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My ex and my buddy have started hooking up. Neither of them thinks I know. It's none of my business, as far as I'm concerned. It stings like a bitch, but what can you do?
My problem is that ever since they started hooking up, my buddy has been acting weirdly mean to me. He plays it off like a joke, but I can tell it's coming from someplace genuine. Today he greeted me by saying something about my 'gay little tattoo.' It just came off really nasty.
I don't know what to do. I don't want to start drama with my friends, but it's getting bad. I'm the one who's heartbroken, so what gives? I lost my girl, and now it feels like I'm losing my friend too, and I don't understand why.
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>>34223225
>My ex is the hottest I'll probably ever date
lord please expell the bitchness from this anons body, amen
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>>34223240
You have too much faith in me, anon. I'm 35, I ain't got shit going on. No prospect. I'm not exactly an oil painting, you know?
I appreciate that I got to hit some gorgeous ass, but I'm otherwise in a state of decay.
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>>34223098
How good of a buddy is he? If he's close enough, then talk to him about it. Ask him what's up with how he's been talking to you lately. Tell him that it seems like he's taking digs at you for no reason and if he has something to say to you to just say it. If you do nothing and accept disrespect you'll stop respecting yourself. Don't have to get agro about it or start a fight, just try to get the dude to talk about it and let him know that you ain't having it. If he wants to act like it's just banter and that nothing is going on, then banter back, or just put your friendship to the side for awhile and stop hanging out with him one on one. Either he's a good enough friend to have an earnest talk about what's happening, or he's not a good enough friend to worry about cutting off. Also and just the same, if being honest about how you're feeling about this situation would cause drama in your friend group, then you're probably not close enough to these people that it should matter. Real ones will either have your back or at least hear what you have to say and understand, the rest are irrelevant and temporary side characters in your life. Sucks, but if you're living your life you're likely to lose more friends than you keep over time, and the handful that are left are all that matter.