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This is already an emotional mess. I really don't know anon.
Yesn't?

Any woman that disrespects will not see you as a man. Even a little shit test can build to more disrespectful shit. I'd fuck her but look for more options on the side.

>>34211146
Damn it sucks how much power they have. Losing you doesn't mean much to her. Likewise your makeout session and dates don't mean as much to her as they do to you.
It really sucks, really. I'm very sad about it myself.
Sadly it looks like that's reality. And we can't really dispute it

>>34211146
Eh, she's trying to check for insecurity. Women do things like that. For example, they'll try to test a guy for "short man syndrome" by engaging in banter. You need to play along and respond in a playful way. Since she wants a second date, she's clearly into you. However, you definitely turned her off by going quiet. Still, I think you can salvage this. Also, forget about texting, it just makes you too available. Call her once every few days, ONLY to arrange a date. You'll be on her mind. I mean, look. She's into you. You ignored her for a few days, and she threw herself at you. If she didn't care, she'd just delete your number (if she hadn't already) and move on. Women like a man who's a bit of a challenge. There's a reason why the whole "mysterious" thing works. Also, don't start telling her about your "incel trauma" or whatever. It'll just turn her off, no matter how much she loves you. Don't go around saying "I love you" 24/7, either, even if she constantly says it to you. Avoid asking her out for weekends and Fridays. Pretend you're busy there. Get her for weekdays. If she's into you and flexible, she'll make time for you or make a counteroffer. Only accept a Sunday or another weekday as a counteroffer, by the way. You don't want an inflexible woman; they are nagging wives in the making. Anyway, that's all.

She sounds like a slut. You are not the only guy she is dating right now and she isn't that attracted to you so she is treating you like this. You can probably fuck her but I don't think she sees you as bf material

>>34211245
Disgusting!
I would hate to play into those games
But then I remember what hot piece of ass is waiting for me on the other side
Still, I don't think I will do all this bs.
My girl gotta be normal

>>34211249
So you think she’s attracted to me?

>>34212017
My bad, I misread what you wrote. Ok, since she isn’t attracted, why do you think I can fuck her?

>>34211234
Does she seem attracted enough to want to sleep with me though?

>>34213595
Personality wise? No. Looks wise? I have no clue I don't know what she looks like.

>>34211243
>doesnt mean as much to her as she does to you
Thats the exact problem you fags can't seem to figure out. Its literally at the core of being in a relationship is that you have to be the one thats being chased

This is fake and gay. Women don't care about men enough to actually go the length to disrespect you - if she lost interest she'd just ghost.

>>34211256
She sounds normal. You're thinking of another man.

>>34213990
Most disrespectful is getting put into her orbit.

You get how women work? Their compliments don't indicate anything good.

>>34211146
>Am I right to think she is not attracted to me and that I should stop talking to her?
Female biology is that they will always maximize the partner she has. Suffice to say, she's not yours, but it is your turn. Take your turn.
Stop getting butt-hurt at what she says. Everything a woman says - add "right now" to it and it will help you understand their mind.

>>34213990
OP here. Unfortunately, she said all of this. Idk why that’s hard to believe.
>>34213812
I was asking if she thinks I’m physically attractive

>>34214001
Explain.

Oof, op. Just oof

>>34217592
I know, I was fucking pissed.

>>34211146
You're fucking up. You should be the one bullying her. I am like a complete retard, but even i know about this.

>>34211146
Might as well try insulting her back for fun at this point.

>>34213990
One time I had a girl tell me she's not looking for anything but just kept texting me constantly.
She came over alone in tight leggings and kept bending over in front of me. I fell asleep later that night and she left mad, seemed like she wanted me to make a move despite telling me not to.
But then another time she said "you can tell a lot about a person by their shoes. I don't like your shoes." I think maybe she just hung out with me because I had weed but it's not like she would just smoke and dip, she always wanted to watch movies or something.
Women are weird, who knows? OP's story is pretty plausible to me.

>>34218326
Why didn't you fuck? You autistic?

>>34218382
Yeah I am some kind of autistic. There are a lot of times I definitely could have fucked that I messed up but this one was definitely way above my skill level so I don't even really feel bad about it.
Every time I would make a move she would just tell me she wasn't interested. I didn't even have trouble making moves with this girl because she demanded complete openness.
Honestly she was way more mature than me. If I would try mopey shit or try to be coy to try and get to her, since I was an immature lonely guy at the time, she would call me out on exactly what I was trying to do and demand I be upfront, and then she would tell me exactly why she wasn't interested at that time and what she wanted. She knew I was into her 100%, I knew she wasn't interested 100%. Or so I thought.
I have no idea if she wanted to make a move that day or if I was just doing a shitty job entertaining her. And where I could relive different moments with other girls and definitely do things differently, I could probably redo interactions with her 10 times and not make any progress. Some girls are really cryptic like that.

>>34211146
>This bitch then says "he just has an aura, and you don't."
No woman in history has ever said this. Get better bait.

>>34218393
>>34218326
>she came over alone in tight leggings and kept bending over in front of me
How is this not a good enough signal to have sex?

>>34218398
Aura is a word everyone uses these days, you retarded old person

>>34218459
Because she told me a million times before she wasn't interested. It wasn't like she didn't have a reason to bend down in front of me and was doing it for no reason, and she dressed pretty sexy all the time if not THAT sexy, and I just assumed I was being a horny virgin, until she stormed out mad.

don't EVER let a bitch toy with you...

>>34218467
And is it over with her? i am not following exactly what's going on in your life.

>>34218476
I haven't spoken to her in more than 15 years and I don't have any way to contact her so yeah, I would say it's pretty over. This is just an old story.

>>34218491
Ok so you're a 40 yo virgin or something

>>34218542
No I've had sex and matured by now, thanks

>>34218398
t.oldfag

>>34211146
Like idk bro, she can say whatever you don't like it you stop talking to her it's not rocket science. It's just clown shit yk? Like anyone can tell you anything really, she decides to start insulting you out of nowhere so just do your thing bro you are not engaged or anything be like alright lmao and cut her off but this is the problem with people and relationships, it's the shitty part, can't be all good there will be shit you just have to deal with it if you chose to participate. It's a possibility always. I think it's not a big deal bro I think there are far more important shit in life than what someone tells you. My first gf also gave me some shit and I was shocked Pikachu face too so I understand where you are coming from shit sucks but eh it's not the end of the world.

>>34218471
And how was I supposed to know she was going to toy with me during that call?

>>34211146
>an actor in a film has aura
This woman is stupid.

>>34211256
all women do this
you need to learn when you have to be hard

>>34221867
because ALL WOMEN DO THAT
seriously
seriously seriously bro
just expect it and next time turn the tables on her
all you have to say is “Gyllenhaal wouldn’t even look twice at you.”
done, easy, turn it on her.
or be confident. “my aura is more understated. only intellectually bright people can sense it.”
done, you passed. it’s all bullshit but this is the bullshit you need to come up with to “win”