>>34219432
You will never forger her, but it will hurt less with time. Texting, meeting, fucking other women will help too.

>>34219432
I think just time
It's been over a month and it's still not working but maybe 6 months will

>>34219432
Think about her as much as possible. Think about the life you could have had together, harebrained schemes to get back together. Pretend you're talking to her, stalk her on social media. Train an image generation AI on her bikini pics. Create fake phone conversations with her where you control both sides, you can even add quirky jokes to screenshot and post on Reddit for karma. Just become completely obsessed.
Should get it out of your system eventually, thank me later OP.

>>34219467
I'm on my 5th month, just today I texted her saying I miss her and got blocked.
I'm scared of insisting via WhatsApp to avoid getting blocked there too.

>>34219466
Is it possible? Just hurt less?
I'm 34 and I think I should be able to do this quite easily but I can't see myself finding another girl like her, everyone else is just too different from me

>>34219482
>but I can't see myself finding another girl like her, everyone else is just too different from me
That's your problem. Get some validation to feel better. Any kind of female validation.

>>34219488
I find it really hard to socialize with women (and people in general) who don't really like generally the same things as I do (videogames, geek stuff, etc) because I find it hard to find normie stuff interesting and I have this constant feeling that normie people don't really get my stuff or can't enjoy them and as such, there's nothing really to talk about or share.

>>34219515
Be a chud then
Or get into astrology like i did
I actually believe that shit now

>>34219432
Were you in love with them or the idea of them

There's people on this board who have divorced their long term spouses and forget they exist after a year or two. You'll survive. To be blunt. Relational stuff always feels intense in the moment, but on the tier of things you'll forget, if you are even a mildly functional human it wont take more than a month really.

>>34219536
We were together for some years, I know the difference between loving an actual person and your idea of them. Mine wasn't an idea (which is why this is hurting so much)

>>34219548
Are you working? Hobbies? Family? Keeping busy in general? It's really hard to get stuck because normal adult life should keep you busy. You're 34, you weren't married, and it's been five months. I think you could reflect on why your brain is still ruminating to be feeling this much pain and making bad choices like texting and wanting to text more, this is abnormal

>>34219568
I don't have a normal "job" because working makes me feel miserable, like I'm wasting my life and not fully enjoying it.
My hobbies are drawing and videogames and luckiy I'm able to make a weekly money with my hobby so I have that going for me. It's not comparable to a wage but it's better than nothing.

Family I just have mom, living together because being a third wolder alon makes living alone a dream.
I try to keep "busy" with my hobbies but it's hard, the thoughts just keep invading me telling me I'll die alone, unloved and forgotten.
I put a lot of my worth into being loved by someone who isn't my family.

>>34219482
>just today I texted her saying I miss her and got blocked
Ouch. Honestly that's probably for the best, I keep thinking about asking mine to block me instead of still talking occasionally.

>>34219432
It's been seven years and I have yet to meet a worthy successor. It never goes away.

Not for lack of trying, but I've just given up on dating altogether. Women just want me for my money anyway.

>>34219804
>Women just want me for my money anyway.
Tell them you work in construction

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>>34219747
>don't have a normal "job" because working makes me feel miserable, like I'm wasting my life and not fully enjoying it
you're fucking 34 and you get hung up on women for months and can't socialize with people and can't hold a normal job

what you are doing RIGHT NOW is making you miserable and making you waste your life

>>34219911
Making it double miserable with a slaving job isn't gonna help either. And even if I wanted it's not that easy to get a job here, hell I have super qualified friends with great careers who just can't get jobs here

>>34219911
He lost the only thing going good for him. What kind of prospects does a 34 y.o. socially awkward, unskilled NEET have?

>>34219432
Ai waifus

>>34220656
all those 3 things can be changed.

>>34219851
No one would believe me. I am blatantly white collar and people can smell money on me.