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>left the college bubble without a gf
Is it officially impossible for me to have this now? Am I blocked out of the experience?
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>>34223801
yes, it's over. if you haven't gotten started in high school or college, your growth has been permanently stunted. everyone already got the early relationship bs out of the way and has no time for that shit. most people get into their first relationship in middle school or high school and you missed out. starting now is like starting job hunting at 30 after being a neet your whole life. no employer who isn't the absolute bottom of the barrel dogshit would ever hire you. you're a walking red flag for 99% of women. find some hobbies and learn to enjoy being by yourself forever.
>source: 30yo khv who prioritized everything other than relationships in school.
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>>34223801
its not impossible, but its significantly harder. in college there are clubs to join and classes that help you interact with women you age, in the real world you're either competing with chad at the bar, using the apps, or joining clubs that are inevitably skewing older. i was able to meet a girl after college that i dated for a year over tinder, but she had just gotten back from germany and i don't think she realized how good the dating situation was for women here in the states. ive had a few flings here and there but nothing else really serious. looking for a gf in NYC now and its impossible to find a decent white girl who wants to fuck.
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>>34223897
I just want a lady with some PERSONALITY. A cringe girl that i can meet halfway, like a venn diagram. Is that so much to ask?