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All my friends were fake. The minute I stopped reaching out all the time and putting way more effort than they did they ghosted me. How do I make real friends?
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>>34225474
you need to invent timetravel and travel back to the time you were a kid
then go outside and play with other kids, preserve the best friendships
do same in the school
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>>34225474
same. as soon as i started putting in less effort to organize everything and start every conversation, they stopped reaching out. i know for a fact that most of them continued to hang out amongst themselves. pray you're reborn as less of an autist in the next life i guess.
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>>34225474
All you need is that sunrise
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You don't. Power only goes to more power. The world is just greedy OP.
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No money, no girls, no automobile like a brand new car or motorbike, no plans for the weekend, no house building, no gf, what do you want your friends to reach out? Play Minecraft? Cmon buddy,stop playing games and go grind
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>>34225590
huh, this is actually a thing? Thought I was the only one
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>>34225474
It kinda stings, too.
You know you can't care too much lest you suffer an even greater blow to your ego and perception of reality, but at the same time all that time you did care did mean something to you, but apparently not to them.
And confronting them is the absolute last thing you could do because there's no real positive outcome even if you're as non-aggressive as possible.
You'd just end up as "the guy they feel guilty about neglecting" and I'd take no contact and ghosting over a pity relationship that could delude you into thinking you're at a right place in life.

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