bro thinks the stripper will ghost him

>>34208456
Escorts are fickle women.

we had this thread recently, is posting this part of some humiliation fetish? you need jesus

I’m an escort an I’m going to be honest the only thing that makes me stop seeing someone is horrible banners or abhorrent hygiene. If you pay her, don’t stink or have a disgusting mouth, and aren’t insanely clingy and texting 24/7 she doesn’t have a reason to ghost you. you’re 99% fine and overthinking

>>34208518
manners*

>>34208510
It's been over a month since I posted here.

>>34208518
What counts as "insanely clingy"?
The problem is she seems like an extremely confident woman whereas I am a nervous and anxious man.

>>34208424
As long as you keep paying, she'll keep coming back. That's her job.

>>34208589
Is that really true though? Escorts are fickle and can basically decide to ignore/block clients for any reason.

I have a terrible fear of rejection.

OP again. I'm having serious doubts over whether I should keep seeing the escort.

I just don't think I can handle it emotionally. I know that deep down if I didn't pay her she wouldn't give a shit about me. But I am infatuated with her.

I am tempted to make one more booking and just tell her what I'm feeling. I think about her every day and fantasise about her yet she probably doesn't give a shit about me once I leave.

I guess what I really want is a girlfriend but I just don't see that ever happening. All I have is the hollow intimacy of escorts.

Or should I give it a bit longer before telling how I feel?

>>34208424
So long as you keep paying her, she'll keep seeing you. Hookers like a reliable source of income.

>>34208424
>she said she had a lovely time after our last meeting
Please remember this isn't true. Hookers always say this so you'll keep coming back. Don't get carried away.

>>34209011
I'm trying to play it cool but the problem is I really like her.

I don't know what to do. Do I keep seeing her and eventually tell her how I feel?

Also I should've said that after I left her place on Sunday, she texted me to say she could meet me again on Sunday 8th February and she said she'd save the date. I told her that's good for me.

Idk if she's just interested in my money or genuinely likes seeing me. I hope it's the latter. I'm gonna message her on Sunday just to check in with her to see if she wants me to send a booking request or not. Hopefully this thread stay up until then.

You're falling in love with your paid-for pussy just like every other man ever has, since the dawn of time.

>>34209011
>theyre not as needy and will distance themselves from a person they percieve is falling for them,
I suggested to her that we meet every 2 weeks and she seemed happy with that. Do you think that's a good sign?

>>34209092
I think we do get on quite well.
She has shared a lot about her personal life with me. We share a lot in common regarding interests such as reading.

I won't do it yet. Maybe another 3-4 more meetings. But I think that eventually, yes, I will have to tell her.

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>>34208543
Just handle it like a financial transaction. You're a costumer and she's a service provider. Establish the ground rules and you'll have a healthy business relationship.

I don't blame you for seeking escorts. Sometimes it's hard living with an emotional void and feeling unheard/unwanted. Godspeed anon.

>>34209120
I honestly would have no problem dating her. Like I said she's everything I like in a woman.
But I've never dated anyone and she's an extremely individual and confident woman. Even aside from her escort job. She scares me a little bit honestly. She's the sort of girl who would've ignored me in school.

>>34209150
I'm trying to but the problem is I'm an emotional guy and neurotic.

I assume I should never text her unless it's related to a meeting?

>>34209220
If you feel like you can't control yourself, then yes. Only for meetings.

>>34209220
>Even aside from her escort job.

She is never away from escort job, hooker is what she is. It is her lifestyle, it is the choices and how she thinks. She is an illusion of a real woman. Find a real woman like her and keep seeing her for sex and comfort if you want but know that if you didn't pay her she wouldn't want you. Go head and test that next time. Tell her you're getting feelings for her and ask if she feels the same and say that should be enough payment for tonight's fucking. See if she goes along with it and eventually marries you.

Smaller thought experiment, lets say she does love you and really means it, would you be ok with all the other men she has seen and keeps seeing even though she swears its you she loves, those others mean nothing to her? It's just her job, right?

is this a joke?

>girl messaging a scene of her cyberpunk character sucking cock and getting used like a toy on discord
>Jacking off and telling her how good she's doing

This feels so fucking good. Legit kind of like sex.

>>34209229
Well that's what I'm doing as I don't want to blow it.

What is concerning is that she hasn't left me feedback on AdultWork even though we met 4 days ago. I left her feedback. Genuinely a bit annoyed. Am I panicking? We've met 4 times now but I still would like her to leave a review.

>>34209279
what's this and can we watch?

>>34209244
>Smaller thought experiment, lets say she does love you and really means it, would you be ok with all the other men she has seen and keeps seeing even though she swears its you she loves, those others mean nothing to her? It's just her job, right?

I reached 29 as a virgin, I don't really have a lot of choice when it comes to women.

>>34209282
...Yes. You are indeed... Panicking.
Do you have any soothing ritual? If it seems overwhelming and persistent (>2weeks), don't be a stranger to seek therapy.

>>34209304
I'm a nervous person. I always assume the worst.

I assume she marked the booking as complete because she intended to leave feedback?
I want to keep this thread alive until I message her on Sunday. I'm a bit nervous.

>>34209300
fair enough. I'm 34 and I'm still holding off losing my virginity to a hooker until I've really given it a fair shot on real girls. But before that I need to get more money and status still. I hope I don't fall into believing she's anything more than a whore though. By that time, sexbots might be around and convincing.

So besides being addicted to being an emotional cuck, what is really wrong with you that you had to see a hooker and think you'll find no real women if you try? You ugly? Small dick? Just waited too long? What does she say when you fuck her? Did she have to guide you? Does she act like she likes it? What do you think she'll say in her review? How much you paying for her?

>>34209338
>So besides being addicted to being an emotional cuck, what is really wrong with you that you had to see a hooker and think you'll find no real women if you try? You ugly? Small dick? Just waited too long?
No confidence and no experience with women. Tried dating apps and I suck.

>What does she say when you fuck her? Did she have to guide you?
She just moans. She says on her profile she doesn't do fake moans. She had to guide me a bit to start. Not so much now. I fucked her hard in missionary last time and she moaned a lot more.

>What do you think she'll say in her review?
I don't know. She did seem to enjoy our last meeting and thanked me at the end. That was our 4th meeting. Maybe she doesn't feel like reviewing me any more?

>>34209106
homie girls will do this and then ghost you without them paying you. you need to be realistic about this

>>34209409
I know
2 months ago I was still still a virgin, now I'm placing my validation in an escort

>>34209042
>Idk if she's just interested in my money or genuinely likes seeing me. I hope it's the latter.
It's not. And it's important that you don't lose track of that.

>>34209444
Don't escorts sometimes fall in love with clients?

>>34209353
I don't understand what a prostitute's review is like. I get that you might review a hoe to say SHE'S good and clean or whatever for other deciding men but

>"OP was an excellent fucker. He was clean, respectful and he fucked my holes deep and hard I moaned and he played with my clit and tits 5 gold stars 10/10 would recommend this john to every slut. I am thinking of you when I am being fucked by other dicks cheating on their wives come back soon OP I love you *emoji*."

what are you expecting?

>>34209462
It varies from escort to escort
Generally it's not that explicit, it's just things like "clean handsome guy" or "lovely guy", stuff like that

>>34209046
nta, but I wonder if that paid pussy will reciprocate.

>>34209488
how likely is it?

>>34209446
>Don't escorts sometimes fall in love with clients?
People *sometimes* win the lottery, but it doesn't happen often enough that it makes sense to anticipate it.

>>34209855
>it doesnt seem implausible
The fact that it doesn't seem implausible to you probably says more about you than about escorts.

>>34209795
She left feedback before
Just a bit worried she was lying to me when she said she had a "lovely time" as we were getting dressed

Still no feedback from her or update to her profile
Hopefully she's not getting many inquiries so she's more available for me lol

I'm trying to work out when is the best time to message her bros.

We last met on Sunday 25th January. We discussed meeting again on Sunday 8th February but she hasn't updated her profile yet. I'm gonna message her as soon as she does to double check as she said she'd save the date for me.

>>34211987
Dude how did you work up the courage to go to prostitutes at first? Was it a big deal for you?

If you've seen her a few times and are fine with her seeing other men, ask her out on her free time to get to know to her. Don't worry if she backs off or if things get awkward, remember you're trying to wife a prostitute and she's the same as any woman you date.

>>34212008
>Dude how did you work up the courage to go to prostitutes at first? Was it a big deal for you?
It took me months of research and preparation. She isn't the first one I saw but she is by far my favourite.

I don't want to blow it yet by confessing my feelings towards her. I'm still learning about sexuality with her and getting to know her. She said she's enjoying getting to know me.

Maybe in a few months.

Also she has called me "handsome" in feedback she left for me before which she rarely seems to do in her feedback for clients. That surprised me.

>>34212021
>Few months
She's sweet talking you and you're feeding the hype. If you really want her as a person, you have to get to know her, know her outside her job. Ask her out, and I don't mean "confess" like a retard. Ask her out and spend time out of her job.

The fact that you're avoiding this means you're expecting to get hurt, expecting things to fail, only stringing on by hope. So far it's only you building your side of the relationship when you don't know what her plans or wishes are.

>>34212052
>you have to get to know her, know her outside her job
I have asked her a few questions and she's been quite open with me. I get the feeling she's a bit more open with me as she said she was shy when she was younger so she knows what it's like, and she's also only a year younger than me so we have things in common.

For what it's worth she also said she's really enjoying getting to know me. I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much but maybe you're right

>>34212204
Date her man, it's the only way to onow foe sure. Dating is not the same as confessing

>>34212224
Well I've never dated anyone
I will tell her how I feel, eventually.

Wasn't there a movie about this kind of relationship? "Cute Girl" or something.

>>34212443
and she was going to stop whoring herself out and be loyal only to you? once a whore nothing more. their mind is changed.

/adv/ has been rather tepid on you right now OP.

>>34212363
OP is a dumbass gen-Zer who never watched any media whatsoever. He probably thinks because it's "fiction" then it doesn't count. That fiction is based on reality and things 90% of people relate to. OP I swear to God I'll make you film yourself and we'll turn this into entertainment.

OP this is you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-tQcShonnxs

OP ... she will only marry you if you're extremely rich. I mean buy her a house and let her NEET levels of rich. OP one does not become a prostitute on the side. OP isn't prostitution illegal in your country? where you from?
OP ...

>intelligent
Describe this "intelligence" to me, what do you think intelligence means you little naive cuddled autistic femboy? Are you a redneck?
Tell me right now the most basic shit ever I bet you can't answer it...
What is sarcasm used for?
A) to insult you B) to be funny C) to be smart D) to be goth E) to tell an ironic truth

(Bot detected)34212927
You're a literal XML copy-pasting ragebait bot.
People are born with personality and they fluctuate between this personality playing dumb, playing smart, playing multiple roles, but only an actor/a specialized person can do this personality wise.
It's basic biology that you do not change your nature.

>>34213256
God I fucking hate Youtube and their obsession with copyright, bitch stop enforcing it. Nobody else does but you.
https://www.dailymotion.com/video/x58eox9
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KopV4s4ea8Y

>>34213256
>Describe this "intelligence" to me, what do you think intelligence means you little naive cuddled autistic femboy
She has a degree which I thought was unusual

>>34208424
Dude, read the signals, she's into you but worried you look down on her coz of her job. Reassure her and get shopping for gifts to shower her with to show her you are serious.

>>34214193
I thought about buying her a book as she likes reading but idk if that's too much at this point

>>34208456
Bro has insanely attachment issues. The hooker probably resembles his mother. That's why he's scared of her running away, just like his mother did in his childhood

>>34214283
She does look a bit like me and my mother (dadk blonde, blue eyes) but my mother didn't abandon me.

I just have a terrible fear of rejection.

>>34214218
>idk if that's too much at this point
it's too little, it's a derisory gift, she may find it insulting

>>34211902
Yes, it's theoretically possible for a hooker to like a client. The problem is that a hooker *telling* a customer she likes him is an almost universal method used to keep a regular customer coming back for more. It works very well, because it has exactly the effect on him that it's having on OP. In most other contexts, if a woman tells you she likes you, there's at least a 50% chance she's telling the truth. But with a hooker there's less than 1% chance it's true because they say that to literally EVERYBODY.

>>34214378
>she may find it insulting
This. If OP is blowing a couple a hundred a throw on the sex shes not gonna be impressed by a 5 dollar book

>>34214378
Why? She likes Sylvia Plath so I was gonna get something relevant to that

Gonna text her tomorrow morning bros
Wish me luck

I texted her, she confirmed she's good for meeting next weekend and doesn't need a booking request for the next meeting and that we can just arrange meetings by text. So that's good.

I then replied saying that's good for me too, and she's just left me on read without even a thumbs up or a "great" message. Annoying.

>>34217737
Chill. She sent you the details, you confirmed you received. Confirming further is unnecessary. It might be extra friendly to throw that in but not every escort talks like that. Some guys are worried about an SO seeing texts so they keep communication straightforward. Or they just don't want to put in the emotional labor.

Speaking from personal experience, I have had multiple favorite escorts leave the industry and it always sucks. You need to mentally prepare for that OP. Honestly at this point it sounds like you should see someone else so you have a backup and you're not entirely fixated on her.

I've realised that relying on validation from a prostitute is pathetic.

>>34218175
She comes across as a bit arrogant tbqh. She's intelligent but she thinks she's smarter than she is.

>Honestly at this point it sounds like you should see someone else so you have a backup and you're not entirely fixated on her.
You're probably right. Problem is she's my type: intelligent, natural and kind (or at least I think she is), not to mention only 1 year younger than me.
There's also the element of knowing that she's probably the sort of girl who would've ignored me in school.

>>34218203
Don't you have any other types you've fantasized about before? The cool thing about escorts is you can try a bit of everything.
Regardless, maybe start shopping around and see if there's anyone else you like. I've definitely had the feeling before "I wish I could just see my favorite girl instead" while looking at who else is around, so I get it, but someone else always clicks if I look long enough. It's probably the best thing to do if you're genuinely worried about scaring her off.

>>34218208
I've seen 5 different escorts over the past few months. There are a few others I want to see. But this one is by far my favourite.

>>34218220
Ah, yeah, then that's different. I thought she was the only one you've seen and that's part of why you were fixating on her.
I am not sure how to keep a healthy emotional distance in that case. I guess I will just say that eventually she will leave the industry and you'll never see her again no matter what.
Try to enjoy the time you have without worrying about losing her or pining over her, because that will ruin what time you do have together. I realize that "just don't do it lol" is not the most helpful advice but maybe hearing it from someone helps. Maybe you just have to go through losing your favorite and there's nothing to be done until that happens. But I would recommend catching yourself thinking unhelpful thoughts like pining over a relationship you can't have with her or thinking about how she's going to leave and telling yourself more grounded thoughts instead.
There will be others. You might have dry spells where there's nobody like her, but just be patient.

>>34218295
>guess I will just say that eventually she will leave the industry and you'll never see her again no matter what.

She's been escorting for about 6 years I think, seems she started after she finished university. We have talked a bit about what she plans to do in the future. I think she is maybe thinking about leaving in a few years. I only met her a few months ago.

But I don't know what she expects to do.

>>34218306
Honestly a pretty long time for a quality escort, all my favorites from 6 years ago are gone, but some of them just move away so I could be wrong.
Don't push her about her plans to leave, it could be pretty worrying to an escort.

>>34218312
I won't, she just mentioned it. From what she said it won't be this year anyway.

>>34218312
>>34218322
There's also the issue that she seems to only be working on weekends from now on. Which I can do, but she seems fairly popular and seems to get booked up quickly.

>>34219012
>she seems fairly popular and seems to get booked up quickly.
You need to make yourself standout, find out what kind of handbag brand she likes and surprise her with a brand new one next time.

>>34220876
She's not that girly

Why did I have to become infatuated with one of the most popular escorts in my city? Fucking annoying.
I want to see her every 2 weeks but I just don't think that will be possible.

Seeing her on Sunday bros.

My infatuation for her has decreased a bit. I don't obsess over her so much now. Just want to fuck her.

>>34208424
She's a prostitute, dude. She hates you. She gets pounded by her broke handsome boyfriend without charging him.
Just use her and leave.

>>34224770
She doesn't have a bf.

>>34224786
Kek
Ok bro

>>34224793
I was the first client she saw after christmas a few weeks ago and she said she hadn't had sex in 3 weeks