>>34691481
>unpack why you're into "sadistic women"
Coz the idea of suffering/experiencing pain for someone turns me on a lot ? (Within reason ovsly)
>and what you think a sadistic woman is, right here right now.
Someone who gets turned on from being on the opposite side of that duh
Do u have problem or smt lol ?
Ive been into this shit since I was like 10 long before I even knew anime existed lmao

>>34691528
You type like a retard. KYS

>>34691481
>>34691539
Guys STOP you’re gonna turn him on!!

>>34691539
No u retard
>>34691544
Lmao I wish it was that simple

>>34691947
What do you want done to you?

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all women are sadistic

>>34691481
OP doesn't know what he's talking about but I was friends with this girl 10 years ago who was a fucking monster. She always had something terrible to say to people, history of violent crime, served time, complete psycho. Acted like a doll for me so I had no complaints. Loved watching her getting into fights in random chatrooms, wish we'd lived near each other. I miss that crazy bitch.

>>34691981
Im into A LOT of stuff lol... why are u asking ?
>>34691991
True but mentally which is not hot
>>34692004
Maybe u should look up what the word means before making bold claims u stupid retard

>>34692021
>what the word means
First, learn to use proper English before attacking someone else's use of the language. Second, what the fuck are you talking about?

>>34692025
Sadistic doesnt mean psycho u fucking retard

>>34692059
I didn't say she was, please interact with the post I wrote instead of the one you're imagining in your head. She got off on hurting people and did so impulsively all the time. What would you call that other than a sadist?

>>34692075
Fuck man how embarrassing for me
>I didn't say she was
I didn't say it did*
Too many chickens in too many pots what can you do

>>34692059
well, do you mean sadistic in a sexual kind of way, or in a clinical pathological kind of way?

>>34691481
kys shion

>>34692084
Heh look at urself
But ye Im too lazy to argue ur retarded :D
>>34692085
>well, do you mean sadistic in a sexual kind of way
Mostly this ovsly but it can overlap which is interesting to hear too

>>34692609
>Mostly this ovsly but it can overlap which is interesting to hear too

it might seem that way, but it's always good to set boundaries

>>34692634
sorry i thought you were someone else

>>34692735
i also get annoyed by those who chase after crazies, i broke myself for one of them =)

>>34691469
all the women I've known who are nurses or nursing assistants are pretty sadistic for some reason

I wouldn’t exactly describe myself as sadistic, just dominant. I love sincere, fumbling men, who do stupid things. Guys who are extremely drunk always pique my interest for this reason. It’s almost like cuteness aggression. I discovered I had this proclivity when I was 14 and at the waterpark with a guy. He suggested “surfboarding” where I’d step on his back as he swum underneath the water. It felt so thrilling to have his back squish under my feet. I’m not sure why I developed this way, I just like control I guess.
It’s similar to the feeling of messing with a beloved pet. I don’t want to injure it, just play with it.

>>34691469
I wouldn’t exactly describe myself as sadistic. I love sincere, fumbling men, who do stupid things. Guys who are extremely drunk always pique my interest for this reason. It’s almost like cuteness aggression. I discovered I had this proclivity when I was 14 and at the waterpark with a guy. He suggested “surfboarding” where I’d step on his back as he swum underneath the water. It was thrilling to feel his skin under my foot.
I don’t want to inflict true suffering but I want to control the guys I’m into and see them weak

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>>34693469
not me. some incel is revenge posting my username everywhere. im not even close to 19

>>34693061
>>34693066
I need to find someone like this and let them tickle the shit out of me

Wtf my reply got deleted ? Weird.. Ill just repost Ig lol

>>34693066
Hot... are u into orgasm control too maybe ?
>>34693484
Ngl sad.. no wonder women dont post anymore... fucking mentally ill faggots...

i don't think I'm (F) sadistic in the sense that inflicting pain itself brings me enjoyment. but i do like bdsm because i think it's hot when a man is enduring or enjoying some kind of suffering in order to keep my attention/interest. like it just sets the intensity bar higher knowing that someone's devotion is stronger than their dislike of pain/discomfort, which is a turn on. so I think it's more that I'm dominant but there can be a sadistic flavor to it sometimes.

>>34693484
such a weird place to revenge post it, too.
"oh no, submissive guys asked me to beat them up"
not much of a revenge

>>34697300
I'm not OP but the idea of devoting my all to someone, putting their needs/wants 100% over mine is my whole uhhmm if ur interested I'm on Discord as trashreap yeah okay

>>34693061

Hey do you maybe have a discord?

>>34697300
im a sadomasochist and I know exactly what you mean. It's definitely a good feeling but I'd agree it's not really sadistic in and of itself

>>34697300
F too and I like gentle/mommy stuff the most, giving praise and doting. But also, the concept of a man getting aroused at being hurt is kind of hot too. The subversion of expectations, a man who is “supposed” to be strong but secretly wants a girl to slap him or spit on him. It’s kind of cute? But the act of slapping itself doesn’t turn me on since I’m not really sadistic.

i get horny over the thought of guys killing themselves if that counts

>>34697343
not currently looking for a full time submissive sorry

>>34697356
yeah. i think i could get more into enjoying the pain itself with someone who was also into (receiving) it just from getting to do it more & get more experience, but haven't had the opportunity. though i think even removing the devotion/endurance component what's most hot to me is the other person's powerlessness more than their pain still

>>34697358
personally i do feel like if the scene/dynamic is only gentle/nurturing I lose interest or get bored pretty fast. it is more satisfying to give praise/pleasure as a reward for either physical/psychological harder stuff, like then it's really been 'earned', and the contrast between them feels more intense and rewarding

If they are, then they should feel free to add me <3

32m
Dc - bingedibongedi

>>34697300
>>34697358
>>34697505
Wow ok these are quite interesting..
Im op ovsly and despite posting this Im not into pain as much as Im into the fact that the other person is turned on/enjoying my suffering, and the fact that Id be suffering for their entertainment and perversions.
Especially if theyre pushy and demanding about it, implying it has to be done. Like for example some of the femdom posts where a woman states that a kink that happens to be more extreme is mandatory rather than a "Oh we can discuss this". Reading stuff like that is an instant turn on and Im immediately sold.
BUT it has to be genuine, they have to truly enjoy it and have fun while doing it rather than doing it coz I asked, otherwise Id rather not do it at all.
>it is more satisfying to give praise/pleasure as a reward for either physical/psychological harder stuff, like then it's really been 'earned'
Personally I dont like praise at all, it makes me cringe and turns me off but desu in this context it would be quite nice especially if Ive been pushed to the limit...

>>34698279
have you tried Fetlife? might be a good way to find someone in your area who is into the kind of relationship you want

>>34698300
Yes ofc I have !
But sadly as a guy and especially one from a conservative european country thats almost impossible, most women on there are whores (fin"""dommes""") or very fat/ugly/old or partnered(not looking) or very mentally ill, usually a combination of some of those 6 things.
And mind u Im not even that picky Imma skinny younger guy and Id be fine with lets say being with someone double my age or weight and stuff like that but its much worse than that lmao... Like I got SOME standards...

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>>34698346
Hmmm... I will say when I got on Fet the number of adds/messages/spamming I got after listing myself as a domme was pretty insane, and I really locked down/removed a bunch of stuff from my profile to cool things down since it annoyed me. So it's also possible there's more around but online they're lurking or keeping public info discreet.

As for what someone could do to find me & hold my attention... desu I have been single long enough that it would take a lot more than average probably, I like my life as it is so adding someone to it means they need to bring something to me I can't get on my own. I only add people on Fet if I have met them at an in person munch/class/event, and I don't take anyone seriously if they try to meet up/hook up with me right away. The ones who just say "I'm looking forward to getting to know you more at our social events" or after we've chatted a bit/they've learned about my interests, let's say shibari, maybe offer that if I ever need a partner for one of the rope workshops they'd be open & I can feel free to reach out. Basically the ones who make their interest known (vs saying nothing and hoping/praying I assume their intent and take unprompted interest) but are NOT in any way pushy or trying to speed things along. They put out an invitation but leave it in my court to decide how much I want to talk or when to take them up on those offers. And crucially are not just fixated on trying to set something up but can converse normally on their interests (kink or vanilla)/themself/talk to other people and don't try to latch on/monopolize my time/energy.

Idk I think in vanilla dating men are used to being the aggressors and having to really go after women but for me as a domme that's kind of a turn off at this point. Like *I* want to be the one doing the chasing/hunting someone down. If I'm really interested in someone it is pretty obvious but there are a lot of invisible steps/vetting/casual interactions I want to have first.

>>34700136
I feel like fetlife would be filled with a bunch of weird pervs and i’d be scared to even use it as a woman

>>34700142
It sure is! but so is every other place on the internet, and at bars, and in school, and at half the hobbies I join (desu a lot of women I know have at least one "old lady hobby" so they can go to some sort of hangout space that has no one that will hit on them. mine's embroidery). so like, in some ways at least on fet people are blatant about being into you for sex reasons rather than having to constantly guess if someone is just friendly or trying to be sneaky about it. and Fet gives you way more options for privacy and to curate who can message/interact with you than most other social media so there's that

I'm posting on this website so obviously I have some level of tolerance for weird pervs already though.

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>>34691469
sadist through and through 25/UK/F
not really into pen pals but hmu if you like, dont be surprised if im not whatever fantasy you spun in your head though. Its pervasive in my life & i dont mind discussing it.
disc 120days_

>>34700596
>that pic
Male spotted

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>>34700644
cant even really blame you for assuming that but, no. id say it takes a woman to truly appreciate female suffering, actually.
post generic questions here as i cba to individually reply to people.

>>34691469
you dont date me, or we date for a short period of time before i lose interest. i am chronically bored
a lot of abuse made me this way. i just like verbally tearing someone to shreds once i know their weak points and have to hide my joy because it makes me happy.

>>34700710
Edgelord virgin loser

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I like men that do everything I want. Into blood, cutting, needles, sometimes piss but that's not a deal breaker. Must be willing to satisfy my bloodlust. If you're going to add me then send me an introductory message explaining who you are and what you expect from me. Not looking for a fulltime sub, just a plaything so that I can get off
narcoticritual on disc

>>34700136
U sound like a billionaire talking about not understanding why homeless ppl dont just buy a home lol
I dont think u understand how soul crushing online dating is for most men and ESPECIALLY for sub men, and yes I have tried for almost a decade now.
The only way to see some success is to live in a huge city AND on top of that u also have to get very lucky, and mind u all of that can easily end up in disappointment coz she didnt like this and that and theres a few thousand other guys waiting for her.
If I could end my life and become a sub cis woman for just a year I would do it in a heartbeat, this is probably one of the worst sexualities to have.

Reading the rest of ur post sounds like u just like playing games and have no clue what u even want, absolute time waster.
I firmly believe that truly dominant women are super rare and most of them would find a sub pretty quickly coz they wont beat around the bush and waste time online. But besides I said sadistic not necessarily dominant.
>>34700142
U need to be 18 to post here
>>34700710
>post generic questions here as i cba to individually reply to people.
What are ur most extreme kinks ? How do u think u ended up with em ?

Yes, I'd say that I'm a sadist, more or less. Only to adult men though. I don't enjoy seeing women, children, or animals suffer.

It doesn't matter though. 99.99% of all the male """subs""" and masochists you come across are only looking for a very specific fantasy, from a woman with a very specific aesthetic and personality. They don't want anything that even slightly deviates from the daydream they've been cooking up in their head for years. Basically, they just want a sub with extra steps. It's ludicrous. After years of trying, I've completely given up, and now only pursue vanilla relationships.

I don't think it's within the nature of men to be receptive to people, much less women, controlling them. You could argue this is just human nature in general, and you'd be right, but I can guarantee you that there are more authentic female masochists out there than male ones. Even the male masochists who go as far as to self-harm still just want a woman to boss around. Ask me how I know.

>>34704648
>people, much less women
I just realized this inadvertently comes across as sexist lol. You know what I meant.

>>34704648
>a very specific personality
I feel like Im guilty of this too damn.. but Id still try stuff with anyone whos interested in this stuff and see if it works. But I do think it does take a specific personality to make it work properly anyways.
I dont think the "specific aesthetic" comment is true
>but I can guarantee you that there are more authentic female masochists out there than male ones
This might be true but to claim women are subs in general or better subs on average would be insanity tho women are masters at manipulation and topping from the bottom (because they have no other options aka strength like men). I find this type of dominance gross. I prefer more direct, overt and physical dominance.
For example women denying their partner sex is a relatively common and known thing and then ppl will turn around and say how women are naturally submissive and other bs...
Personally it would never cross my mind to deny sex to my partner and it doesnt matter if Im in the mood and how Im feeling... as long as Im not in a horrible condition its my duty.

Besides why dont u describle urself what ur into and what ur looking for ? If nothing else its fun and interesting for us to read about it.

>>34704648
this is why men are based.

>>34704648

Those are the "do me" boys who hand you a script and want you for fantasy fulfillment. Kinky relationships are *relationships* and anyone coming at you dick first is not looking for that.

>>34705145
What a useless comment. The chances that you'll just so happen to come across a guy who's a masochist out in non-BDSM settings is next to none. You *have* to put yourself in more sex-orientated spaces. And yes, this does inevitably mean having men come at you "dick first." People into maledom truly don't get how rare it is to randomly come across someone into femdom, whether male or female.

Like I said, I only date vanilla now, and every single guy I come across in the wild is into soft maledom. That is the default. And I've learned to begrudgingly accept it.

>>34704753
I'm not even going to bother replying to most of this post since you're doing nothing but proving my point.
>women are masters at manipulation and topping from the bottom (because they have no other options aka strength like men). I find this type of dominance gross. I prefer more direct, overt and physical dominance.
A woman is never going to be able to physically dominant a man the same way a man can physically dominate a woman. Your fantasies don't even have a basis in physical reality. Femdom without psychological domination isn't femdom at all, it's just shitty roleplay.

>>34705224
>I'm not even going to bother replying to most of this post since you're doing nothing but proving my point.
Lol fair Ig
>A woman is never going to be able to physically dominant a man the same way a man can physically dominate a woman. Your fantasies don't even have a basis in physical reality. Femdom without psychological domination isn't femdom at all, it's just shitty roleplay.
Yeah ur right she wont and in most cases shell be weaker but the thing is most women despite the man being a sub are still trying to do shit in a cunning covert way instead of being more relaxed and physical.. u dont have to punch me or break my arm to get ur point across but u can push me or hit me a lil and shit like that. And just in general be direct tell me what u fucking want tell it with passion instead of beating around the bush lol
Ive met a woman like this irl and despite the fact that she was below average looking (Imo) I later thought about her coz it seemed like she was confident direct and she wasnt afraid of me.. Ive never met anyone like this since tho. Also Im a pretty small guy so Im not all that imposing or anything lol.

Also pls post the stuff ur into.. ur making me rly curious. I get that ur not looking for anyone but its still interesting to read and maybe ull give some ppl hope lol

>>34705550
Cannibalism/vampirism, bloodplay, knifeplay, medical fetishism, spanking/whipping, shibari, post-orgasm torture, cock milking, slavery, hypnosis, Nazi uniforms (yes, I'm blonde and skinny enough to pull them off), rape, amputees/disabilities, mind breaking, reverse harems, and a bunch of other ones I can't be bothered to list.

>>34704648
I mean I atleast find the idea of actually being controlled hot, in my past relationships Ive told my exes that Im into being dominated etc but it always ended up in them asking me what I want and I say I want what they want and it goes into a loop until I either tell them what I want and then Its gay cause I can tell they arent really into it and are only doing it cause I want it or I gotta try and dom without losing my boner xd and dont get me started on asking a girl to hit you harder but she wont cause she afraid of hurting you no matter what you say.
The idea of having a girl thats actually into domming me I think Id like ALOT and I understand they arent gonna fulfill my perfect fantasy of all the kinks I have and of course I have limits but as long as they are actually taking control I think thats pretty hot even like the idea of a gf telling me what to wear or to like not go out with friends lol
Then again Ive never actually experienced it so I dont know if id switch up but I think I wouldnt because Ive honestly been into this as long as I can remember.
>>34706289
Pretty hot but knife and blood stuff scary and am very monogamous

>>34706289
Damn I feel like Ive talked to u before lol.. Are u by any chance from UK ?
But not bad Id say Im into about 60% of the stuff u mentioned but could probs be "convinced" to do most of it...

Whats ur opinion on cbt and permanent emasculation ?
>>34708575
>but it always ended up in them asking me what I want and I say I want what they want and it goes into a loop until I either tell them what I want and then Its gay cause I can tell they arent really into it and are only doing it cause I want it or I gotta try and dom without losing my boner xd and dont get me started on asking a girl to hit you harder but she wont cause she afraid of hurting you no matter what you say.
>The idea of having a girl thats actually into domming me I think Id like ALOT and I understand they arent gonna fulfill my perfect fantasy of all the kinks I have

Omfg this ! Sooooo much this. This is beautifully said and I agree 100%
All the "dommes" should actually read and understand this.
I might not be into all the stuff my hypothetical dom is into but if theyre passionate and have that fire in their eyes about it and actually enjoy doing it Ill probably learn to like it too.

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Just a reminder that women who don't want to participate in murder couple activities aren't real sadists, but just larping failed normies who are effectively useless.

>>34709908
Bruh lol

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How to get a sadistic girlfriend? Stop being a loser and approach girls. Make yourself the type of boy that will attract the type of girl you are looking for. Why am I a sadist? I have no idea. It’s something that has manifested as long as I can remember. My earliest memories are of beating up my little brother, my parents love to tell stories about it. I like the rush I get from feeling in control by putting other people down. I am a sexual sadist and a general one, I like bullying new hires at work and the like. I am extremely captivated by abusive relationships and in the process of convincing my boyfriend that he likes it when I hit him.

>>34715253
i am in love with you already

>>34715253
Holy fucking based. Fucking diamonds after that rant

>>34715253
Message me, 30m loser who's afraid to talk to girls
Kik whatsinthetrunk

hi
21/F/US
id like an east asian husband to berate and pick on then comfort with kisses and cuddles
melancholicrabbit on disc

>>34715306
If ever you wanna forgive me and play more rift
I enjoyed talking with ya

>>34715253
>Make yourself the type of boy that will attract the type of girl you are looking for.
Wtf would a sadistic girl even look for lmao ? A guy that doesnt mind being abused and doesnt fight back ?
>and in the process of convincing my boyfriend that he likes it when I hit him
Hot...

Tell us some stories about it all please ???

>Wtf would a sadistic girl even look for lmao ? A guy that doesnt mind being abused and doesnt fight back ?
You presumably like when you can tell a girl is sadistic, yes? It’s in how she carries herself. Boys like you go for a girl with confidence. To attract a girl with confidence she’d want to exert over you, be meek and insecure.

As for stories, he told me early on in our relationship that he wasn’t into violence. Last night he let me bite and slap him hard enough the teeth marks and bruises are still visible. You just have to tell him he wants it and if he’s the right kind of bitch he’ll believe it. Or he’ll suffer through it like a pussy until it becomes true. I told him last week that I was flirting with other men and got him to apologize for reacting poorly. The key is making a guy feel like he can’t get better than you, which I am sure would work on all of you sorry virgins.

I'll save the suspense and tranny larp that's going on ITT, and inform you that sadist women (to the extent they exist) want CHADS, same as any other genre of women, and that precludes the kind of chopped beta losers that look for dating on /soc/. Glad I could clear things up, don't @ me.

>>34717965
You wouldn't be on 4chan if you knew what women want, faggot.

>>34718063
>he thinks I spergishly announce to everyone IRL that I'm the hacker known as 4chan
Bet this retard also thinks woman can detect men's "bad personalities" except for when it's a 6'6 tatted felon that chops them up into a garbage bag lmao

>>34718347
women*

>>34717672
>be meek and insecure
What if I just look lost and depressed is that enough ? Im very anxious and insecure but Im not sure if ppl can see that while Im distracted by something.

>You just have to tell him he wants it and if he’s the right kind of bitch he’ll believe it. Or he’ll suffer through it like a pussy until it becomes true. I told him last week that I was flirting with other men and got him to apologize for reacting poorly. The key is making a guy feel like he can’t get better than you, which I am sure would work on all of you sorry virgins.
D-damn.. h-hot...

What if u figure out that hes actually into it ? Would that turn u off ? Especially for example if hes into being cucked and instead of him being scared about ur threat he encourages u and is generally a bit bratty ?

Pls share more of this stuff its very exciting to read... especially harder stuff.. !

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>>34718354
>D-damn.. h-hot...
>What if u figure out that hes actually into it ? Would that turn u off ? Especially for example if hes into being cucked and instead of him being scared about ur threat he encourages u and is generally a bit bratty ?
>Pls share more of this stuff its very exciting to read... especially harder stuff.. !

Coincidentally, the nonpassoid ogre troon that wrote the post you replied to probably also looks like picrel so you'd be a good match

>What if u figure out that hes actually into it ? Would that turn u off ?
I long for a boy that wants me to beat the fuck out of him. It would be so much less work.
> Especially for example if hes into being cucked and instead of him being scared about ur threat he encourages u and is generally a bit bratty ?
I can't fucking stand brats. The last time a boy pissed me off like that I couldn't calm down until the next day after I imagined raping him and bashing his head into the wall.

>>34718352
such a fag you can't even spell women lmfao

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>>34718404
Thanks for your concession of defeat.

>>34718392
>I long for a boy that wants me to beat the fuck out of him. It would be so much less work.
i hate my life and feel like i have nothing to live for so i would probably let you do this to me

>>34718413
fuck... this is just like in my japanese animes i never should have entered these woods... faggot-sama, i... i KNEEL...
also i'm not her i just find you amusing

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>>34718360
this is outta the blue but i drew this shitty image LOL nice to see it be put to good use, i think the guy you replied to also looks like it tho

>>34718427
>her
lmao, this nigga really thinks it's not another utterly nonpassing troon writing fanfic
>>34718433
Yes, was the one of your replies in the draw thread where it was posted. It really should get more use on here since it fits many of the e-gf beggars so well.

>>34718360
>>34718433
Nice projection retards Im skinny small and twinkish

>>34718450
can i see

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>>34718450
mb, fixed it.

>>34718392
Less work in what way ?

And sry but I just cant resist being at least a little bratty it gives me such a rush.. I would probably stop it eventually if what comes after is harsh...

Which continent are u from ?

>>34718445
our group chat is cooking you rn i hate 2 say it

>Less work in what way ?
I would prefer to be able to beat his face in without having to first mindgame him into it, even if that part is fun. It's a waste of my time.
>Which continent are u from ?
North America.

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>>34718465
>the group chat in question

>>34718473
Damn.. I hate when its to the face ;-;
Why not something nicer like ballkicking or whipping ?
East coast ?

>Damn.. I hate when its to the face ;-;
What losers like you don't get is that it doesn't matter what you do or don't like. The type of woman you want doesn't care and may leave you for all the bitching.
>Why not something nicer like ballkicking or whipping ?
I don't see the point in using anything but my hands. I don't like BDSM equipment. I want to LARP an abusive relationship, people aren't carrying around whips to beat their partner with.
>East coast ?
Yes, actually.

>>34718507
Ye but if u destroy my face how am I supposed to look good for u and do normal daily stuff ? If I was literally kept inside all the time then it doesnt matter but not many would be down for that...
But ye ok hands only thing makes sense

Are u close to Maryland ?

>Ye but if u destroy my face how am I supposed to look good for u and do normal daily stuff ? If I was literally kept inside all the time then it doesnt matter but not many would be down for that...
But ye ok hands only thing makes sense. Are u close to Maryland ?
None of this matters because I am completely uninterested in you.

>>34718533
Thats fair but u can still answer the first part coz Im not sure how would the guy function if ur regularly destroying his face..
Even my parents tried avoiding hitting my head as to prevent brain injuries and damage visible to public

I like the look of a destroyed face. Are all of your questions this stupid? You sure are demanding for the position you are in. This is why men like you can't get a girlfriend. You say you want to please women but you are a thinly veiled selfish piece of shit.

>>3471855
>I like the look of a destroyed face.
I gotta work tho... so not quite practical...
U sound like u just want revenge or are mad rather than being into it and enjoying it.

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I'm posting this as a sort of last ditch effort in a couple places, so apologies ahead of time for the spam in multiple threads. I'm essentially looking for someone vile and disgusting, well as far as societal norms are concerned, because I wouldn't see you as such. I see immense beauty where most see things as only putrid. I want to fully embrace someone's whole being, even their most darkest unacceptable parts, while they in return embrace mine. I'd like to meet someone that sees past the illusory nature of our world, and wants to limitlessly revel in our desires, regardless of what that might cost ourselves or others. Let the flower of evil bloom until "our personal hallucination develops as boundlessly as the total nightmare of human society".
contact:
singularcurtain

>>34691469
>How to
You need to either enter specific niche circles, usually BDSM type clubs or simply use your intuition/let one sniff you out. Most sadistic women, and Im gonna say sadistic and not dominant because they're not one and the same, are very selective of who we date/'engage' with.
Basically, we want to avoid went blankets, phonies, and like many other women, freaks that don't match our own.

>What are you into
The description says it. Pain. Well, inflicting it to others, that is. Sadistic women can be into an array of things, but only willing or interested in executing some. I'm personally very into impact play with both objects or hands, but I find medical play a bit tedious. I like knife play, but it's very tricky to find partners or ways in which to effectively practice. Same with CBT, though a lot more men are willing to the latter.

Best thing you can do is think about what YOU are into and what YOU are willing to try. Something I can say as a general statement is that no one likes subjects with cold feet. It's a sure way to lose contact permanently. If you just like getting a little spanking and a pull of the hair SAY SO. You might actually find someone interested in it.

DO NOT act brave. If you are interested in something but have never tried, be honest about it. Do not put the woman in the annoying position of having you call red light when we're in the mood and we're about to reach the climax of the moment. Not saying you deserve it if something happens because you were trying to people please, but, yeah, you're fishing for sadists, you need to protect yourself.

We like typically like submissives not PickMes. Again, be honest.

Those of us who are smart aren't really trying to pay large hospital bills or go to jail, thank you.

>>34719050
>I'm personally very into impact play with both objects or hands, but I find medical play a bit tedious. I like knife play, but it's very tricky to find partners or ways in which to effectively practice. Same with CBT, though a lot more men are willing to the latter.
Ouu nice taste desu
>Something I can say as a general statement is that no one likes subjects with cold feet.
It blows my mind that theres ppl who succeed at finding this and then they pussy out lol.. would rather kms at that point...

Ur american Im assuming ?

i want to speak with a masochist who likes emotional pain. i want to pick at your inner world. bonus if you have abnormal experiences...
be aware i may get bored; dont take it personally
discord stareintoyoursoul

>>34722468
>emotional pain
NOOOOOO NO MORE PLS

>>34722468
I like all sorts of pain. Unfortunate about the bores part. Hope you find someone.

>>34725277
Bored

>>34697358
I’m also F, and I like the way you worded this. This is pretty much why i like being more dominant. It’s hot when a guy is willing to let go of his power and ego and let the woman take control. Especially if the man is normally pretty powerful, masculine, etc. I’ve been submissive before because that’s what my partners were into, but it isn’t as satisfying. Because yeah. Strong man takes control of the woman. Breaking news! It’s more fun the other way around, for me at least. When it comes down to sex, the psychological aspect is extremely important to me.

>>34698346
I tried fetlife as a 22F and had the same problem lmfao I’m not into older men and not into obesity either. I feel like younger people don’t really use fetlife? And most of the people on there were couples looking for a third…

>>34725345
Same anon (idk if ID will change)
>It’s hot when a guy is willing to let go of his power and ego
Exactly, the willful submission. It’s so cute. Like, the idea of slapping a guy and him liking it and being bashful about it. Not into “brats” or the idea of forcing it on a guy who doesn’t want it. I talked for a while with a guy who you’d never be able to tell he liked it if you saw him out-and-about. I get these thoughts like, “You’re a man and you want to be treated like this? You’re such a loser” (in a cute, complimentary way kek). Very psychological yeah; it comes down to “you’re not supposed to like this, this is embarrassing for you.” When I’m having alone time I have to get into a pretty fantasizing/imaginative headspace. I still consider myself more on the gentle and caretaking side of things despite everything I just wrote lol.
>>34725357
Agree, i imagine it would be mostly old creeps.

Every once in a while I get a urge that is quite contrary to my usually kind and respectful demeanor. I'm looking for a girl to indulge in that urge with me. I want to be mean. I want to bully. I want to humiliate and degrade you. Your personality, life choices, body... Everything on the table. She must be open, vulnerable, and eager to please, otherwise we won't get very far

M/36. Married. Father. Creative. Articulate. Patient. In the mood.

Go ahead and introduce yourself...
Kik: Thurbbber

>>34725465
Jesus yeah I pretty much agree with everything you wrote. It’s not appealing to me unless they’re also enthusiastic. And kind of pathetic. But I’m also a very nurturing person, I think there’s a good balance somewhere

used to have a girlfriend that enjoyed pushing my buttons. she was so cute irl, but such a mean tease in bed.
can still hear her call me a "good boy" in the back of my mind and it perks me up instantly.
girls with a mean streak are the best

>>34691469
It’s probably one of those attractions that if you’re strenuously seeking it out such sadist women can detect it & don’t want you compared to a guy they can actually dom around for a better thrill.

It’s why in those stories of girlfriends who end up killing their boyfriends it goes on for months before she actually does it, it’s a frog boiling of the guy psychologically that isn’t present with someone already entering the relationship for it.

Sadistic women are fucking based, love seeing them enjoy it. I can't help that even the dark emotional stuff and gaslighting is kinda hot to read. Tbh those guys probably knew what they were getting into and perhaps enjoy it even on some level. I think I'd be good enough at setting boundaries to avoid that stuff. Protect all sadist women.

I need a sadist to bully the fuck out of me desu. Sadistic woman are hot. Gentle Femdom is nice too, I'm just a masochist who loves it all.

>>34725357
Theres no way u had the same problem thats just bs coz Im from a very conservative country and Ive seen many male subs of all ages.
U just have unrealistic expectations.

>>34691469
>How the hell does someone find and/or date u ?

Munches. Best way to find masochists who are not idiots. Online has been a nightmare with people who think they are maso because porn turned them on, but then chicken out OR even worse completely suicidal people who think their mental health problems will get better when someoen else tortures them. IRL it's much easier to find sane experienced people. IF you need to find someone online fetlife, reddit and discord servers work fine, never met anyone worth my time on soc.

>Also what made u into a sadist/what are u into ?

I was born this way. I got wet panties when my school visited a medieval torture instrument museum when I was like 12.

>Bonus

If you say sadistic please be more specific. I am purely a physical sadist, on the mental side I want to be sweet and affectionate, kiss you while I crank up the TENS unit. Lots of sadists are other brands and want to dehumanize you or piss in your face.

pegging, chasity, knifeplay, gunplay, bloodplay, impact play, degradation/backhanded praise, spitting, biting/scratching, spanking, orgasm control/denial/ruined/forced/torture, CNC, humiliation, electroplay, yandere/stalking/kidnapping/snuff roleplay, possessiveness, forced begging/groveling, stepping on, pissing on, tying up, overstimulation/edging, blindfold, gagging, dehumanization, keeping him in a kennel, puppy play, mommy/mistress kink, namecalling, bullying/mocking, and probably a lot more than i'm remembering, these are just on the top of my head. but on the flipside, i can be just as sweet as i can be cruel if he wants it. i do love a good boy who does as he's told, and rewarding him as he's earned.

this goes without being said, but i need him to be 100% into it and consent. i want to know he loves it as much as i do, if not more so. i get a lot of my inspiration between horror media and my own desire for power. outside of the bedroom though, i'm a lot sweeter. aftercare is important to me.

>>34732555
You sound perfect.

>>34732555
take me mommy, i'll be good.

>>34732555
Sounds good, except for the namecalling, because I know for a fact you're going to be sweet to literally everyone else in day to day besides me.

>>34732555
If you are interested in talking about these more in depth, add me on Discord:

atazs

Sadistic foids run this server coke get bullied
https://discord.gg/u5ahunuksH

>>34732517
>If you say sadistic please be more specific.
For the sake of thread the question is for both physical and mental sadism but Im personally mostly into physical side of it
>>34732555

Are either of u from europe by any chance ?

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insane, spiteful, batshit insane sadistic women are just filled in our discord server. they love tormenting guys and fucking around in the vc. you wont find more crazy girls anywhere else than here

https://discord.gg/H3bUrdE7eM

slept on it, remembered a few more;
waxplay, collar/lead, chains, forced breeding, misandry, hung up, choking/suffocation, body writing, hot branding, gimp/leather, fearplay, chasing, masked killer/final boy roleplay, corruption/dubious, cosplay, marking, hair pulling, handcuffed, worship, aggressive facesitting, and again probably some more.

>>34732657
i'm very flexible with all my kinks. i don't expect someone to fulfill them all. and again, i can be a sweet dom just as happily. sweet boys deserve love too <3

>>34733221
sorry, i'm from the states.

>>34733134
>>34732647
>>34732611

made an alt. add me if you wanna talk - chichinyafromhell

>>34733868
>sorry, i'm from the states.
Damn not the best.. are u maybe close to Dalaware ?

>>34735132
opposite end if the country i'm afraid.

>>34735222
Damn.. kms we need more eu ppl on this website... but gl !

Bonus question: What do u think of castration ?

>>34736370
>Bonus question: What do u think of castration?

it's funny, i suppose. not really getting off to it, but i do like CBT. i know that's somewhat uncommon, but i do love the sounds of a man whining and in distress - no matter the means.

I think I'm a sadist.
I get a high from the pain of beautiful women, the suicides of incels, the suffering of East Asians, etc.

I don't know why I am like this, I'm probably like this because everyone always told ME specifically to be the "good girl" and a "lady" all the time, like it was my duty to be the responsible one. It made me resent and hate the weaklings of humanity, I'm serious.

I can't date Jewish men for this reason, I can only date an emotionally stable and mentally strong white man.

>>34697920
Bump bump, would love to talk to a sadistic woman

23 F UK Here, definitely a sadist (some masochism). Mainly being self inflicted pain (physical/psychological and or paired with blackmail. Bisexual so gender and age doesnt really matter.
Not looking to date but can add my discord: ipmasquerena. Its a alt account so replies might be slow after a few days

Bump

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>>34691469
>How the hell does someone find and/or date u ?

i usually like to only talk with guys that stimulate me intellectually or make me laugh, as in they'd be my experimental hamster while i observe them, or a jester. just be interesting/entertaining i guess

>Also what made u into a sadist/what are u into ?

made a guy cry in high school, never got over the high. i'm usually a stoic person so it felt really odd to me. i enjoyed it a lot though. i think anything that brings discomfort, sadness or pain (physically/mentally) to someone makes my heart beat, especially people that are already depressed. but also they're just fun to watch.

>>34739892
Damn tell us a few stories ?
>made a guy cry in high school
How ?

21f blasian. still looking for east asian husband to beat on and then soothe with kisses and coos. bonus points if you let me leave bruises on your neck and arms and legs and torso for your friends to see so you have to make up an excuse for why you look like you got ran over. if youd like i can also slap you and keep you like a pet.

melancholicrabbit on discord

>>34740841
>How?
he was a dunce in school, bad at studies, asked me for answers and i bombarded him with degrading insults because i was already pissed off and i didn't want some brain dead idiot copying my answers

then he started tearing up and looking away from me, i was hearing him whimper and shit it was super hot. i ended up apologising to him but wow i've never felt that horny before

>>34740903
D-damn lol...
Cute that u still apologized
Do u have more stories to share like this ?

>>34741088
not really, occasionally i'll say something insulting to get that look of embarrassment or shame from a guy but i haven't made one cry yet, i try to avoid it now because my sadistic tendencies have been brewing up more these last few years and i don't wanna act upon them in public

unironically i don't think i'd be able to hold back

>>34741135
>unironically i don't think i'd be able to hold back
Hot..

Are u into physical sadism too ?

i love being pooped on by girls, please insult me

>>34741146
kinda embarrassing to admit but one time in my teens i paid some random guy 10 bucks so i could burn my cigarette out on his arm, pretty enjoyable but the high didn't last that long, i don't think he was into it.

but if we're going into fantasies yeah i'm really into physical sadism, i want to carve my name into someone's lower back or stomach. slap their face around and spit in their mouth.

i could go into more depth but i don't feel like it, and don't ask me to either

>>34741388
>kinda embarrassing to admit but one time in my teens i paid some random guy 10 bucks so i could burn my cigarette out on his arm, pretty enjoyable but the high didn't last that long, i don't think he was into it.
Damn so random.. I wonder what he thought of it lol...
>and don't ask me to either
Nooooooooooo mommyyyyyyyyy

>>34742128
>Nooooooooooo mommyyyyyyyyy
i'm probably younger than you

>I wonder what he thought of it lol
that i'm some sadistic freak, but he wouldn't be too far from it

do you have any stories you'd like to share with the class?

>>34741388
Go into more depth about it. Now what?

>>34742844
nothing right now because i'm probably oceans away from you retard.

>>34742754
>i'm probably younger than you
Possibly but u can still be my mommy if ur mentally older and beat me like my real mommy :3
How old are u then ?
>do you have any stories you'd like to share with the class?
N-no Im shy.. maybe if u convince me...
>>34743914
Which continent ?

>>34744917
>if ur mentally older and beat me like my real mommy
holy shit someone like you deserves to get beaten up.

>How old are u then ?
20

>Which continent ?
EU

>N-no Im shy.. maybe if u convince me...
what the fuck am i gonna say? i have better things to do than wasting my time trying to convince you.

LF maso women (mtf/cisOK) who either aren't bland insipid losers or are willing to let me antagonize them for being unsubstantive if they are

t. sadistic piece of shit trans woman

reply with @. moralfags need not apply

>>34745652
>holy shit someone like you deserves to get beaten up.
Yay uwu

Ohh are u the same person that posted in the femdom thread ? From UK ?

>what the fuck am i gonna say? i have better things to do than wasting my time trying to convince you.
Ehm well Ig I can share one experience.. but I only had like 2 or 3 and all relatively tame..
But uhhh when I was cuddling with my friend(Ig shes a bit more than that) she accidentally kneed me in the balls by trying to move her leg and get closer.. My pp immediately got hard and I got excited in general... but since I reacted to the pain she ovsly asked what happened and when I told her she started apologizing and all my horny and excitement died in a blink of an eye... In other words Im fucked lol

>>34741088#

I would love to cry. I have been having a really hard time trying to cry and I want to. I suppressed my emotions too much and now they are just imploding.. so I wanna cry.

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>>34747900