>>43700008
MERMAN

>>43700008
Love going to the beach. Would never go to a public pool.

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>>43700008
Are any other bifags who are attracted to their own father but not their mother? or is it just me?

>>43700093
Think that just might be you bro

>>43700093
The way you phrased this makes it sound like being attracted to your own mother is the default. Some Freudian shit going on here.

>>43700093
you should probably talk to a professional

>>43700008
how do you even fuck a mermaid?

>>43700469
I phrased it that way because since im bi the default should be that im attracted to both my mom and dad, yet im only attracted to my father for some reason.

>>43700478
Therapy is unironically a scam, They aint gonna do shit or figure anything out.

>>43700583
>I phrased it that way because since im bi the default should be that im attracted to both my mom and dad
The default is that you should be attracted to neither of them...

>>43700008
>QotT: Do you swim? Do you like going to the beach or pool?
No, I think people would think I'm weird if I swam in a swim shirt/wetsuit, and I've got quite nasty self-harm scars, so don't want to take my shirt off. Maybe I should care less and just swim in a swim shirt, maybe if I get a one that looks sick it won't be awkward.
I used to swim sometimes, but never was passionate about it.

>>43700093
oh no sister..

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>>43700807 cont.
Forgot to add, speaking of mermen, Ocarina of Time/Majora's Mask male Zoras were huge for me realising I'm attracted to men.
Strangely enough, I haven't become a furry and I'm not that attracted to these N64 Zoras anymore, but found them really really hot in my mid teens lol

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>>43700583
>Therapy is unironically a scam
t. the guy who wants to fuck his father. no seriously bro get help

>>43700872
how do you feel about BOTW zora

>>43701212
Sidon is obviously hot af, random NPCs... it depends. I still find it funny how good of a yaoibait Nintendo made with that sidequest, I mean you literally ride Sidon (and it's the same game with that Gerudo outfit for Link)...
But something about these N64 Zora NPCs hits different, maybe it's a combination of lo-fi graphics and them being indistinct that leaves a lot of room for imagination.

>>43701212
Ive tried therapy many different times, with many different therapists. Not a single one fixed any of my numerous problems. Therapists are useless.

>>43700872
Ive never played a zelda game in my life but i want to fuck that fish man so badly

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The eternal bisexual fujoshi/himedanshi struggle...
Should they be paired with their opposite-sex peers so they can fetishise each other without any guilt?

>>43702153
If a television show significantly changes your taste and/or the way you relate to sexual and romantic partners, you are mentally ill CMV

>>43702153
Fujoshis dont fetishize mlm relationships. Theyre usually strictly into anime gays, not real ones.

>>43702271
Well, "bisexual men and women who really like to see same-sex action of their opposite gender" was a mouthful.

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We're finally back

I don't swim but I want to.

>>43700008
i NEED to fuck male airiel

happy birthday zoobro...wherever you are...

I fucking hate Disney why is male Ariel activating something.

>>43702579
It's activating your comfiness sensors. Calm down.

>>43702716
If they're activating my comfiness, why do you want me to calm down? Anon, are you trying to make me un-comfy? :(

>>43702579
Because your dick doesn't have morals

>>43702153
I don't know what you're talking about but I get what picrel is saying. For me dating men means dating straight men, which fucking sucks, even though I am attracted to them. I prefer dating women because I prefer dating other queer people, even if lesbians are crazy.

>>43703177
She's somewhat ashamed of her enjoyment of male/male action, and feels like a voyeur.

>>43703333
Meh, her loss.

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>>43702477
ripushko is doing the lords work

>>43702571
i miss the old bigen crew. some visit the discord occasionally but most have simply moved on

>>43702153
>>43703333
I'm a bi guy who thinks it's hot when women hook up dating a bi girl who thinks it's hot when men hook up. But we're not neurotic about it. I would avoid anyone who feels guilt over their attractions, assuming we're out of high school, which we are.

>>43703700
I never knew I needed femboy Ariel in my life until now

i got up at 3 am to vomit everything i'd drunk last night and now everyone is impressed with me for getting an early start on the day.

>>43706524
Remember to drink water.

>>43707831
I'd love to DVP my wife a FWB but I doubt we'd both fit.

>>43707831
Not wrong but it'd be hot.

>>43707870
I did that once with an older couple. was pretty hot. she seemed to really like it.

>>43703333
I guess I sorta got the criteria for a fujo, though I'm not a creep about it. I'm attracted to men. Watching two men fuck is hot to me. Watching two women fuck is also hot. But I guess the frustration, or creep factor, or whatever it is, come from the fact that I can't ever really have a *queer* relationship with a man, and that is sorta disappointing. I guess if I find my dream masochist femboy out there somewhere, it's possible, but unlikely. My whole life I've resonated more with being "not straight" than being a "woman". But cishet guys have exactly one way they expect women to be, and that's just not me. This, again, is why I date women more, because I strongly prefer dating other queer people.

>>43701212
Not usually a furry/monsterfucker, but would Prince Sidon

>>43700872
Somehow I dodged the bullet of being a furry despite reading Redwall and Watership Down at a formative age and liked anthropomorphic creatures like the Zora. Endlessly grateful to my younger self for not getting into that.

>>43709112
>I guess if I find my dream masochist femboy out there somewhere, it's possible
They're out there. Many of them don't know how to meet women.

I just want to top sissy boys and make them suck and lick me.

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I've been jacking off to a lot of cock-centric sissy hypno again lately. I mean, I'm perfectly repressed otherwise, so it's not much of a problem; but I thought I had shaken the sissy stuff for the last couple of years, because it was mostly gay porn during that time. I'm pushing thirty, so I feel like I should outgrow the AGP nonsense atp.

Relegating your entire sexuality to pornography has its perils. It's still better than having to deal with people/faggots/women/normies/...

>>43710237
Your my type of guy. serviced many like you. Sit on the floor between your legs as you kick back on the couch and let me work my magic.
>so I feel like I should outgrow the AGP
Im older. still havent outgrown it. it hasnt gotten any worse than when I was 23 but its still there. thankfully im a babyfaced manlet so have lived beyond my yrs lol

>>43710237
>>43710362
>>43710423
Being an agp sissy is a lot of fun ngl. But you have to embrace it. Like if you're gonna have an attitude like >>43710362 of course you won't enjoy it.

>>43709324
I'll keep searching.

>>43710504
I have so enjoyed it over the yrs. I dunno. I never took it too seriously. it never became all of me or my sexuality just a naughty little secret. I've never stopped being girl crazy and having lots of hetero-normative sex....but i've never been ashamed about even tho I've explored it fully. but I know im a not a woman, nor do I want to be a woman...but its fun to larp as one for horny men sometimes

>>43703700
I don't get people who're into feet

>>43713746
youd understand if you had never had any before but then you suddenly had soft femboy soles

>>43700008
Sleep tight /bigen/.

>>43704713
I miss him so much

>>43713746
I find feet disgusting but my bf has gorgeous ones

>friend says i look hot
>ask what he likes about me
>replies "brown"

>>43715657
why are you brown

>>43715663
when a brown mom and brown dad hate each other but still arranged marry...

>QotT
I can't swim but I like going to the beach. I'll hang out in the shallow end of the pool if I'm at a friends/family members house

I want to try bottoming but I don't know if I'd like it. Plus it would feel like a commitment. yeah I know bisexual pride but I feel like if I go for men I'd have to commit to men forever. Like it would be lame to have gay sex once and then strictly be with women for the rest of my life which I can;t help but feel like what would happen realistically

>>43716762
I think you should learn to swim - besides it being a practical survival skill, it's pretty fun. I think you should explore your sexuality as well. It's far more likely that you regret not having it done it, rather than it messing things up in the way you described.

>>43716762
You can try semi bottoming on your own, using your fingers + a toy. Could try that and see if it's for you before you decide to actually have gay sex

>>43702153
You couldn't waterboard that shit out of me.
Anyway, HR made my dysphoria flare up bad because iwnbam and iwn cum on a pretty wasian's face. As I've already mentioned somewhere on this board, the way HR is filmed it worships the male body in a very attractive, emotional way. To some people it's a cognitohazard.

Bigen lives

>Qott

Used to, I grew up around around the ocean plus most of my friend group lived near so most of my free time was spent in or around it, swimming, surfing, fishing snorkelling, spearfishing etc which is pretty strange since I have a phobia of open water. These days I dont live as close and don’t have much time so i’ve sort of dropped all those activities outside of uncommon occasions

>>43717629
>a cognitohazard.
what is this

>>43719338
A cognitohazard is something that becomes dangerous to you the moment you perceive its existence.

>>43719493
Hmmm... I don't get it.

>>43720129
https://scp-db.fandom.com/wiki/Cognitohazard

>>43720793
Yeah, I licked the screen

>>43720793
God I want a twink so bad.

>>43700008
wow. a bigen? in 2026?

Saw a very cute femboy at work today uwu

>>43721450
you tend to find them at shopping malls

>>43721805
theres one who works at a clothing store near me, big round glasses, glitter on his cheeks and everything. im sure he gets hit on a lot

>>43722033
The one I saw today was more subtle, kinda 'emo' (well, not really 'emo', no makeup, fingernails painted black, hoodie type vibe).
I work at a university bar and we give free food in lieu of payment for student volunteers who set up technical stuff for gigs and club nights, was one of them.
There seem to be so many twinks involved in that, it's like a different one everytime. Maybe I should try it out, it seems interesting too, I like getting to know how things like that work behind the scenes.

>>43703177
>For me dating men means dating straight men
Why?

>>43721805
...glitter on his cheeks...

Why have I never thought of this. The game has changed.

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>>43722876
Hard disagree, if I saw that I'd just think someone is Twilightmaxxing.

>>43722448
Because I'm cis f and bisexual men are basically never out to women. None of the men I've ever dated have been bisexual (or they weren't out to me). I'd love to date a bi man but finding them as a bi cis f is difficult.

>>43722989
In my experience a lot of bi men don’t tell women they’re dating because often straight women are very judgemental toward bi dudes, and those dudes believe that often “bi” women are actually just straight but say they’re bi because they kissed their friend once and it’s more quirky. I think a lot of bi dudes would be very into “actually” bi women

>>43722989
Don't most of the apps let you sort for bisexuals?
If not, put bi4bi in your profile and ask when you match.

>>43723281
I totally get why most bi guys are closeted to women, I don't really begrudge them that. And I hate fake bi women as much as everyone else.

>>43723373
Tried out the apps, but really hated it. I'm in a relationship right now but maybe I'll give 'em another shot one day.

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>>43723281
>I think a lot of bi dudes would be very into “actually” bi women
Scientific surveys say: Yes!

Sometimes I think I'm too stupid to fuck. I totally get why a bisexual invented the term "incel".

>>43726107
How are you even an incel as a bi/gay guy?

>>43700093
It's because attraction to one gender is the default; being bisexual inherently requires some kind of sexual deviancy, and you were likely raped.

Does anyone else want a relationship but also feel mentally burnt out at the prospect? On the one hand, I want long term affection, a family and stability, but on the other hand, I don’t like hanging around people.

I often wonder if I really want a relationship or if I just want sex and the idealised image of a relationship.

>>43726836
Maybe get a relationship where you don't meet every day? Or try a fwb?

if i lose weight will i turn straight

>>43728010
I tend to feel more gay when I lose weight/get in better shape, so good luck man

>>43728093
>Gets healthier
>Becomes gayer
Based

>>43726836
>On the one hand, I want long term affection, a family and stability, but on the other hand, I don’t like hanging around people.
Same same, friend

>>43722975
>Hard disagree, if I saw that I'd just think someone is Twilightmaxxing.

You immediately reached for the nuclear example. Small dashes across the cheeks is more than enough to come across as cute in casual settings and hot in party/club spaces.

>>43730646
NGL I just assume that any guy who uses makeup is gay or bi

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>Knowing you are bi but are only attracted to women or unrealistically passing femmes
It's just easier to claim myself as a straight than to give false hope to all the fellas and clockable gals...
[spoiler]This has massively backfired once so far with me fumbling a tomboy who was applying for FtM process[/spoiler]

>>43731427
That just sounds like you're actually straight friend

>>43731740
No! Say it ain't so!

>>43731758
Plunge into a femboy's bootyhole or your bi card is revoked

>>43731223
>NGL I just assume that any guy who uses makeup is gay or bi

In 90% of cases, you'd be probably correct imo

>>43732982
I mean, there must be some straight guys out there who do makeup. But I think I'd be correct in over 99% of cases.

Is it normal to still be a virgin at 24? I am not even ugly, but I am autistic af and don't know how or where to meet people

>>43733858
In this day and age, probably not -that- uncommon to be a virgin at 24. I assume you're male. I can give you some tips on the how and where and what not if you want to meet people and lose your virginity/get into a relationship, if you like

>>43733841
I can't stop laughing at the obviously stuffed underwear, holy shit. That's so goofy looking.

>>43732998
Straight guys really don't wear makeup outside of being on camera or on stage. MAYBE a tinted moisturizer, if that counts.

>>43733858
I was 22 before I lost mine for similar reasons.

>>43732695
do people consider femboys gay or straight
i'm high

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>>43733933
i need your tip!

Why do some people think that bisexuality isn't real because we have to "choose" once we get a partner? Do they want us to have multiple partners?

>>43733858
Would let you bum me and even buy you a drink

>>43735412
This argumentation also never made sense to me. I get some of the arguments about most people having a strong preference or most bisexual people (men or women) preferring men, but most people end up settling down with a single partner.

>>43735387
Lmao. I was serious though; I do have solid advice I can share

>>43735374
femboys and trans women seem straight to me. if your ideal man is basically a woman with not breasts or a woman with a penis, than its hard for me to consider you as anything but straight.

>>43736047
I’ve never got the “bi men prefer men” thing, most bi guys I know are dating women, especially the more masc/straight passing ones
>>43700093
Just you bro
>>43700469
It is, I’m attracted to her, really wish I wasn’t

>>43736047
>I get some of the arguments about most people having a strong preference or most bisexual people (men or women) preferring men
IIRC some study showed that of the bi men who are in relationships, 15% or something are in a relationship with another man. So assuming around 5-10% max of the population are non-straight male-male relationships for bi dudes are actually overrepresented, while the overall pool of potential partners among women is much bigger for obvious reasons.

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>>43700008
>>QotT: Do you swim? Do you like going to the beach or pool?
yeah, for cardio, play water polo too
at a pool mostly just chill at a beach, also nice to just wear board shorts rather than speedos/jammers so +1 to the beach
>>43733858
no but who cares? it's your life, do what feels right for you.
>>43726836
i blame dating apps for this desu but yeah, same
>>43722989
>I'd love to date a bi man
based

>>43737143
Nta but would like any advice your willing to share

>>43729182
Not origanon but we’re both after the same thing - are you cute

>>43737453
The most important thing when dating as a man (when trying to date women, at least) is to ensure that you have a great life - i.e. having a decent career, staying in shape and having hobbies that aren't just doomscrolling and binging TV shows. Ironically enough, the more you focus on building a great life for yourself instead of trying to be available all the time for potential partners, the more attractive you become.
In terms of meeting people, I recommend hobbies and sports that both allow for socialization (fitness is unfortunately not good for this) and aren't like >90% male or whatever. The reason being, that even if you don't click with the women there, or they are in relationships and what not, they are usually happy to set you up with their girl friends or gay friends - women value another woman "approving" a guy much more highly.
Don't be the guy that joins a hobby solely to find someone to fuck; people will quickly figure out if that's your intention and you risk getting shunned; instead, use the hobby as part of the good life you're building for yourself and only ask out people from the hobby if you're reasonably sure that there's a connection between you.
Also, the hobby should be something that's done a regular schedule - ones that aren't tend to fade out over time. Having people/friends in your life that you see regularly is a self-reinforcing effect, where they often end up introducing you to their other friends and expand your social circle, which once again makes it more likely to find someone you click with.

>>43737552
>are you cute
no

>>43741507
This looks like how Pirate Software (probably) sees himself
I puked in my mouth a little

>>43741718
who is that?

>>43737380
Inner left is adorable would

>>43742097
You're better off not knowing

>>43741507
bless dross in all his glory

>>43742747
Would actually do a legion playthrough

>>43742747
>>43741507
the bipedo accusations are winning

does bigen even have any trans or cis women or is it all just cis men

>>43744537
There's the occasional cis woman (or ones that claim to be that anyway) but I think trans ones mostly stick to other threads.

>>43744537
This is 4chan, there are no cis men, at most trannies in denile.

>>43745444
Why are they in de nile? Do they need help?? What if they drown?????

gotta get some money so i can go to an ocd psychiatrist so i can get a job to get some money so i

>>43745444
Wrong

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The older I get, the gayer I become. I wish I could live the gayfag life of my dreams

>>43747398
>I wish I could live the gayfag life of my dreams
What's stopping you?

Bump

>>43747878
It's too late to start. I never had sex when I was younger because I hadn't figured my stuff out, and now I think I have but I'm too old. I don't want to be a complete beginner at almost thirty. It's better to an abstainer.
It doesn't really matter. I'm exploring new ways of masturbating now. Sometimes I get sad that my actual sex life will always remain some vain, repressed fantasy, but I have a good life for the most part. So whatever.

>>43749495
I mean, it clearly bothers you significantly. You're never gonna stop being a beginner until you actually try it anyway.
You do you boo, but late is always better than never with this kind of thing.

>>43749546
Thanks for the advice.

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I LOVE MY BI BOYFRIEND!!!
Hes a 65%/35% country boy, looks like this anime guy and lets me finger his butthole while watching yaoi together!!!
YAYYYYYYY

>>43751389
Are you a chick

>>43751595
Yeah, why?

>>43751601
Sensed it from your post, ik you guys are yaoi fiends

>>43744537
I'm a bi cis f and I check up on the /lgbt/ board now and then. There's no way I can ever prove it but I don't care if 4chan believes me or not.

>>43751622
Okay then im a man. :3c
Not so typical now, huh?

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>>43751641
You're flirting with me
I hope youre having a nice day

>>43751707
No, Im just being silly.

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Anyone else constantly paralyzed by the fear of failure to pathologically that they never do anything?

>>43752567
I used to be. But at some point I realized that things would never get better if I didn't get better, so I dosed myself with homegrown exposure therapy until I was able to handle it.

>>43752588
Well guess I'll die then

>>43752745
That kind of thinking was unironically what helped me lmao. By "giving up" and realizing that nothing matters at the end of the day, it makes sense that you can just do whatever you feel like.

>>43752867
I'm sincerely glad it helped you

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if my heart hurts and feels hot when I have strong emotions about my male friend and I really want to take care of him way too much for my own good does that mean I like him? I'm used to my relationships with men only being transactionally sexual and emotionally indulgent cus I got taken advantage of a lot rather than like, properly romantic or emotionally intimate so idk what the wholesome, not codependent, not hypersexual version of liking another guy feels like. I'm an idiot, help
>>43703177
how isn't the solution to this just being bi4bi? i wouldn't be caught dead with a straight woman, cis or trans

>>43754271
It wasn't my intention to gloat or boast - just saying there's hope for you, but you gotta put in some effort to make it happen.

>be straight for a year
>urge to be gay is strong towards Christmas
>so strong that you contemplate leaving your wife to be gay
>says you pick up a graveyard shift
>goes to a bar
>pick up a guy and sleep with him
>shower and hurry home like nothing happens
>urge goes away be straight for a while
What's wrong with me, how can I stop this shit? I honestly don't want to bring shit back, but sometimes the urge is too strong. But its not all the time so I honestly don't think I'm gay or bi.

>>43754931
Cheating makes you utter scum of the earth

>>43747398
Been feeling that too anon. I repressed my sexuality for years but it's never gone away. I started cross dressing a few years ago in secret and I made things significantly worse. I've been less and less attracted to women which sucks as I have a gf. Recently all I've been thinking about is taking cock and being fem full time. Getting a therapist soon, how cooked am I?

>>43754648
I just do not have it in me

>>43733858
Same but I'm 34. I own a house and have about an $800k net worth but that's about it. I'm 5'5. I would say I'm more attracted to men

>>43756909
Men would be easy easier to hook up with. It's it possible you're just not very motivated to have sex.

>>43754931
Probably a LARP, but in case it's not: Kill yourself, cheater

>>43756280
If nothing changes nothing changes

>>43735374
gay as fuck but I love feminine males
yummy penis

>>43754474
Not her.
>how isn't the solution to this just being bi4bi?
>>43722989
>Because I'm cis f and bisexual men are basically never out to women.

Good to see bigen is still around. Is movie night still a thing?

>QotT
Yes, love swimming both in the pool and the ocean. Prefer the ocean though as it’s more challenging and waves just hit different. Not a big fan of lakes though.

anybody here have a "bi-cycle," where you essentially go from being "very straight" to "very gay" and back again. lately, I'm super fucking gay, just thinking of guys and skipping over anything with women.

>>43759117
Yup. Haven’t made out the precise pattern yet, but happens 1-2x a quarter.

>>43749495
If you have sex a few times now like yeah it will be a bit awkward but eventually you'll not be a beginner anymore. Then you'll notice that other guys are also just awkward and very big beginners as well

>>43759117
My cycle is more that I go from very gay to very bi, like I'll always be super attracted to guys

Good afternoon, bigen

>>43757688
I know nothing will change

>>43761453
bi the change you wanna see

>>43761453
Yeah, if you treat it as a self-fulfilling prophecy then it will definitely come true. >>43761625 is right.

Page 10 bump

just got off the phone with my brother, it seems he was voted out of his tranny polycule. always remember there are worse things than being single.

>>43764148
IMO being in a polycule would be a fate far, far worse than being single...

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Another year I go staying in the closet, but I guess that's just how it goes

Its 2026 and Im still bisexual to be cool.

Hope everyone had a good weekend.

>>43764905
>yeah

>QOTT
I love swimming. Being underwater and in water in general is one of my favorite things ever. I wanna be reborn as an orca or a spermwhale.

Yesterday, while high, I had a moment where I understood why girls go crazy for boy bands. I was watching Cortis (kpop band) dance and I had like a flash where I was attracted to these boys being cool and dumb. It was brief, because I'm an old fuck and teenagers are objectively horrid, when you stop to think about it. But I did understand, for but a moment.
Wild.

>>43764905
Why are you in the closet? Biphobic parents? Terrible country?

>>43711086
Yes, exactly!

>>43713746
I am not really into feet but my gf makes me lick hers as part of femdom. enjoy it but it's no different than licking any other part of her, which I also enjoy.
Sometimes I think how funny it is that some footfag is missing out on this and I don't really care.

>>43767933
It’s less about the body part itself and more what it represents, I think. My wife hates when I touch her feet cause she feels they’re never quite clean enough for me to touch or lick them during normal play. But in the context of femdom she’s totally fine shoving them in my face or having them kissed. Cause apparently “that’s different”.

Does your gf know you’re bi and do you integrate it into femdom play?

>>43768383
That makes sense to me rationally, I just don't have that particular craving.

>Does your gf know you’re bi and do you integrate it into femdom play?
Yes and yes. I enjoy it a lot

>>43768399
Lucky bastard. We haven’t gotten to that point yet, but I’ve been dropping hints here and there. It’s a long game though and I’d rather stay closeted than rush it and have it blow up the relationship.

bump LOL

How can a woman actually love a bisexual man, especially one who bottoms? Isn't she going to always in the back of her mind think about how he wants to submit to other men and it's his ultimate place because it's something she can't possibly give him? What's the answer to this as a bi guy dating a woman? Never tell her? Would it matter as much to her if he's not romantically into men?

I know for a fact this is a big issue because any time women are asked if they would date a bi man the majority say hell no.

>>43771188
it takes a real man to admit he likes getting fucked in the ass.

All the women I have told that I was Bi were very ok with it...even knowing I like getting fucked in the ass. One even married me lol. It helps that Im a chadlet and top women with with an intensity they crave

>>43744537
i'm a cis woman

>>43771188
I'm a cis bi woman and love bisexual men. I'm strictly a top/domme, so having men who enjoy being topped is great for me. The alpha male douche gender role doesn't appeal to me in the slightest.

>>43771188
I LOVE MY VERS BISEXUAL BOYFRIEND!!!

>>43771233
>>43771478
>>43771494

Y'all give me hope but it still feels like a huge hurdle to overcome with most straight women. I guess a bi woman might understand the complexities of sexuality and identity a bit better typically? So maybe bi man and bi woman could work.

>>43726836
I'm kinda like this.
>>43727009 has the right idea. My relationship with my bf got pretty strained when we were living together for a year. It got good again once we moved into separate places again. Don't listen to the people that say you have to live with your partner. Some of us just aren't made to spend time with another person 24/7.

>>43772002
Yes, it tends to be better. On the opposite side of things, I hardly ever date straight guys, because they have a script and expectations for relationships that I simply do not want. Being any sort of queer and dating straight people is a bad time.

>>43749495
It baffles me that anyone think's that they're too old for anything at age 30. You won't even hit middle age for another 10 years and you're barely out of your 20s. Also guys don't care if you're inexperianced at any age, they just want to fuck. It's mostly women that don't like it.

>>43768488
I just told her I was bi like one week into dating. Saved myself the trouble.

Which is best for 70s/80s?
https://github.com/ntsc-rs/ntsc-rs/issues/120

>>43773396
IP grabber.gif

>>43759083
>Is movie night still a thing?
yeah but it's on saturdays now

>>43773140
I literally cannot read a comic by this person without thinking about bikecuck

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>fancy hotel for the night on a business trip, been totally consumed with work and haven't jacked off in days
>strip down and get in my nice big comfy bed for a nice fapsesh to a really cute girl
>start spreading my legs and thinking of how hot it would be if I was getting it in missionary position rn
why the fuck am I like this

>>43774648
thats when you roll over and look at your ass in the mirror lol.

hotels are the worst - they make me so very horny for some reason esp when traveling alone. I've had many shenanigans both alone and not alone in hotel rooms when i've traveled alone

>>43772067
Kinda wish I had this. Would be wonderful to dress fem everyday.

>>43774648
I really fucking wish I wasn't like this bros.

My bi bf lets me put a finger in when i suck his dick >///<

>>43766566
Another year in paradise
>>43767762
Just seems like too much of a headache
My parents aren't homophobic per se but they think men can't be bisexual, and I don't know if I have the patience to have that conversation all the time
>"Wow anon you have a girlfriend I thought you were gay"
Or something annoying like that

>>43775516
based
you should take it further and bum him hehe

>>43774825
Hotel rooms are the worst both for triggering shenanigans and paranoia cause you might be watched. That said, I pity the guy who had to review my tapes.

Bought my first dildo today. Only thing I’ve used before was a butt plug and I just kinda stuck it in there and didn’t really move it in and out. So anyway I stuck the suction on the dildo into the wall and started moving. I thought for sure it was gonna slip out and I’d be stumbling around with it. But it went in and out comfortably. Holy shit it felt so good.

>>43772067
not living with your partner is generally the go to. you're more independent financially that way and don't have to rely on someone else to help cover bills

>>43777730
Congrats, you're a bottom now

>>43777777

>>43777590
I am unashamedly an exhibitionist in hotel rooms. I dont care who sees me in panties and thigh highs...and I dont care who sees me get railed by by a man twice my age lol

>>43776950
Oh I do >:3

>>43781297
Seeing that would make me so jealous and sad, its not even funny

>>43781519
Real. Even reading other people's experiences online is such a heavy feeling. Maybe next life.

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>>43783812

>>43781519
>>43782634
posts like these are usually made by someone who is 23 years old and barely even chubby, not even 6 months away from a femboy figure

What do you call it when you're not trans but the only thing you can nut to is custom erotica about being a woman who gets taken on embarrassing and humiliating dates by much older men and these dates have to end in some kind of humiliating and rough sex and there has to be a cum signal and after that, the narrator breaks the fourth wall and admonishes you as a complete loser and a degenerate as a form of post-orgasm torture

>>43784267
I'm 28, I'm literally an old man

>>43785437
>What do you call it when you're not trans but the only thing you can nut to is custom erotica about being a woman who gets taken on embarrassing and humiliating dates by much older men and these dates have to end in some kind of humiliating and rough sex and there has to be a cum signal and after that, the narrator breaks the fourth wall and admonishes you as a complete loser and a degenerate as a form of post-orgasm torture
Coombrain. Lay off the porn for a while

>>43785474
I have long stretches of time (weeks to months) where I masterbait very little but it still doesn't go away

Bad day. Work sucks. Had a disappointing conversation with my boss but can't find another job because the world is bad y'all.

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>another 18yo wants to fuck me
>his profile says he's 30
>think to myself "why does he look so young?"
>"oh btw anon I'm 18"
At least this one has an average dick ig

>>43744419
Me, I do Legion playthroughs
Ave

>>43785520
Then find someone to live out that fantasy with I guess lmao

>>43785530
Tell more about it if you like?
My job has been giving me less hours so I picked up some part time at an old job
But they are also giving me less hours

Why are masculine men never admired here

>>43731427
Ok chaser

>>43788428
are they not admired enough in cishet society

>>43788428
Post some, board's free

>>43788428
cuz being feminine is literally always more attractive than being masculine

>>43703177
Honestly straight people come with so much less baggage, even if you like having someone else who can relate to your own baggage, trying to find someone who has sufficiently healed enough or strengthened enough to not be a burden is exceedingly difficult. Commiserating isn't an option when you're trying to get ahead in life. I am also often more attracted to trans women than cis women literally because they understand what it's like to be like me more but so many people are full of deal breakers between 20 and 30

>>43737245
Any amount of penis interaction is gay because the Overton window on being straight is toward really straight.

If you want a dick in your mouth even if it walks and talks like a girl you're not purely straight. If you would fuck someone transgender or a somehow impossibly passing femboy and want to ignore the penis entirely/feel negatively about it then yeah you're a desperate straight man. It's fine to just say someone is a little bisexual

>>43788445
>”chaser”
>literally just attracted to femininity and not caring about gender or what’s between their legs
bi elitists are so strange

>>43788428
as a bi guy, i've been kind of playing the m/m side of the field a bit and to be frank a lot of masculine men just arent great to be around. self absorbed, rude, not at all romantic or fun, kind of bully-ish, also a lot of them smoke which is gross. the crowd is just very beauty and the beasts gaston coded. their hearts are mirrors turned inward

idk, maybe im looking for a unicorn

Arranged a "counselling" appointment through my job scheme about my relationship. feel like a failure I cant sort this out on my own. I guess I could but I dont have big enough balls to do it and just want actual advice I guess.
Is the sinking ship all in my head or am I actually the problem. Who knows, Will find out in two weeks...

>>43791342
Seeking advise is not a failure. Sometimes things are just too big to handle on your own. Marriage troubles, if you don’t mind me asking?

>>43791404
Yeah it's just that come from family where that sorta thing is like you are a failure basically having to resort to that type of thing. just ingrained in me.
Not marriage, just with my partner. She's going to another country for a year in 2 months, her big 30th is coming up next months, she doesn't have any friends here.
I'm her one and only, I haven't felt much for her the past couple months, everything I saw feels empty, I'm not that interested in her, I love her but not in a romantic way I don't feel. I could have met up with her today but I said I was busy and I don't think I really miss her.
I tried telling her how I feel, she kinda dismisses it, saying we'll make it work and just tell me whats happening, but I don't really have the words to say or what it is even so ends up in a loop.
But to her I'm her whole world and she's super happy when she's with me and she's come a long way.
I'm just humming and hawing about what to do

>>43791342
>>43791404
I'm just now realizing in my thirties that I was conditioned to considering needing help as failure. Because if I planned appropriately then I wouldn't need help. Don't now how to unlearn it.

>>43792114
You probably have an avoidant attachment style. You can look that up and go from there.

>>43791465
Tough spot to be in, fren.
>don't really have the words to say or what it is even
I’d start there. I was in a similar spot a few years back and the thing that helped me was to be honest with myself in terms of what I really wanted out of life. Things sorted themselves from there.

>>43792729
>be honest with myself in terms of what I really wanted out of life
What if you don't really know what you want in life but this doesn't really feel like this is it?
I don't think being in a relationship isn't for me. I do think it would have been better if I had kept it as just being friends...

>>43794163
>>43791465
I can't tell you what you want in life, but it very much sounds like you gotta get out of that relationship. The longer you drag it out the worse the fallout is gonna be. You should sit her down and talk things through (without letting her dismiss it) until you guys figure out what the right move is - even if that move is to break up.

>>43727009
>Or try a fwb?

I have this right now and it's good/bad. We met on an app for anonymous hookups. I went there because I'm older and wanted to explore these thoughts I've had for literally decades now before i get so decrepit no one would want to. But I don't like tall bearded hairy muscular men (ironically what I look like, I'm 6'5 ) and I met a younger smaller fellow (25, 5'2) who wanted an older guy. We met and talked about what we each want and decided to meet up. We've met about 5 times now at his place. He's very quiet and sort of submissive really. I'll try to talk to him, but he just nods or gives one syllable answers. But he just wants me to fuck him, which ok fair, that's what we agreed to, but i guess I want more of the F part of the FWB? When we're done, I want to hold him cuddled up to me and just stroke his hair and kiss him and he is ready to just clean up and say good bye until he texts me a week or two later asking if i can come over again.

>>43794163
What >>43794233 said. Sounds like you need to have an honest talk with her about how you feel. cause judging from afar it looks like you’re only gonna get more miserable if you don’t get this sorted.

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>>43785534
He pulled out of the hookup last minute
https://youtu.be/BmBA0egH2ZE

My job is such a fucking shit show I hate it

>>43796815
Whats the job

Bump for jobs

Pretty wild how dead this site has become post April 2025

>>43700008
How do people not get attached when hooking up or doing fwb?

>>43799815
What happened April 2025?

>>43796815
Printing technician. The actual work is fine. The work environment is toxic.

>>43799933
I just assume everyone hates me and never wants to see me again.

>>43799949
Sharty hack

>>43799954
Hey I might be pretty good at hooking up then

>>43799967
oh shit yeah the world's so fucked up I forgot that was last year

>>43799971
It's the only way I know human intimacy!

>>43799933
I've only hooked up once and frankly didn't like the guy
Had another hookup planned for today but the guy cancelled last minute
Has been a pretty dogshit experience so far with the amount of scammers, people blocking me, etc. that I just want to go back to edating atp

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>>43800000
Holy shit, first quints I think
That makes up for my bad day

>>43800000
Sorry to hear you were stood up. Nice roll!

I think the internet is dying for me as a social space. I used to enjoy early social media and the internet because I'm a loser and it was easier to connect with people online and people who weren't in my actually life. Then everyone got on social media and the internet got so sanitized and mainstream and now it's not usable a social sphere for me anymore because you're easily doxxed or people from your real life find out you're a freak. I feel myself becoming more of a shut in because there's nowhere for me to find people.

>>43800489
Couldn’t agree more. It imho started with Facebook and the whole performative posting bs which went into overdrive with Instagram and LinkedIn. I avoid social platforms like the plague these days.
>there's nowhere to find people
There’s plenty of fragmented underground communities on older or obscure platforms (or discord). But yeah, discovery has always been and remains the key issue with the internet.

>>43799815
Yeah...

>>43801996
for anyone interested.

>>43802132
Ok.

>>43805448
I don't get this milk is not sexy

>>43800686
>There’s plenty of fragmented underground communities on older or obscure platforms (or discord). But yeah, discovery has always been and remains the key issue with the internet.
The thing is I've gone through a few subcultures and I still feel like an outsider. I've never had that "community" that people talk about. I think the common denominator is me and for some reason my vibes are just off putting.

>>43806186
"Milk"

>>43700008
Thanks for the FAQ, honestly
I think my biggest issue now is why I felt straight through most of my life and suddenly late 20's and early 30's I started finding transgender people, femboys, and then some guys attractive. It seems everyone has this realisation when they're young so I just didn't know if it was inauthentic

>do I swim
I am not a very good swimmer

>>43806569
I don't find jizz very sexy either. Like I get some people do not it's not for me

>>43807133
Think of it this way: what makes a desire inauthentic? If you want something, does it matter why? Tastes can change.

Also, as we age most of us feel less pressure to conform.

>>43806186
it is when its femboy milk

>>43700583
maybe your mama ugly

>>43807133
Did you feel straight or did you just never consider an alternative?

>>43806205
Totally get what you mean. In many communities I always felt like a tourist. It’s nice being there, fascinating to see how people interact and maybe even click with a few folks, but ultimately it didn’t feel like home or I lost interest. But I also find online communities are much more fluid. Rules and etiquette are looser and you can just drop in and out without people caring too much.
>for some reason my vibes are just off putting
Who gives a shit online? If you’re into the given topic of the subculture, don’t act like a cunt and people still have an issue with you? Fuck ‘em. Best communities I’ve found were always the ones that put the topic front and center and just let people be.

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which one are you bigen

>>43807354
I guess it just felt like a phase and/or porn addiction, like why didn't I feel like this earlier, maybe I'm just lonely? And then when I considered if I was actually not straight I didn't want to enter a space or apply labels to where it might not have been real? And you hear from people who are queer this is just something they knew pretty early on like something they knew was inherently them and I didn't until much later so I was torn if I was.
>>43808668
It's possible. I don't know, I feel more like I thought of myself as straight and then that has just gone down over time to the point where I imagine myself with a range of genders, which like I said above just didn't match with how other people described how they knew or some big awakening. Just felt like I was a dumbass who watched porn and that I was being some objectifying piece of crap or something.

>>43810929
Well either way, be kind to yourself. In my experience, sexuality is not a strict and rigid thing, especially over time. When you have it in you naturally to "be straight", a lot of times it's just easier to view yourself as normal. Don't worry that being a late boomer makes you inauthentic.

>>43810822
Big head gang. Somewhat related, but people (men) think having a big dick is cool but having to search for condoms that are big enough that they don't choke the fuck out of your dick is really annoying

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80s anime was so progressive

>>43794505
You need to find someone to be in a relationship with. You are going to grow old and die, make a life with someone while you're still healthy and affectionate enough to choose someone you want

>>43814140
>Have you tried meeting your soulmate?
nta but WOW who knew it was so fuckin easy

>>43811591
>condoms

>>43814555
Some of us don't want AIDS

>>43814883
Then maybe don't whore around and only fuck after developing a bare minimum of trust and exchanging clean tests

>>43810822
I've got a very large head. Nice mushroom cap to go with the pretty thick shaft. and im a manlet so it looks extra big on me and I always have a noticeable bulge. I love catching females taking a peak

>>43815015
I don't whore around, but with a new partner it's 100% always condoms at first

>>43815106
To what benefit over testing?

>>43815554
Someone you've only met recently, and women

>>43815775
>Someone you've only met recently
"Whoring around"

>>43810929
You kinda sound like me when I was 21. I just lucked out realising so early when I drunkenly hooked up with a trans girl while on holiday. I would probably still think I'm just a porn-brained straight person otherwise. For what it's worth, that was 8 years ago and I'm confident I'm still bi after experimenting more irl over the years. I think I always was bi in hindsight, it's just easy not to realise it before you actually have physical relations with a guy.

>>43815863
Recently as in for a few months for example. Maybe it's a cultural thing, but where I live it would be considered bizarret to ask to be tested before hooking up with someone, both in a one-night stand and a serious dating context

>>43815554
Pregnancy

>>43815554
Sometimes I wanna fuck right then and not two weeks from now