>>34219188
Not having to worry about that inheritance when they die.

>>34219188
Abusive parents get to rot lol.
My mom was a bitch, when she gets to old to take care of herself. Some hospital care staff'll treat her like how she's treated people for years..
>>34219197
Only semites worry about that shit

My parents are 90 IQ rednecks who do drugs. They literally hate and fear being manipulated by me because of my intelligence, even though I've never done anything of the sort. They are COMPLETELY worthless and all my attempts to mend relations have ended in disaster.

Just gotta say goodbye

>>34222967
now you can be euphoric from your own intelligence

>>34222987
That's the thing, I'm no cringelord, I just want to hang out and be cool with them, but their intense insecurity and paranoia is too much to allow that. There are truly stupid and worthless people in the world and you have to part ways from them

>>34219188
https://www.issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/index.html

>>34219188
This is a grooming psyop. There's actually abusive parents but also young retards who exaggerate and leave out what they did so they can look like the other actual victims. Smarter predators will isolate their targets so they're easier to access. It's not all organic living dey best life. Who knows what they'll teach them or try to involve them in once they got their ass. The algorithms for social media will help them do it.

>>34219188
I am low contact with both parents. My dad's a cokehead, and I don't want to involve myself with a drug addict. I text him on holidays (he won't pick up the phone) so if he ever quits I hope he knows I'll be there for him but as it stands I am not going to enable his idiotic behavior. My mother is a narcissist so I keep her at arms length to prevent her from manipulating my life. The benefits? I'm far happier now that I let go of their approval and respect and the idea that they had my best interests at heart when they never did.

>>34219188
https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwEn2rkMy8WIkpyuBL7J8hJd4t0DaHNGs

>>34224071
I agree, the stuff that people complain about is ridiculous. It crosses the line if they try to influence you and your life outside of your emotional capacity I think.
But then again, my dysfunctional and toxic parents (particularly my mom) was like that for me.
Imagine being homeschooled and having all IDs disappearing in your early-mid teens, so that your parents can basically keep you under the radar, borderline undocumented, and incapable of moving on at a normal pace in life. That was me and my brother.
We eventually made it out, but I wish I could tell myself in the past (like at age 13-14) to try to get those documents before they got "lost" and figure out a way to get at least a passport card or some form of state ID before it turned into a fight to gain your life back.
I was under the impression that things were taken care for me, and it wasn't true at all.
This is a bit of a venting rant but there are real cases of why no contact is a valid choice. I don't care about inheritances and looking good for the family, I'll just be happy with knowing that they're dead and their spirits are not welcome to me.

>>34225574
For what reason would they do that?

>>34219188
>If so, what are the benefits?
serving moloch & the technocrats, dissolving individuality, etc

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>>34219188
I've been doing partial no contact since i was 15 when my dad died

>>34226224
I think for my mom, she's afraid of being alone, and she wants a "family". The problem is, I don't think she knows what family means or how to have one. Enmeshment is clearly not the answer.
She also tried to pull a munchie moment and treat me like I was special needs or autistic when I was in my early teens, when in reality I was emotionally neglected and socially isolated from her actions.
I never related to accounts from those with autism, but when I read true accounts from those with inattentive or combined ADHD, those resonated with me and my quirks a lot. (amphetamine stimulants also calm me down)
But here I am on 4chan of all places, hmm...
Anyway, she would basically use that as a way to keep me from moving up and I would know she was talking about me to everyone when she would talk very secretly and softly. It was embarrassing because I knew it was about, and it made me very socially anxious and self-focused.

I don't know what else to say, but I think there are definitely certain levels and boundaries to what makes a parent difficult to be around, and this is certainly one of them. I am thankful and blessed to be working and supporting myself and those that I love.

You really just need to decide if its a beneficial relationship and if you find out its not which I did you eventually need to stop hoping they will start to act like a proper decent human being and that they are so far gone they are only going to keep dragging you down with them.

>>34219188
The benefits are that I can be my own man and don't have to answer to their stupid whims. I appreciate what my parents have done for me but they almost feel entitled to treat me like shit because they raised me. I will still occasionally meet up with them maybe 3 to 4 times a year or if there's some serious emergency but otherwise I'm much happier not having to deal with them the vast majority of the time. Feels like they view me as a little kid still instead of a grown man.

>>34219188
The worrysome trend isnt the kids going no contact it's how many piece of shit parents there are. I'm fine with kids doing this if they feel like it's necessary.

>>34219188
I don't know, depends on the reason. Mom was constantly calling me to fulfill her own emotional voyeurism and I felt like I didn't get anything in return. I went no remote communications with her, but we interact normally in family gatherings. Life greatly improved, basically removed the stress about her invading my headspace at any moment. Also, this seems to has triggered a new openness in her previously stuck up and unhealthy mindset.
>>34224071
This is also true, no-contact is being way overhyped as a cure-all for all relationship troubles. It's like the difference between trying to fix a broken limb vs cutting it off. Normally you should try your all to fix it first, and not resort to it for a cheap, immediate emotional relief.

>>34219188
No, gaining personal space was very perfectly fine in my case. Love my parents just no need to call/text/visit every single week. That said I have it as a backup plan for a few cases, but it's so that we stay on better terms
>if I married a man or tranny
>became a fed