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As an autistic adult male, are prostitutes my only option?
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no they arent, if anything i suggest to avoid prostitutes. you can find someone OP, try taking care of yourself and your hygiene, go on walks, and go outside more or hell go on dating apps. if youre into nicher things, visit events like conventions or if a movie you like is showing, go there and talk to some people. Dont go with the intention of trying to find someone, try to go out there and make some friends, learn to smile and make small talk. if you see someone with a shirt or pin of something you like go up to them and talk to them. the worst they can say is no, OP. Rejection is apart of life and i believe you can make it :) it takes time but youll find your person
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>>34217241
Haha very funny guys. Oh well it's not like I'll get serious answers here.
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if your autistic the chances of you being sexy are so low anyways. if you got a hot body atleast you could dress up like a girl and hide your face and post it online. you probably wont get any money but if you wanna be seen ig
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>>34217183
No, you're just horny and impatient. Escorts won't even let you do a lot of the things that make sex feel so good. No kissing, no rawdogging, no backshots. There's no chemistry because you're strangers, so the social awkwardness might even just kill your dick with performance anxiety.
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If you're autistic, then why don't you have sex in your fantasy world? Isn't that the trademark of that condition?
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>>34217183
As someone who has tried prostitutes, I wish I did it earlier.
If they interest you a lot and you get excited thinking about it and it doesn't make you feel sick or pathetic or anything, consider giving them a try.
However if you idealize romanticism and prostitutes are a last desperate attempt and you hate the thought of resorting it, don't do it.
Basically don't let me talk you into it if you're not really into it, and don't let other people talk you out of it if you're interested.
However I wouldn't say they're your "only" option. I won't comment much on the dating scene because I haven't been in it for years but I know that when I was available there were options.
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>>34217241
>Prostitues (all women) won't bang an autist even if he has trillions of dollars and a marriage contract hanging out of his zipper. Just kys before you become a mass murdering incel.
Speaking as someone who has been diagnosed with ASD and has a body count of 40 (not paid for), I disagree.
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>>34218174
Yeah how did you do it? I'm only at 2 without paying for it and it was by pure luck.
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I’m 30, autistic but not short or unattractive. I’ve fucked like 40 hookers in my time and only had one long term gf. We had great sex but she never wanted to try anything new. Eventually I broke up with her because she wanted to start fucking other men. So anyway I found this one escort who specialized at giving head. I’m talking 12/10 oral secs. She loved doing it and nothing got us going like getting her to suck the life out of me in my parked car. Just find one like that. But don’t put your dick in her vageene. That shit is mostly underwhelming with prostys. Nothing beats a gal who enjoys taking you all the way down her throat at a discount rate
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Yeah the head is always the best part.
I've had a few experiences though where the sex itself was great. Mostly because of an amazing view and she was really into it/really wanted to make sure I got my fill.
There was this one time though, this girl had the most unbelievably tight pussy. I'm a just-below-average guy so I never thought I'd experience anything like that. Seriously, it felt like I was getting my soul sucked out of me. She was just my type physically too, and she gave amazing pornstar head and liked to talk to me for hours if she didn't have another client.
God I miss her. If you find a girl like THAT, never mess it up and see her as much as possible.
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Well, to be fair, it's partly just because I'm old and I've had more time than you. :) But I was a full-on khhv incel at nearly 24. The two things that made the biggest difference were 1) realising that everything I thought I knew about women and what they want was wrong - and this took years! - and 2) learning how to convincingly fake being confident. (A few inb4s: I am not rich, not good looking, not fit, and exactly average height for where I live; and as well as a lot of FWB, I am now a number of years into a very nice relationship).
More than anything else, women are attracted to confidence, or the appearance of it. If you can mimic the body language and vocal mannerisms of a confident person successfully, it's amazing how much difference that makes. And you quite soon begin to acquire some genuine confidence as soon as people start treating you better. (And no, this doesn't mean masking 24/7, it means coming across as autistic, but happy with it).
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>>34217183
>As an autistic adult male, are prostitutes my only option?
Yes. Reconquer your manhood already you fucking subhuman.
>>34217234
Fuck off retard.
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>>34217931
It's not just about sex, it's about reconquering your masculinity. Virgin means maiden. No man should be a virgin.
>>34218170
I had some discussions wth you where I put you back in your place, remember me you fucking eunuch?
>but they're not your only option, no.
Yes they are.
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>>34221209
Actual Reddit slop. I hate this board.
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>>34221357
>I had some discussions wth you where I put you back in your place, remember me you fucking eunuch?
Hmm. No. No, can't say I do. Can't imagine anyone ever remembers you, frankly. What is that you imagine you put me in my place about?
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>>34217183
>only option
>only
No, this is decided extremely hard by HOW autistic you are, and what things are your special interests
>Full on clapping and yodeling on the bus about a nearby train autistic
no
>can sling c and rust code and take home 300k TC, which you're spending on getting a pilot's license, backcountry skiing, ballroom dance lessons, and your patrick bateman korean hygiene routine autistic
100%, and also these people fuck infinity% more than most normies because they just autism their way between multiple women with their spreadsheet or whatever.
Between the two lies a vast gulf of "it depends", the better you can fake normalcy or better that your abnormality can create a peculiar but attractive lifestyle, the more successful you will be.
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>>34217448
Uncorrelated.
>>34220855
Directionally correct but for the wrong reason. It's less that they like confidence itself then are disgusted by its absence, and find the sniveling weak man routine "don't hurt me I am not a player of interest, I will be quiet, I will not make fuss" that a lot of nerdy autistic men naturally put on, unattractive. Stop fucking doing it, and notice when you are doing it.
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>How did you learn to fake confidence
see above plus I recommend every autist do a year of a full contact combat sport at some point, knowing you can beat up the average untrained normie does a lot to help
>I'm not worried about a scuffle and can hold my own space
which cuts this routine and fear off at the knees and projects as confidence
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>>34221755
It was in this thread:
https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/33498323/#33498701
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>>34222345
Remember this one?
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>>34222013
This guy gets it. This mirrors my observations and experiences as a 40 old guy with tism that's married and can function out in the world. Although at this point I turn it off and on as the situation allows.
Also as he said. Sometimes you get lucky and a special interest can be leveraged to either outright improve your life or become a camouflage for the unattractive elements you can suppress or change .
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I don't think being autistic automatically makes you unlikable OP, it's a spectrum afterall. It's not like neurotypical guys are doing any better right now either way. Just depends on you as a person. Just yknow, wait! Work on yourself, have some hobbies, make some money/go to school etc.
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>>34217183
You just gotta figure out how to use your 'tism to rizz 'em. I know several diagnosed autists with girlfriends that magnetically attract women around them.
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>>34217183
No, they aren’t. If you avoid the women your spidey senses pick up on, you’ll be just fine. If you want a long term relationship/marriage, you have to learn some skills in independence so that you don’t become codependent on a woman who’s probably more ‘normal’ than you.
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>>34217183
Just go for it dude. If women can skank out on Tinder just to "sort out their feelings," men should be able to do it too.
The only reason prostitution was ever stigmatized was that women were complaining about "objectification." And now that they're doing it to men too, there is literally no reason not to do the same.
The only difference is, due to the difference in value between dick vs. pussy, men have to pay for it. Women still pay for it in different ways (reputation, stalkers, birth control etc.), so just cough up and help these girls pay their rent already.
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