, theyre not the only option.
Im autistic.
Married.
5 kids.
All kids have high functioning autism except for one who is a potato, but she is as physically fit as a an Olympic gymnast. Her capabilities scare the shit out of us as parents because she doesnt understand consequences and she climbs everything like she's Alex fucking Honnold.

>>30209697
>messaged me a bunch after but I just didn't really feel anything
yeah this is the biggest thing to me
unless I already know her through something I just don't really give a fuck... meeting women on apps, or getting introduced by friends... I just don't really care?
it is all so much work and exhausting and its hard to give a fuck, even if I have a decent time its kind of still like w/e

>>30209739
Yeah idk my roomate keeps saying that too lol... Idk I have a deep distrust of therapy, something about a relationship that is entirely transactional and encouraged not to solve my problems feels weird. Like it's a business so the best thing for a therapist is repeat customers. Or they just give me a prescription for like anti depressants or whatever and send me off... Like what do I even tell a therapist in the first place? That I feel nothing but apathy at all times? That I can't even motivate myself to do basic things like leave the house or clean my room most days? That pretty much every morning I wakeup thinking it'd be nice not to wakeup (not that I wanna kms or anything you know just wanna sleep forever). Idk man I'm like genuinely concerned im a psycopath or something and if I go to therapy I'll just get put on like 6 or 7 (LOL!) drugs. Circling back to the woman thing, I don't think I've ever felt genuine attraction to anyone else, like sure I zerk off but like I never feel love or any of that. The best way to describe my headspace is that I don't feel, like when I smile it's because I think smiling is the right thing to do here, or oh I should cry here, or I should get angry here...

>>30209805
>Like what do I even tell a therapist in the first place?
Literally whatever you want
A therapist isn't going to give you meds, that's a psychiatrist, the therapist is there to help you navigate some aspects of life that you find difficult, like social situations. I used therapy to help deal with my social anxiety, and mostly to help me deal with everything I was feeling while my father was getting close to the end of his life after battling a degenerative disease for decades. There's stuff you can talk to family, friends, sure, but having a professional to just unload shit onto and then go "Was I being retarded by not replying to that girl?" is great, especially considering they'll have notes on everything you've told them before and will have a better grasp on your mental state and why you've gotten to that state than someone who isn't a professional
You're not a psychopath anon, you're just very clearly depressed. Will meds probably be useful? Yeah, but a therapist isn't the one who's going to be giving them to you. They might point you to a psychiatrist, sure, but that's your choice.
I recommend doing a bit of research on the approaches that psychologists might have, not everyone is the same, and you'll have an approach that you'll be more comfortable with. Do that and then research a good but not expensive therapist and try it out for a couple of months, see how it works for you

First off stop being a little bitch putting pussy on the pedestal. Do some work on yourself like gym,food and actually engage into learning some socials skills. following patterns for autistic should be easy. Give yourself 3 motnhs and u will be getting laid.
gl anon

>>30208612
Bung?

>>30207204
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>>30207204
Nah dude just have a teeny bit of confidence. I gave up hope in my early 20s then realized getting rejected or not, I would still feel like shit. I have a sense of humor thats my main weapon lol and a lot of women like a "knowledgeable" dude (see what I did there?) had a gf for like 5 years, she was nt, dumped me, found a cute fellow autistic person but we just didn't click. Now, I have imo the perfect gf. We are alike in so many ways, it's great. A huge thing with me too is that I'm a bigger guy so I've been self conscious but the confidence thing is no joke. It really does help, friend. Never been with a hooker so I can't say what that's like, just giving you a piece if what I have experienced in life as a person with Autism.

>>30207651
You managed to become actual friends with lots of girls, and you are still not seeing how this could massively help with your current situation?

Motherfucker, you are really dense. Those girls you made friends with will be more than happy to introduce you to their single girl friends, as long as yall are actual friends (and it isn't just your autistic ass confusing being a friend and being a court jester for a group of girls).

Playing a matchmaker for friends is something I've almost never seen a woman NOT volunteer for. But, again, the main caveat here is that you actually have to be their friend.

Plus, the types of women your girl friends would introduce you to would almost definitely be higher quality and have a higher success rate chances with you than a rando off a dating app.

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There's this youtuber chick I'm watching, she's cute and I'd say educated. Now her husband is 100% autistic, he even has an autistic haircut. He's also skinny, doesn't lift weights and his shoulders are as wide as hers. You could probably kill him with one punch and yet this autistic dude is married.
Like others have said, you probably don't have any social skills and I noticed a lot of people use ''I GOT THE TISMZ'' as an excuse for being cowardly little shits.
>are prostitutes my only option? Are they worth it bros?
you will fuck a fleshly warm hole, but you will make zero progress.

>>30209956
>Do some work on yourself like gym,food and actually engage into learning some socials skills
yeah sure but fucking escorts should also be part of that regimen
what's the use in getting a gf and then being awful at sex because you're crippled by sex anxiety?

>>30210510
>I noticed a lot of people use ''I GOT THE TISMZ'' as an excuse for being cowardly little shits
Most fags here just don't meet new people regularly anon, the autism excuse is due to all the problems that that causes.
I've also met the smelliest, fattest, and most retarded men alive get girls because they're constantly around women. Also not every hobby and job environment attracts young women. My BJJ classes and band group are entirely men of various ages which is great for making friends but not so great for finding a partner.

I see lots of bitch talk here but little experience.
OP, I'm autistic. I always struggled with girls. But then I got better. I've been married, until I lost my wife. I recovered. And I've been to prostitutes. I know what I'm talking about so listen:
The guys telling you to practice are right. You WILL get better at it. The big key is to get more in your body. Stop thinking. Women don't like thinking men. They like men who can think when they need to, but they don't like constantly thinking men.
And it doesn't fucking matter, because the last thing you should do is change to attract women. They don't when know what they want.
But being less stuck in your mind would be a massive improvement for yourself. So start there. Do more sport. Get fit. Train your breathing. Practice feeling and acting on gut feeling, instead of thinking what you want. It'll be great for you. And women will follow.

Second: you likely have a massive amount of anxiety about sex. That's a major turn off for women. Women follow goldfish logic: you're attractive if other women find you attractive. If you're starved for sex (and they can fucking smell the tiniest bit of hope and desperation) then obviously women aren't fucking you, and neither will they. That's why assholes who don't care about women get so much pussy. Their attitude signals to that they can have any woman they want, and that switches them from defensive to open. It's not even a woman thing, we're the same. Most guys would gladly let a mentally damaged girl destroy them.
As long as every talk with a woman is a rare chance to possibly have sex, you'll be stuck here. How do you get rid of thatbanxiety? By having sex. Go get a prostitute. A cute one. Around your age. With a warm lovely fun, do it for hobby and extra income vibe.
You won't feel dirty. Maybe a bit empty. It's missing something. But you WILL calm down. You'll stop stressing over every girl because you're no longer desperate to empty your balls. Then you can get girls.

>>30207204
I don't know myself but I'm guessing, probably and no.

The worst thing you can do is get laid easy and fast, that won't make you feel better. You should really try to engage with women, only online at first if it's easier. It's gonna take time, but it's the safer path for someone with autism.

>>30209295
based.

>>30209527
fuck you fag degenerate. go service a gloryhole cunt

>>30207204
>>30207322
>>30207335
1. Autism is fake outside of the truly sick ones. Haven't seen an actual autist in quite a while most new gens probly don't even know what that looks like. Stop calling yourself autistic that's a BS term.
2. No they're not worth it. They're so bad at it that they should pay you.
3. Instead of this just prepare to kill as many mfs as you can in the upcoming revolt. Take down any simp/woman/other lefty fags you see. And the jews ofc can't forget about those that's how they get ya.

>>30208943
Who are you speaking on behalf of? Thank you for your contribution, much appreciated..
You're most welcome! XD
may be of help some of the fellow autists.

>>30210088
First time telling story on here...
Explain yourself?
Bung eyed?

>>30210492
>more than happy to introduce you to their single girl friends
no they won't. It's more profitable to keep a guyfriend for herself than to let an another woman have him
>"hey, is any of your friends single?"
>"yeaaah... some of them are, but you're too sweet for them and none of them are up your alley, trust me ;^)"
>"Now, can you help me fix my laptop pretty please?"

>>30208388
Men hate to looksmatch it seems>>30207651
I have female friends but i would not bang any of them, is there any way to leverage this into getting with their girl friends

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>>30210886
This!

And not only for autistic people, but for everyone here reading.

Try to be fit, or at least try to get in a better shape. Wear nice clothes that fit you. Shower daily or every couple of days. Use perfumes. Get a nice haircut. Try to be easy going with people. Don't be a jerk, especially in front of girls. Be the better version of yourself.

I've seen ugly dudes get laid just because of this.

>>30210886
>But you WILL calm down.
you don't know the motherfucker plus he could catch something from that whore.
>>30207204
anon if you take the hooker route, WASH YOUR CROTCH VIGOROUSLY AFTER YOU'RE DONE cause condoms are not magical.

>>30207458
honestly would feel rude asking for 3 hours lmao

>>30207335
its a debuff not a crippling disease

>>30207204
R u open to fucking men?

Autistic + adhd male (official, not self-diagnosed like muricans)
Been married for 3, together for 13 years.
All you have to do is stop looking at normies and go for your own kind. You are not capable of matching with a normie so why try?

>>30211120
No tits, fat ass. I can already guess the shade of your skin.

>Try to be fit, or at least try to get in a better shape. Wear nice clothes that fit you. Shower daily or every couple of days. Use perfumes. Get a nice haircut. Try to be easy going with people. Don't be a jerk, especially in front of girls. Be the better version of yourself.
You have no clue what autism is like, do you?

>>30211312
Because there are far more single normie women than autists.

>>30207204
Follow this and change your life:

>Gather $80
>Pick a sport you like (the more running involved, the hotter the women)
>Join a coed league (google coed leagues near me)
>You will have to talk to girls about the game (this will build your skills in a no pressure enviroment)
>Eventually you'll hit it off with one

>>30211379
Whats your point? Quantity of fish doesn't matter if they're all sharks while you're plankton. You need another plankton.

>>30207204
I actually found that taking evening classes (in something not 100% Male oriented) put me in social contact with a lot of women. Only about half of them will be married, but you get to do course related stuff alongside them and get to socialise a bit. It does help if you're not a hideous, stinking lardass though.

>>30207846
No, the real unicorn is finding an autistic girl who keeps her autism under control. 99.9999% are unhinged beyond what neurotypical girls are.
>t.

>>30209805
schzoidbro...

>>30211333
From your 1 reply I can already tell the colour of your skin and that you're a virgin.
>you have no clue what autism is like do you?
And you have no idea what a pussy feels like, jesus christ I thank god that most autistic people are more intelligent and likeable than you lmao

>>30211505
If you're an autist yourself it would be hypocritical of expecting your autistic woman to not act autistic. If you're not, stay the fuck away of our women

yeah reading this thread im confident i should just give it up
theres a lot of quieter girls in my uni (math) but even there i am top 1% autism, i dont even internalize me speaking as me
im sure a lot of them never get approached bt anyone either
im just too fucked up. really i learned to just not even desire being with other people, its a virtue to me to isolate
the one big issue is mental degradation

>>30211578
Said the lonely frustrated rentoid to the married countryside homeowner.

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>>30210492
gee thanks for telling me so much about my life, is there anything else I should kknow about myself?

I never said it was bad or I was unhappy

I like having friends :)
I just decided I'm so autistic I'd rather be single until I find someone who I really like.

be kind and open your heart to others

>>30211333
>for everyone here reading.
It's funny to see how people in 2026 still can't read.

>>30210915
thanks RFK

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>>30207204
When you say autistic, where exactly are you on that spectrum? Are you the type of autistic that arranges candy into separate colors? Or are you full retard autistic? That said, find someone as derpy as you.

That said, prostitutes are only worth it if you have money to burn... and potential years off your life with an STD.

>>30207391
It's hilarious for the first 20 hours
Then it's cringe for the next 20
By hour 100 you're ok at it
By hour 1000 you're pretty good at flirting

Make sure to actually review in between sessions. Fucking rote memorization of bullshit funny lines or jokes. Figure out when to actually initiate touch.

Get those reps in. Hyperfocus your fucking autism on talking to women.

Yes it's fucking hard. It's also 100% worthwhile.

Autistic former 23-y/o virgin checking in. Now 39. Finding partners isn't the easiest thing in the world for me; I'll never be a gigachad, but if I really wanna fuck I can go find some fuck.

>>30207566
>therapy
>"sex workers"
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>>30211590
I am autistic, but I don’t make “being autistic” my entire self-concept. Girls who get this by themselves are the real unicorns.

>>30208079
Just wait

If you are actually autistic like diagnosed autistic just fuck prostitutes for the rest of your life have fun and at one point if you think you want to be a parent adopt a child and become a decent parent.
Ffs don't have a child through birth, in most cases you'll probably pass on your autism to your child and if the child becomes severely autistic you are cooked and so is the child, so do the world a favour and listen to my simple advice

>>30211132
and try to urinate afterwards, washes germs out, us needing to do that is supposedly a survival trait

>>30208079
and I'm just saying, its way different in your late 30s and 40s than it is when you're 19

>>30212330
39 oldfag here, can confirm. Also spergtarded fugly manlet, never seen a vagina irl.

How do I learn social skills if I've been a shut-in for a couple years and now have zero confidence in myself?

>>30212797
Find a hobby that requires interaction. Wargaming and TTRPGs are the quintessential ASD hobbies for that reason. It has strict social rules that serve as a building block for growth in other areas.

>>30210915
Did you know Trump's family is orthodox Jewish? Look up what frat his brother was in.

>>30207204
Eharmony bro. 100% the answer.

>>30212999
trips

>>30207204
It's not your only option but I highly recommend it.

t. 30 y.o that's never been in a relationship but slept with dozens of prostitutes and had 3 ONS

>>30207204
Hell nah. Talking to women is a skill. A skill you acquire naturally by talking to people in general, not just with women. And getting pussy is merely a side effect with mingling with people. Literally just go outside bro and deal with people lmfaooooo

>>30207322
>be me
>talk to woman
>she ignores me
>try different woman
>she ignores me
>try different woman
>she ignores me
Thanks for the advice anon
Be honest with OP. Sometimes ropemaxxing is the only way out

>>30213101
Great analytical skills buddy.
Try to add some variables to that shit and maybe you can find out why

>>30207204
nope. just a little self confidence and patience. i know that sounds like bullshit, i spent 8 years thinking that too, then i just said fuck it, bought a sub for some shitass dating app, and within a couple months i had a woman drive 8 hours to sleep with me
I am one of the most autistic retards on earth. you can do it too.

>>30213101

When I was young I had great game, I learned as an aspie with zero friends.

I don't think I fell off, it's literally just the mystery-meat ugly whores who are un-gameable.

Women are truly fucking braindead at this point, the "flowers and sunshine" era of women is long dead.

The plus side is that I've found Christ, I find solace in celibacy and the dreams of a better tomorrow.

I still game and try to find monogamy but I know divorce taints real Christian marriage and I've succumb to the fact the best I'll get are a few one night stands (not by my choice, of course, I consider it not sinful since I tell these girls I want something real and it's up to them to abandon pair bonding back to demonic jew cult degeneracy).

There's a kind of stoic pleasure in attempting to unwind this broken pervert machine.

It might not make sense but literally all of these problems are described in Catholic canon.

>>30213891

lol fuck off dating website shill fae git

that shit does not work

anyone who ever recommends "buying things" to help get laid is thinly veiled prostitution at best, and more likely just a scam

>>30207204
yes because sex helps regulate the central nervous system. this will actually help you clear your mind and be less neurotic. the experience you get from having sex will also get you out of your head when you're around other women and not freak out or be awkward.

get used to having sex. and also have the prostitutes teach you what gets them off so you know what to do.

social skills are overrated. women are not complicated, they're capricious and an embodiment of fake news. they lie, they don't directly communicate, they cannot be relied on or depended on

you can depend on prostitutes in some ways more than normie women. just make sure you ask to feel her breasts every time to make sure she's not a cop

the most important thing you need to know is that women are awful creatures. you cannot give a shit what their opinion is or cater to them, they will not respect you for it.

also remember that autistic women are not your friend either. autistic women are often even MORE harsh to men. good luck though, maybe you'll find one. in the meantime, you need to be healthy and having sex is literally part of being a healthy man. it's a medical truth.

>>30207204
You're probably not autistic but yeah, you probably should get laid somehow


>>30212330
Not really if you take care of yourself. Your dick really stops working in your 60s and onwards, but if you exercise and eat right, your dick can still work well until then. The problem is most dudes don't do that and they get fat and lazy and then wonder why they have ED at 35.

I only come here to jack off but youre autistic enough to be asking this in a porn site so i'll reply. Going to a prostitute will make you feel empty, youre better off jacking off. Your first time will be ruined and you will feel remorse your entire life. You wont be able to tell anyone about it without extreme shame or lying.

Im an extroverted good looking guy and havent been single since i was 16, always dated girls 4/5 years older than me cause im into that. Every social skill I learned was by watching romance anime MADE FOR WOMEN and acting like the male protagonist did. Every fashion advice Ive learned was through the internet. The basics of loomsmaxxing are ok but if you start eating raw onions and doing bonemashing or retarded stuff like that you may as well kill yourself, you went too far and now women will think youre retarded.

I was extremely retarded and women hated me because I wanted to seem smart. If youre a genuinely nice person to be around, dont do stuff expecting to fuck, and dont immediately flirt, women will like you.

Try to look good. Not "cool". Youre autistic so shadow the hedgehog may be your definition of how youre supposed to dress. Just try to think of Tom Holland or something normie like that. Good hair with nice volume and well fitting clothes.

Work out too. If youre ugly you need all the help possible. If youre fat work out, if youre way too skinny and dont have a pretty face like me, work out.

How to meet women? Youre autistic. Try to share interests with them. Go to a language class, a cooking class, DnD groups, theathre, etc just get out of your house.

Ask questions and let them speak. Only talk about stuff you REALLY know and is impressive and not embarrassing or weird and talk about it with passion. That is to say, talk about music, not about your favorite porn genres.
She tells you she likes the beatles. Dont rant about the beatles sucking. Ask when did she start liking them. Listen to her reply. Ask. Listen. Repeat.

>>30214011
Some retard will try to make fun of this reply but please remember that they are on a porn site. As soon as I ejaculate im outta here and wont be reading it.

Anyways good luck dont give up and dont listen to these schizophrenics that have never had a healthy relationship with a female in their life about how to live yours.

>>30207651
>>30210492
This, but also looksmaxx (softmaxxing, not the retarded surgery thing) and hit the gym and watch your diet. Looks vs social skills is a false dichotomy, do both.

>>30207204
I'm mildly atypical, neurologically. Nothing diagnosed, but I'm apathetic enough about social engagement(pretty much a recluse), that I may have something wrong with me.

You probably can find someone to have a relationship with. I can't in all truthfulness address it, as I've never been with anyone in a romantic relationship.

I can address your second question. I didn't have sex until my 30s. It was with a prostitute. It was fun. Nothing earth shattering, nothing too bad. Although...I let her eat my ass, I think I may have contracted HPV, it's extremely mild, miniscule papules, and only around my asshole, but I'm pretty sure it's there(unless it's just ingrown hair). O well I guess. Would do it again.

But it was a decent time, at the very least at least it was an experience I don't have to wonder about. Your mileage may vary. You may feel despondent afterwards, you may be motivated to get more, either from a regular woman, or more prostitutes, or you may just be like me, have a good time, log the memory, and move on.

>>30214011
As an ugly fat chud with terrible social skills who had multiple relationships, listen to this guy. Just be nice to be around, let them talk, treat them like humans, don't expect nothing and just try a lot, it's s matter of probability accumulating after trying a lot.

>>30207204
yes, if you're fat.
if you're handsome or at least passable try dating apps.

>>30207814
>I cannot my way out
>male prostitution seems to be my only option
You don't have to be a prostitute
no no no no no
you can say no to being a night-looker, a boy-hooker, a rent-boy bro-ho
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3omQikQYmgY

>>30207204
Autistic people can be quite charming. It's typically all a ruse though, and it's more energy-costly that it would be to other people.

Learn to mirror. All autistic people have to do this. If you're being your true robotically cold self around people, they will not like you, and you will not go anywhere in life.

Human connections are important for every aspect of life. Learn to make them.

I did. And I'm basically King Autist.

>>30214011
>Going to a prostitute will make you feel empty, youre better off jacking off.
Nah. I visit prosties regularly, every 1-2 weeks. Been doing it for years. Its legal in my country (Switzerland). I browse them online depending on which type I feel like banging on a day.

I usually book 1h @ 300 USD. Breakdown:
20% are not so good and I won't see them again ever - a wank would've been better
60% are really nice, and I feel good and relaxed afterwards
20% are absolutely fantastic, feels like i've been on a long vacation

>>30210913
Fuck YOU, ya gynephobic degenerate. Go service a 6/10 vanilla slut.

>>30211598
I'm sure your RP is fun, but you'll still be a virgin when the thread dies.

>>30207204
>>30207204
A prostitute will not make you happy.
Sex won't have much effect if you don't have an actual relationship with someone.
This is coming from an autistic person who lost their virginity at 25 and the only thing that changed was the crutch I blamed my misery on.

My ability to talk to girls, my social skills, my sexual confidence, none of that changed, in some ways it got worse.

All you can do is put yourself out there.
Not for sex
Not for girls
For life

Fuck anon who says talk to girls.
If you are on this page the way you see women is probably fucked anyway, you need to fix that first.

So get a job where you have to interact with people.
Move somewhere you have to go out to get what you need.
Pick up a hobby or sport, join a community with that hobby and sport.

Then you will find a way to to talk to people including girls.
You'll still be autistic, it will be hard, awkward and embarrassing at first, it was for me.

But it will get easier.
You just have to keep doing it.

And then before you know it.
You will be talking to girls.
Making friends with girls.
Getting closer with them.

Not because you want to.
Not because you want sex.
Not because you want a girl.

But because you have to talk to girls if you are living life.

Just make sure not to avoid them, every interaction no matter how awkward is a success because it will normalise the weirdness of it all.

A girl will only drop into your life when you're busy living it.

That is all anon.

>>30207204
all women are prostitutes because marriage is illegal

>>30214585
How did you find out you were autistic? I’ve had people say that I am and it seemed like a therapist hinted at me being autistic, but I feel like when I’m cold and robotic it’s because I’m depressed. Are there any traits or experiences you think are a dead giveaway?

>>30214949
I have ADHD but learnt to manage it really well due to my job. anyway I found out I had ADHD because when I took coke, I felt a serene tranquility that I never experienced before.

turns out coke is quite similar to adhd medication in that it fixes my adhd-fried dopamine receptors:
https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/cocaine-and-adhd
>However, according to a 2021 article, in people with ADHD, cocaine may have a calming effect. Cocaine increases dopaminergic transmission, which is dysfunctional in ADHD.

>>30214949
it's congenital and the signs are obvious from a very early age, look them up and talk to your mom about what you were like as an infant

>>30214874
But at that age, women already expect a certain level of social skills.
If she realizes you're not smooth, she'll avoid you at all costs.
Women are very sensitive and attentive to these things, and they don't want to talk to a guy they feel has something wrong with him.
I'm sorry to say this, but some guys just won't make it. Want an example?
Me.
It wasn't for lack of trying, and at my age, over 40, I don't have a chance to go back. You dry up inside.

>>30207322
Transitioning into a woman is the best thing that ever happened to me. And now I can be T4T with other cute girls.

>>30207204
Dude, stop being such a pussy and making excuses for everything... like you're the only "autistic adult male", grow a pair, deal with your shit and stop acting trying to be useless and pathetic... if you want to go to hookers, thats fine, but don't do it because of that bs of excuse of being "autistic" to justify it... you are more than capable of having a normal relationship with any woman. Thats it.

who here went from normie to autistic shut-in as they got older?

I'm genuinely over life.

>>30213921
>that shit does not work
i met my current gf off a dating app and shes amazing, I didnt pay though

>>30210492
Peak delusion.
If you are friends with women but not in a physical relationship you are just an accessory to the women. It's called being an orbiter, a simp or a backup man.

>>30215142
>hurr durr I don't comprehend the social divide that autism causes in people
>hurr durr everyone who doesn't have my exact life experience is just lazy and making excuses
Stop stroking yourself off.

>>30215242
I'm the opposite. Was totally autistic and nonfunctional. Couldn't even go outside alone. Now I live on the opposite side of the world and manage a team. I fucking hated being autistic and forced myself into uncomfortable situations for 15 years and it's finally paying off. Now I feel like I'm wasting my time if I'm inside all the time, though I still feel like I need to force social interactions and kind of follow a script with most people.

>>30207204
I am somewhere in the spectrum, plus some other peculiarities and i fugged maybe 100 girls, plus dunno how many hookers, surely more, and a few trans hookers too.
How did i manage to fugg those 100 for free? because i was very handsome, plus big dick plus freak sex drive. I have been in a few relationships with a bunch of 7s or 8s, also fugged plenty of 2s and 3s, hamplanets, etc. It used to be very annoying because I always disappointed people. everyone thought I was hot and someone to cling to. So sad to feel how peoples expectations crumbled away as they talk to you.
Still, some chicks would go along with it, thinking I was mysterious, or just an introvert still a top fuck.
Of course relationships always collapsed after a few weeks or months, having a dreadful effect on me. How many times I have been dumped in the most horrible ways is the price I had to pay for those 7s and 8s. The emotional damage i carry from all those failures is very much severe and crippling.
These days i am old. I am still handsome and in decent shape. But I am over 50, and a poor wageslave, and a drug addict (how many bros in the spectrum end up hitting the bottle or the pipe or some shit) and I know it is over when it comes to new girls. Just hookers and porn. I lost so many chances to have a life with a partner and whatever that comes after. What a goddam imbecile and what wreck of a person.

>>30214011
>Im an extroverted good looking guy
Stopped reading right here. Everything after this is bullshit.

dont do it bro. Ive only fucked hookers. Most of them are around a 4-6. Some cute 7-8s. 9 incredibly rare and never a 10. Its legal where i am.
Sex is great sometimes depending on the girl but after a while you get over the having sex part. But addiction still keeps the money pit going as you return once in a while.

But nothing fills the hole in your heart and loneliness only grows.
If you still do it. Remember, Its just a business transaction for the girls and no matter how nice they make you feel. It always ends with regret.
My advice? Save and invest your money and get rich. Youll be thankful when in your mid 30s and when looking for a wife.

>>30214011
>That is to say, talk about music, not about your favorite porn genres.
boring

>>30214874
>A girl will only drop into your life when you're busy living it.
a prostitute will drop into your house smoke your weed suck your dick and leave when she gets bored. but you will never have a wife because marriage is illegal

>>30207552

Im a autistic retard an women 100% know if ur abit weird. An it puts them off.

Op just needs a hobby an to stop worrying about having sex.
Stop paying for sex an spend ur money on other things.

>>30215070
You are a woman, anon. Keep it up and don't let the others tell you otherwise

The only reason I work is because it lets me fuck hookers.
When I was living off gibs during the coof the only thought in my heas was that I cant wait to get a job that pays enough to keep the lights on *and* have sex with a hooker 2x a week.

>>30207204
>Are they worth it bros
no. stay away from them.

>>30215760
Ideally, sex once in a while with a hooker can be of much help for a poor autistic boyo.
Problem is the honky tonk life is not a life a semi-virginal autist can handle.
wat do?

>>30207204
>As an autistic adult male, are prostitutes my only option? Are they worth it bros?
Nope. My step-son is autistic but he's extremely good-looking. His mother has great genes (well, apart from the autism!). His cold assholeness from the lack of empathy comes across as confident to the stupid girls in his school so he's been busy having a tonne of sex with a bunch of them. I envy the boy!

>>30215874
I am
>>30215340
his whole existence will collapse soon

>>30215061
>I don't have a chance to go back. You dry up inside.
what you want is a woman who even if she doesnt have your kids will love you and care about you. and that doesnt exist unless youre willing to accept a totally used up 50yo whore with severe medical problems. and you dont want that. so thats where this culture is

>get a hobby you dont want
>talk about things that you dont care about

At what point do you stop being you?
But more importantly, why did it have to turn into a game?
It's fucked how we seemingly have to fish out that one random person we may or may not spend the rest of our lives together from among 1000s by just casting our fishingline and hoping somebody bites
>oh youve never had sex? What a weirdo
No fuck you, nature didnt intend for us to pretend-mate with strangers hundreds of times
Evolution even gave us hormones so we are more likely to stay together with the people we fuck, why would that NOT fuck up your ability to bond

>>30207204
Wouldn't say they are your "only" option, it they are a hell of a lot easier, not to mention cheaper long term. Just make sure she and you are tested, and wear a condom you'll be fine. I've done it many times anon. Go for it! I have some great sites if you're not broke as well.

>>30207204
As an autistic adult male, fat, vitiligo, not rich, who lives in an awful place and fucked and got engaged multiple times: fuck you.

Its not autism stopping you from getting engaged or fucking a girl, you are probably being repulsive.

The best quality autism gives you is being a fucking social chameleon because you learn to mimic others, if you cant its because you walk with bizarros like you or don't go touch grass like never.

So yeah with that attitude prostitutes are indeed your only option. Change the way you live, autism isn't dementia.

>>30207335
i know so many autist dudes with girlfriends mate. its not the autism. its the self defeating personality you installed

>>30214585
nobody wants to date a cute male unless you look good you fucking faggot autism isnt a fucking innocence fetish but being genuinely cold

>>30214585
nobody wants to date a cute male unless you look good you fucking faggot autism isnt a fucking innocence fetish but being genuinely cold
>>30214974
adhd meds are quite literally chemically identical to coke itsvliterally what it is

>>30216273
autism is quite literally in essence the opposite of beibg a social chameleon

>>30216085
>Evolution even gave us hormones so we are more likely to stay together with the people we fuck, why would that NOT fuck up your ability to bond
what ruins a mans ability to bond isnt fucking prostitutes its having a parade of concubines that are in and out of his house and even taking all his stuff and even his kids with them when they leave. eventually he stops forming memories of 'my wife likes X' and makes memories of 'concubine C likes X' and forgets that too. youre not supposed to waste your 20's and 30's in a series of "long term relationships" and the women who imposed that on us are going to die alone and then burn in hell. which is what their lord and master satan wanted for them

>>30207335
I wish could just not be the way I am. Like, even when I'm in a great mood I just have zero desire to talk to anyone I don't already know, and even then, only if I have something worthwhile to say. I just want to get my task done and move on. I go to the grocery store, beeline for the items I need, take shit to the cash register, two cute chicks there, all I can think about is paying with my credit card and moving on.

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>>30207204
Yeah I think that might be my only hope but no car so have to have alley sex lol

>>30214011
>I only come here to jack off but youre autistic enough to be asking this in a porn site so i'll reply. Going to a prostitute will make you feel empty, youre better off jacking off. Your first time will be ruined and you will feel remorse your entire life. You wont be able to tell anyone about it without extreme shame or lying.
Unironically my train of thought. I'm a virgin in my 30s, never even been on a date, but I am 100% fine with just jerking off. There was a brief time where I thought getting an escort or something might be a half decent idea. The thought that stuck with me is I'm gonna always remember that time and it's going to suck to know that I had to pay to get some chick to have sex me, instead of finding someone that actually wanted to. That will literally never go away.

Plus jerking off is free and I don't feel like paying a bunch of money just to have a worse time even if I can afford it.

>>30210886
wisdom post

>>30214874
>You will be talking to girls.
>Making friends with girls.
>Getting closer with them.
>Not because you want to.
>Not because you want sex.
>Not because you want a girl.

Why would you want to talk to girls if you're not getting sex or a relationship out of it?

Attention is to women what sex is to men: both want it and even need it on a deep and profound level.
Giving free attention to women is the male equivalent of a woman sleeping with every single man she encounters. It's just gross and disgusting and it destroys the whole balance between the sexes.

Stop being a simp.
Do not give time nor attention nor resources nor protection nor assistance nor anything at all to a female who is not your obedient, loyal, submissive, wife and mother of only your children... or whom you are seriously evaluating for that role.

Do. Not. Simp.
It's not just about you.
By simping you ruin things not just for yourself (and, yes, you DO destroy things for yourself by simping) but also for others.

>>30207322
>you need to go out and grind.
Opinion disregarded...

>>30216085
>>get a hobby you dont want
>>talk about things that you dont care about
This has always been my issue when fags try to tell me that I'm not trying hard enough to make friends, I have 3 hobbies in which two of them are social and when I try doing something else that I'd rather not be doing I come off as fake.
>Well I guess you're just unlikeable or have a major character flaw.
I've gone to therapy over this shit and have male friends, I just struggle to actually meet women who want to be friends with me and I hate being told that I'm some kind of loser over this. I've had ONS before but getting a woman to commit to me has been hell.

>>30216273
>larping: the post
>>30216381
>adhd meds are quite literally chemically identical to coke itsvliterally what it is
No they're not. ADHD meds like Adderall are amphetamines, very similar to meth (literally just wiki it). Coke and meth just both produce a similar paradoxical effect with ADHD because they're both CNS stimulants, but they're chemically and mechanistically different.

>>30217116
im not american to know drugs that well i had them mixed up

>>30217150
>im not american
me neither
>t. turbosperg leaf

>>30217271
nobody really thinks of canadians as anything but snowmutts

>>30217271
you're on the same level as jeets, lmao

>>30208866
>>30208388
>they totally are with old niggers
can you incels stop for one minute?

>>30207204
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>>30208388
dude i went to awa this year and saw literally none of this. it's usually nigger chicks with their little nigger brigade or white chicks with some weird awkward looking guy (either fat or skinny, few muscular)

>>30217104
>>>>get a hobby you dont want
>>>talk about things that you dont care about
>This has always been my issue when fags try to tell me that I'm not trying hard enough to make friends, I have 3 hobbies in which two of them are social and when I try doing something else that I'd rather not be doing I come off as fake.
It's the same problem I have. I only have a few hobbies that I actually like to do, but they're all solitary largely and male-centric. Picking up something just for the sake of meeting people feels awkward as fuck to me.

>>30217317
Go to dragon con in Atlanta it's a big nerd convention and you'll see that shit

>>30207694
>that maybe around the age of 35 or 36 your dick starts behaving differently. Eventually you have to coax it awake.

Serious bro, you need to see a doctor bc there's something wrong with your dick and balls if your testosterone has dropped that much. Check for lumps.

>>30210510
>I noticed a lot of people use ''I GOT THE TISMZ'' as an excuse for being cowardly little shits.

Pretty much this.
You can have 'tism.
But if you don't grow a pair of balls... what do you need to fuck for anyway?

Say hi. Go be awkward as shit.
Do it again. And again. And again. And again. And again.

>>30207694
>If dating now is as bad as everyone says. It might be a better move to hire a prostitute once in a while. If you're never going on a date or having sex with a woman normally. If every girl you meet on app ghosts you after a few days of texting. Eh..maybe you should?
No. Jerking off is literally free and I'm fine with it. Paying to ruin my self esteem is a lose-lose situation all around.

>>30208447
Fellow horse hung sperg here. I haven't made fuck in almost a decade because I can't stand to listen to or be around fucking women. I was a drug and alcohol induced gigachud in school but I quit everything and I just can't bring myself to "do the bit" anymore. Early 30s now and I'm starting to feel like I'm willing to pay just to have them shut the fuck up and go away afterwards. Am I just destined for chinkoid massage parlors at this point?

>>30207204
Dude you do realise there's loads of autistic girls out there.
Join a discord for literally any popular multiplayer game, play games with them and go from there, it's really not fucking hard.

>>30207204
wtf?

>>30207322
>talking to woman is a skill
Not really, a skill implies that its something you can constantly improve upon or have knowledge that can be applied. As someone who was big into the cold approach in my first year of college one thing you pick up is that being "good" at talking to woman is basically just tiring yourself out with so many approaches/engagements that eventually you dont have the energy to be anxious or care about being perceived or any social fears. Your social engagement become thoughtless and instinctual which gives off an air of confidence for most woman, that doesnt mean they will like you though, your just not going to be their type or they're just not down for whatever reason. Those girls will obviously filter themselves out by just ghosting you or blocking and no amount of approaching or confidence you exude will make them like you. Im not saying you won't get layed or a gf, just that talking to woman won't necessarily make the one you want like you back-- at best it will make you more comfortable with not having them. On a good note it did help me understand that what people call confidence doesnt have anything to do with ego but rather precision and efficiency in speaking/acting.

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>autism/incel thread
>look inside
>it's just normalfags giving advice that boils down to "just be a normalfag" and claiming laziness when you point out that this is shit advice
Once in a while some anons will drop some real wisdom, but most of the posts are just more proof that normalfags absolutely can't comprehend the idea that some people are actually just mentally/socially fucked and/or actually fugly.

>>30207204
If you've got a mountain of disposable income and it's legal, i could see fucking prossies. But otherwise not worth it imo.

>>30217630
autistic girls are dating normalfag dudes. if anything, tism chicks are the last type of gals you should be after if you're a sperg.

>>30207204
Nah mate, you can find a retarded woman, they usually are fat, but they're nice, if you want to fuck a super hot chick, then yes, hire one, it's better that hanging out with one, they are hollow, and absolutely horrible to talk to.
10s are for looking at and fucking, love is somewhere else.

>>30207322
>Go talk to girls.
Why the fuck would he want to do that? Yes OP, just get the hooker.

>>30213908
>dreams of a better tomorrow
lol
lmao

>>30217978
neither of the people in your .webm have autism you absolute subhuman piece of shit retarded fucking faggot.
Kill yourself.

>>30207391
Nah, he's not right. You're just retarded.

>>30218815
>getting this assmad over a joke webm
lol. lmao.

>>30217317
This >>30217523
Expectation is shaped by experience. These stereotypes aren't invented just out of nowhere.

>>30208410
geek clubs, board game clubs, but most of them are massive. There are the rare underrated hotties but they get snapped up quick and usually already dating the autistic chad of the group

>>30207204
Glad to see people actually being honest with you as a sperg myself. Constant retarded doomposting and people convincing each other they're undateable because xyz has been what led me to being borderline depressed for a few years and not doing anything to improve my life. About three years ago I got better and decided to maybe try and change things up a bit, started approaching people, making small talk about whatever, practiced my social skills as much as humanly possible even though I was shit at first. Now I've had one relationship behind me, and currently dating is actually quite alright, I can connect and be somewhat charismatic and I genuinely feel like a normie sometimes because the social side of things just comes much easier now. Don't give in to ""advice"" given by 40 year old NEETs who never did anything worthwhile with their lives and want to suck you in to feel less jealous.

>>30207204
I don't believe they are. You are very fortunate not to be taken advantage of by a predator already and turned gay to cope with an abuse trauma or worse, trans by long term predators that feign love bombing and affection and slowly pervert you.
Don't let therapists in to try manipulate you. Look for a good few friends that genuinely care without expecting something back but welcome your company.
You can only work on improving yourself and with that comes appeal, its a slow practice that you'll have to continually hone and not tear yourself up internally with stress from it all or overthink it into stimming, everyone struggles with this and overthink non issues into bigger problems than they truly are.

Try to become good at an art that enables you to communicate beyond language, painting, drawing or a musical instrument so you can express yourself and share. About women, women are so up their own ass that even normies can barely understand or put up with them, they are their own worst enemy and the only two emotions that reach them are fear and laughter.

Fear to them is an aphrodisiac but for us its a stress and that's why it betrays them so much as they consciously or subconsciously seek out danger and risk all the time with nigs or beasts, fear movies and terror, horrific ideas like thinking they can control an unpredictable dangerous element to their favor.
Laughter is obvious and universal but it's only a comforting appeal when they're already attracted to other aspects to you, or they may be laughing at you which is worse, don't belittle yourself or put them on a pedestal.


Success' often just how much people are willing to take advantage of others, the biggest ones are merely professional prostitutes and have less to offer than even you as they given up their lives for fiat currency and attention.
Keep it simple, take care of yourself, stay positive in this enveloping evil.

A sensible woman may find you if you can stand on your own two feet.

>>30207204
Any advice on how to find a proustite? I'm 23 and just want to lose my virginity already. I live in a small town in Michigan and live an hour away from Grand Rapids. Easily my biggest fear is getting caught by police and arrested. I looked at skip the games but again, the thought of a sting operation terrifies me.

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I've become okay with just living the rest of my life alone. It's still better than the tens of millions of boys who died at like 16 y/o in war. So if you're going to compare yourself to other people and make yourself miserable ("why not me"), try keeping that in mind.

I did go to a prostitute just out of curiosity. It was kind of fun I guess, but mostly just awkward. Unfortunately, having sex with a condom is for 2-pump chumps, I couldn't get off after like 20 minutes. So also a bit pointless.

Sometimes I feel lonely. Then again, sometimes I see some miserable fuck married to a fat hen-pecking bitch thinking of divorcing him because he keeps escaping into his "man cave" in the house he pays for, and think there but for the grace of god go I.

If you are average or below average looking (like me) + autistic/ultra shy, there is no purpose to trying to 'game' the system. "Just work out, bro." Even when I was in the best shape of my life, girls ignored me. My work (engineer lol) and hobbies keep me plenty busy without having to sacrifice a huge part of my life and self just to be #25 in line to screw some hoe that wants a free dinner.

>>30207204
>be physically perfect
>ruin it with tattoos and a septum piercing
slowly i began to hate

>>30220404
>I've become okay with just living the rest of my life alone.
Same. I am 38 with $5mn USD (down a lot.. the market rout sucks atm), and im quite attractive / look young for my age. My girlfriends in the past never were older than 18-21. So its not that I couldnt get an attractive girl, and its not that I couldnt afford a family.

Its just that modern women get so annoying over time. I legally have no recourse if ever kids come into play. Do I want kids so much that I am willing having to deal with a women my entire life, and getting my balls chained to her as a sacrifice? No, not really.

Prosties give me a lot of fun. Its a great pleasure of mine and replaces the sex I'd get from a girlfriend by many times, as I can pick a new one and dont have to bang the same chick all the time. And after, I can go home and be alone, not having to deal with a woman anymore. I can travel and go wherever, whenever I want. This is truly freedom.

As AI progresses, I also expect Optimus-like sexbots to be quite an alternative to prostitutes. It may be 10 years until then, but its "only" 10 years until a total revolution on the sexual market is coming.

>>30212101
i was looking for this. blackpilled af. one can't simply make up for a decades worth of social milestones in 2026. in the 90s, sure no fucking problem. now? fuck no. better to takes this anons advice >>30210915 and preparing for the coming unrest. want to be appealing to women? harden yourself and become useful - buy silver.

>>30212797
>confidence comes from, like, confidence...
>...but if there's nothing to build on...

>>30214011
>>30215592
lol. this.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=lls2iG_EvYE?t=214

>>30215242
it's normal for one social life to wind down as you age. the novelty isn't there absent that shared broad context. but what connections you have become more substantial, unless that is, you've none. then...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQWCx9QzExw

>>30216947
>even when I'm in a great mood I just have zero desire to talk to anyone I don't already know, and even then, only if I have something worthwhile to say
yeah, i know....it's the fucking best.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpzqQst-Sg8

>>30217612
>Am I just destined for chinkoid massage parlors at this point?
anon, you'll find that should've started there

>>30207694
I've had a few prostitutes and several sugar babies (a more casual, friendly kind of prostitution) and I don't think I can date normally now. Regular dating is full of flakes. So is the sugar scene, but not nearly as bad. It's like I pay a premium and suddenly everything works the way it should to begin with, like a fucking ride/food delivery app, or paying extra for no commercials.

>>30221074
>or paying extra for no commercials.
now, i only watch commercials when i want to...
it's like that.

>>30214874
ehhh and then
>maybe MAYBE lose virginity to ran-through 30+, while you yourself are no longer in your prime (never was desu)
the game was fucked from the start, wasn't it

>>30217612
>I can't stand to listen to or be around fucking women.
>I just can't bring myself to "do the bit" anymore

If it's any consolation, that's actually normal. We're not evolved to be around them as much as we are now. We're made to work on something with each other, or sometimes alone, and be around them when it's time to eat and fuck. Now they're at work, home, online, etc. we're not supposed to have to sit there and micromanage their fucking feelings and be around them so much. The result is burnout and a desire for simple sex and silence.

>>30207204
Just get gay and start fucking sissies and transgirls

Joking but also kinda not.

Some are pretty feminine and all they want is to be treated like a girl. They have the sex drive of a male and typically love sucking dick, cum in their mouths, and being fucked. Its free and they want it ALL THE TIME. Find one thats not a screeching purplehair and youre good.

Youre not missing out on much. Women are kinda fucked these days. 'Being a female' has basically been capitalized. There are good ones out there but damn. They want to extract as much value as they can out of you.

>>30220344
Usasexguide and the erotic review can help you. Don't jump right in and try to find a girl right away, just join the forum and look around, take it in, and learn for a while.
>>30220404
The married guys are often (not always) in hell. Imagine you're paying for everything, everyone depends on you, you have to die for your wife at any time, and she thinks she can decide when you can and can't do this or that thing. Unpaid bodyguard, paying bills, listening to bullshit, for nothing. And you're supposed to be grateful.

I think we're approaching a point where having a gf or wife indicates low self esteem. It's definitely not correlated with high self esteem.

>>30211438
THIS 100%

If you don't like sports any other kind of volunteering that you would actually be interested in can work too. Volunteering at an animal shelter, local park cleanup, a group like Habitat for Humanity, whatever. Find hobbyist or civic improvement groups that you are interested in that also have women your age in them and just start going regularly and force yourself to be social.

You may not click with any of the women who are in the group with you, but it will give you a chance to get to know them over time while you work on something together which is MUCH EASIER than trying to cold approach someone, and if you can figure out how to be clean and presentable and have a decent income and aren't mean it will eventually work.

PROTIP: Be as honest as possible with yourself about your relative attractiveness level (both physical and personality) and seek out women who are THE SAME OR SLIGHTLY LOWER. As an autistic guy your goal should be to find a somewhat autistic girl who you think is "kinda weird looking but still cute", not trying to chase down the 7s, 8s, or 9s that are chasing Chad Mc Footballer.

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>>30207204
Yes, that and sexdolls
Is not that bad you get variety of bodies and faces in prostitutes
And zero problems with sexdolls
But both can get really expensive

>>30207204
>>30211438
>>30221207
To add to this, you would be SHOCKED at how many smart and interesting women in the 4-6 attractiveness range who don't use dating apps have NEVER BEEN ASKED OUT in their entire lives.

Get off the apps and meet people IRL. The women on the apps want to pick and choose like they're browsing a catalog, but women IRL who don't use the apps aren't the same way and don't have the same expectations. A girl who uses dating apps is judging you against the entire world, but a girl who doesn't use them is judging you against the people around you and it's much easier to make yourself more attractive when you're competing against a smaller pool of potential suitors.

>>30221118
>Just get gay and start fucking sissies and transgirls
The feminine ones, hell even non-passing ones that aren't disgusting old men in drag, have a shit ton of options and it's honestly easier to score a normal human female.

You know the old saying: you're not paying a whore to fuck, you're paying her to leave when you're done. No strings attached. A wife or girlfriend, not so much.