>>41906609
If it’s not life necessities then eventually your desires will subside but not disappear if you condition yourself to ignore them. Depends on what you want. I can’t imagine life without desire.

>>41906649
I'm an alcoholic and also addicted to relationships, to put it shortly but blunt.

>>41906670
And? You think you’re going to be a Rockefeller or something if you cut the booze and nagging holes? You adopted those habits because your life felt incomplete when they were first adopted. If you cut it out you will need to either suffer or replace it with something else. The only way out of desire is to become numb to the pain of lack.

>>41906609
Well is seems you haven't gotten to the heart of why your after these things in the first place. You may need to find the root of the drive then see if there a positive alternative to what your doing now.

I know for me being naive and continually getting blamed for small things I was look for approval that I wasn't a burden on then only to find that I need to believe that for myself first.

>>41906609
You wish to be free of desire yet you desire to be free of desire, curious!

>>41906720
This^

Also...

>>41906772
This^

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this is literally the plot of buddhism

>>41906609
Pray. It's that simple. Ask God to remove sinful desire and to change you so that His will becomes your desire. It happens fast. It feels like depression at first because your former desires are torn away, but once you recognize the change you begin to feel actual joy.

Jesus Christ is Lord

FREED FROM DESIRE

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>>41906609
By letting go of the desire to let go of all desire.

Dummy.

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Chant a mantra or pray. Whatever flavor works best for you, Vishnu, Jesus, Allah whatever.

In eastern tradition it's japa mantra
For Christians it's hesychasm or rosary
And for Islam its called zhikr.

The more you do it the less and less interested you become in the things of this world. From my own personal experience chanting the hare Rama hare Krishna mantra from the kali santarana upanishad works best for me, things that used to mean the world to me that I would lust over are now just like dogshit in the street, couldn't ever imagine giving A fuck about Gucci belts pussy or coke anymore. But again that's just my own experience do whatever path vibes with you most and what's best for you.

My personal suggestion is to pray or chant in your mind, it's much harder than doing it out loud but much stronger, it feels like lifting weights in your brain, all is mind after all so it's a direct transmission to source/the universe God/Christ/Krishna whatever you like to call it

>>41906609
Programming is just repetition you can gaslight yourself into any function belief state if you repeat it enough that you start to believe it

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>>41907577
LUM! :3
based Lum poster