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Used to have a massive crush on this girl. She rejected me and then started making fun of me. Now I wanna kill her. What to do?
If I need to state the obvious I don't mean actually murder her just that she's been pissing me off beyond belief.
So I'm in college and I'm a part of this friend group. It's a pretty fun friend group. A good mix of both nerdy and athletic people of both sexes. There's this girl in the group I had a massive crush on. I thought she was really pretty and thought she was goofy and funny.
And me and her had a decent dynamic. We were more acquaintances than friends but when we interacted it was good.Then one day I asked her out on a date and she literally bursted out laughing and just started going off on me asking me how fucking delusional I am to think that a guy like me has a chance with a girl like her.
If it ended there it'd be okay I guess though she's still a bitch but from that day forward she began to make fun of me every day and still does, picking apart literally everything I say.
Like if I say I was truck in traffic she'll say traffic stopped because I was so ugly and it made them nervous and they stopped driving. Or if I say my internet is lagging she says I was probably looking up child porn like the loser I am and the FBI was monitoring my internet. Or if I say that me and my brother have never gotten along she'll say that my brother is as gorgeous as Luigi Mangione and I'm as horrific as Danny Devito.
And it's fucking constant and non-stop.
The worst part is everyone else while they don't say they agree with her they also don't call her out either and treat it as normal. I even told her if she continues to piss me off one day I'm gonna punch her in the face and she then says that it doesn't matter because I'm so weak even a girl can punch harder than me.
And I love this friend group but Jesus fucking Christ this girl... while I'm not gonna do it I just feel like strangling her. She can't leave me alone for two seconds.
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all you have to do is fire back at her. insult her with things you know she's insecure about. it sounds like you've been part of this group for a while so you should likely have enough information. if not ask other people in the group about her
find out what she's sensitive about, exploit it and hope she gets the message
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>>34203772
Give it back.
Zero in on an insecurity. Don't go for the low hanging fruit like calling her a slut though. Make it personal.
Man hands
Flat ass
Insult her intelligence
There's gotta be something she's insecure about.
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>>34203772
The worst she could say is no
Oh brother..
Well I'm just going to assume that your friend group is okay with this type of bullying and offensive language and that this isn't out of the ordinary for you guys, then what can I say man, try to get friends who are respectful to each other. If they all see this as normal then they're enablers and not really friends. If someone in my friend group was making fun of another someone in my friend group I wouldn't stay quiet about it. I even defend people I met recently if someone makes fun of them and it's unwarranted. You treat others how you want to be treated, it's not just a couches cliche it's something you should live by
I wish for you, that one day, she will pass out drunk and you can slam it and make mayo inside her. She sounds horrible
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>>34203772
Back when I was a little boy back in 1989 my father taught me that a truly righteous man who is good of heart would never hit or harm a lady in any way. Now here I am at age 42, my father is dead but I still hold these very same beliefs.
For your situation in specific though?
Just for a moment I would completely unlearn all that my father has taught me and just slap the absolute shit out of her. And for this instance I know he wouldn't blame me either.
That is no lady. That is a bitch. She acts like a man, hope she likes getting treated like a man.
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I'm guessing this friend group of yours wants to stay in her good graces so that one day they can get a chance at her. See, it used to be bros before hoes, but now as I've observed, girls ARE bros.
I would say burn the whole thing down. They are basically just her now if they're not even bothered by this.
And that's why no girls allowed in the secret clubhouses. And that's why you don't eat where you shit. This is what they do, whether they're a megabitch about it or not.
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>>34203772
this is exactly why i never ask females out and instead just pay for prostitutes
is it expensive? yes
however in my opinion the time you spend dealing with female's bullshit is much more expensive than any amount of money if you know what i mean
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>>34203772
Okay normally I'm not a violent person at all, haven't even gotten into a single fight during school, but I don't think I'd be able to hold back here. Like goddamn holy shit she sounds so fucking insufferable. I thought an old man at my old job was annoying because he would constantly keep snorting super loud but this just sounds so much worse
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>>34203772
alright this only makes my fear of rejection even worse. the way she treated you in my opinion is even worse than being stabbed 20 times in the chest. it's like you're physically still alive but she murdered you on the inside instead
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>>34203772
I'm assuming the friend group only gives her a pass because she's hot. From what you described she's probably at least a 7/10, maybe more. If she was a 2/10 though she most likely wouldn't get away with this.
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>>34203772
Start getting the friend group to hate her, then do little things to scare her, like when she makes fun of you just stare really intensely into her eyes and not say anything, as edgy as that is it's scary for them surprisingly, then start following them around, not like noticeably but make sure they're constantly aware your near by. Also spread lots of rumors about them around campus but do it very secretively so it doesn't lead back to you.
He's a really cool power move, find her work place and then have you and a group of friends take selfies with it in the background, make sure she can see it.
Basically just make her very scared to even be around you and she'll leave you alone or you could take it further and legitimately just start tormenting her.
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>>34203772
Alright real talk here, I obviously don't know you or her personally but from what you wrote here I feel your pain and I want her dead.
As for advice I would just tell her something like: "So look here, I asked you out, you rejected me, and that should've been the end of it right? Wrong. Instead you have to torment me every fucking day and make it a huge deal. Like what the fuck is your problem with me? Huh? Is it because you're such a shitty person that the only thing that makes you feel good is putting others down? And by the way I don't find you hot in the slightest anymore. You may look fine physically but with your personality you're the ugliest fucking girl I've ever seen in my life."
If you tell her the above I imagine she probably won't even know how to respond with how immature she sounds.
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>>34209740
>Is it because you're such a shitty person that the only thing that makes you feel good is putting others down?
I wouldn't assume this that sounds like weak pussy talk he was fed by a therapist. All the rest he should ask her though. He'll probably lose his friends in the process but at least he'll be free of the torment of them all and actually have dealt with it. And who knows, maybe fighting against her will cause her to think him strong and now want him kek. But if it does, get your fuck in and leave her.
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>>34203772
all the people saying you should answer and give her hell are morons. if they let her do that already and even tell you she's right the chances are when you rebel they are gonna side with her and the injustice you will be subjected to will be gut wrenching. It is not worth it, especially that it will also likely affect your reputation outside of this friend group.
however it's true you're being an absolute doormat. nobody that sides with her is your friend. i'm sorry anon. this is tough but the earlier you realize you have to pick well your friends, the better.
so what you should do, is to see if you have real friends in this bunch. meaning they never sided with her, and likely think she's being a bitch. you should invite those friend to hangout and tell them you don't want to see the others again because of the girl. if they are truly your friends they will understand. don't force them to stop seeing the group, but rather establish your own activities with them, and start making other friends outside of the group.
If everyone in the group sides with her, just leave without drama and find better friends. it sound hard but it's the best solution for you.
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Invite people to hangout but don’t invite her . She is causing everyone to lose respect for you and there isn’t any real solution to this other than that, just cut her out and stop hanging out when she’s around .
See who stays with you .
Worst part is she’s doing this behind your back too , she is a cancer and needs to be excised . She is eroding your position from within to lower you and she moves higher by comparison . You can’t hit her , this is the only way
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>>34209781
>I wouldn't assume this that sounds like weak pussy talk he was fed by a therapist.
Exactly! Plus hasn't it been scientifically debunked that the bully types are secretly extremely insecure and jealous of other people but instead just simply are arrogant pricks who genuinely believe they're better than everyone else?
And whenever I picture bully types throughout my life they have either all been really physically strong, really rich, really attractive, really popular, etc. They had no reason to be jealous of their victims who were often physically weak, really poor, really ugly, really unpopular, etc.
And I swear almost everyone liked the bully types except for their victims. Everyone else was convinced that their shit didn't stink.
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>>34203772
Figure out what she is insecure about and then just hit her with jokes about that. You need to go nuclear with it and be willing to destroy your friendships.
If she feels the need to put someone down, she is probably pretty insecure and fragile to begin with.
It might destroy your place in the group, but they might also respect you for it. If it destroys your standing in the group then you probably should move on anyway.
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>>34209947
>Exactly! Plus hasn't it been scientifically debunked that the bully types are secretly extremely insecure and jealous of other people but instead just simply are arrogant pricks who genuinely believe they're better than everyone else?
it didn't even have to be debunked. it's obvious it was false to begin with. it was made up by the bullied nerds to feel better about themselves
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I propose that it's just a bit of banter and that, perhaps, the logical remedy to salvage this situation of yours would be to be a cheeky cunt that throws playful, lighthearted, not bitter!, banter back at her.
But that's not an option, right?
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>>34203772
To me this seems like an extremely high amount of bantz. What this woman wants, is that you reply in kind. Not be pissed of, just snort at her dumb joke and make one back. Or increase the heat. She is also weirdly specific and creative at that. Yeah, she is goofy and funny and pretty and has some good amount of confidence. She wants to see if you can handle her. Now you're just a crybaby. baseline: she is telling you that you won't get her as easily as just "asking her out".
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>>34211355
I 2nd this, those insults are more funny than offensive, she wants to get a reaction out of you/seeing if you can match her energy and thinks it cute. If you genuinely let her know you're uncomfortable she'll most likely stop.
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>>34203772
Yeah bro I think you just have bad social skills. Those insults sound a bit too over the top and silly to be true genuine insults. Those are not the type of things I would personally say if I truly wanted to cut deep.
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>>34203772
This may sound dumb and cliche but have you ever tried just ignoring her and not giving her any sort of reaction? I imagine that you're getting visibly frustrated and that she's enjoying it. She probably thrives on that. So just try ignoring her and giving her no reaction.
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>>34203772
every time she insults you like that, ask her out in front of everyone.
>stopped the traffic by being ugly
actually they stopped to help me make a plan to ask you out
>fbi monitoring your internet
actually i was downloading your entire Instagram which slowed my internet
>you're danny devito
lmao i don't even know. long drive to philadelphia? heard it's good weather out there
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>>34203772
Just make fun of her physical appearance, weight, and age. Seems to work like a charm on every woman I've ever met. Say that her tits and ass are the ugliest tits and ass you've ever seen. Call her a fat pig. Tell her she looks 10 years older than her actual age.
Heck even my own mom as a reference: my whole life she's been telling me she's 10 years younger than she actually is, till one day I saw her real date of birth on an ID of hers, and she refuses to ever step on a scale in front of me and my dad. My sisters (only slightly older than me) are the same way. Call any of them fat or old and they'll literally ruin your life.
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>>34222369
Bro. Just trust me on this one. It'll make life 100 times better and easier for you. DO. NOT. TRY. TO. UNDERSTAND. FEMALE. LOGIC. I have tried so many times to understand and absolutely zero success. Almost all my closest friends are females and their explanations make zero sense to me.
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