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For a non-woman hating, young woman, this is probably the least hospitable forum ever. I’ve always larped as a guy here, but today I want to write something where me having girl parts is somewhat important to the story. I’m not sure what exactly i want to gain by posting this, but I know I wanna get it off my chest at least. Nobody IRL knows about this at all, i keep my loser crap hidden pretty well. I don’t care if you call me a terrible bitch whore slut for this. also also as u can tell this is probably going to be somewhat disorganized
So i’ve been seeing (fucking) this guy for a month now, and he broke down to me while he was drunk today talking about how he’ll do anything for me not to leave, he needs me, allllat. I guess he got comfortable and started being honest, because he got SO pathetic. He doesn’t have friends, and he’s so fucking autistic. I have the weirdest soft spot for him, but now i feel personally responsible for his life/feelings in ways i’m 100% not responsible for. I’m getting the overwhelming urge to fix him. Gently teach him where he’s going wrong socially, get him in the gym more, get him to stop being so submissive to everyone, yk?
He’s an insanely good lay for being a virgin, but he said he doesn’t even care about the sex anymore, he just wants to play w my hair and shit. He wants me as his gf, but I know he’d settle for whatever scrap of affection i give him. W all of that considered there’s zero chance he’d run away or be considerably disobedient during this process
but its so inhumane :|
I already admitted these feelings to him (along w the fact that i’ll never be his gf) so I couldn’t be sneaky abt it. I know its wrong to fuck with someone like that, but its SO tempting. I cleaned up my ex and sent him on his way like that
god i know this reads as a shitty fetish post
I can’t tell if this is intelligible, i’m too high
if u got to the bottom of this youre insane
thanks
AAH
character limi
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I’m a non hating woman, woman, also, I’ve always lurked as a guy in here. So same. But you’re not responsible for his feelings. Guys always do this, they confuse sex for love and when you love them back then it was never love.
That is way too common. The omg I’m such a loser move. Don’t fix him. Give him the time of his life and eventually you’ll both grow out of it.
Issokay to set your boundaries straight. He was also very drunk so it probably didn’t hurt as much. And also, if it did is probably his ego as well.
If he is really connected with you then he will understand.
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One foid to another.
"I can fix him" Never works. Disregard anyone trying to pertend that its a virtue to make someone else better. The virtue is in loving someone for who they are and celebrating their accomplishments with them instead of trying to change the man or do the challenges for him.
Don't hold yourself to the standards of incels. If you actually think this probably the least hospitable forum ever you shouldn't even be here. Loser men want to tear down women's self esteem so they'll sleep with non-chads. Bodycount obviously isn't the number that matters. A 22 yr old with a bodycount of medium+1 or a 37 yr old virgin, which woman would have higher odds of getting a husband? I'm telling you that you're wasting your time with this one guy.
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If you were a guy I'd accuse you of White Knight Syndrome - imagining yourself the one and only hero who can save the damsel in distress. What's the female equivalent? Maybe Wounded Kitten Syndrome - something admirable in you wants to protect and nourish this pathetic little creature.
That really IS admirable, and you should be as kind and helpful to him as you can. But there ARE limits. You are not responsible for all the suffering in the world and it is not your job to solve everyone's problems for them.
You have to find the limits
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>first guy already said good
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Your doing fine in a sense even you're high but it's by instincts. Yes with how comfy that could get, I won't say this thing called but I was in same spot with you in a way. I'd never bother to read the shit replies before I finish mine.
But I'll have you know you, it struck me it's the ground of dependence and it's impossible to not broke it when you know it can't happen. You did good with making him leave decently as a person actually as a woman.
Mind you, I'm insane with sleep habits so I'm writing in late. Seriously true he might grow but it's surely would take time and it's good to just heal and move on from this. I took my heal easily and the feeling were slow to fade but it will. You're a bestie.