>>34209628
You need both movie-star good looks and the charisma of a highly successful second hand car salesman.

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If you do that, you'll just look like an oblivion NPC force-greeting the player.

>>34209628
literally doesn't matter

you have infinite at bats

You can definitely do it. I did it many times and have slept with many women.
Don’t listen to the nay-sayers, They’re losers. You can (They could too but won’t)

Here’s how:
Daytime normal venues only, mall, subway, restaurant, library, market

Approach girl and comment either on something in your mutual environment (best) or ask a question you could need help with (good) such as where something is or her opinion about book/food/train/ as long as it isn’t about her personally

Then just ramble about topic and mention interesting points about yourself in the process. “Where I’m from we have a different version of this” “I can’t make this dish that well but i can make (other dish) better than anyone” “I like to take the subway so I can read (author) and listen to (band) and I’m going to see them (time) “

If you do this often and have high levels of charisma ( yes it can be learned ) you will succeed , especially if you are an interesting person with a lot to talk about .

Get phone numbers and go to places not on dates , but make sure you go without other friends , then when you’re in private , in a beautiful place , and the vibe is right , just kiss her

You don’t have to be attractive for this either , you just need to be able to read body language to tell when she feels safe enough go along with it in the moment . How many times will they say “it just happened “ ? It’s by design

Do this ONLY for girls you’ve never met , and don’t continue to try for girls who know you already , they’ve already formed an opinion of you .

Good luck

>>34209932
>Don’t listen to the nay-sayers, They’re losers. You can (They could too but won’t)
I literally cold approached over 100 women two years ago when I was at my fittest and I only got one date with a chubby Asian exchange student.
You are a lot more attractive and charismatic than you think you are, if you have actually sexual success and you're not just lying. Which I'm inclined to believe since your post is reddit-spaced cliches that could have been copy pasted word for word from "Game."

Believe it or not I post here to help not to brag , I did learn it from a similar book called Daygame , and that’s what works for me .

I don’t succeed in night venues because I’m not that attractive and I don’t drink alcohol , or online because I get swiped past before the girl can see my positive qualities , or with money because I don’t have much , but I can speak well and I got this way through practice , and I can’t convince myself I don’t deserve it because it offends my self image

As for your 100 attempts , that’s not that many as 3 openings per day is 99 over a month or 1.5 per day over 2 months . Like all things , how long do you actually try , there are others who just want it more than you and will advance to a higher level .

Lastly , this question is near to my heart . I answer it because I remember my own struggles and wish well to my fellow men , you really can do it and I really do wish you luck

>>34210504
>, but I can speak well and I got this way through practice ,
Practice punctuation next fml.

>>34209975
I really doubt that your fittest was that fit if you approached 100 times. Either you were way more out of shape than you think (very possible) or you’re so hopelessly autistic that women’s hints and subtext fly right over your head (most likely).

>>34209628
I think it's less about looks and more about mindset. Are you someone who would get crushed by your first rejection and ruminate for days and wind up on /adv/ asking what's the point of living? Or are you someone who can shrug it off because you have an otherwise enjoyable life filled with interests and friends? The first guy sucks to be around regardless of whether he's cold approaching you. The second guy is fun and interesting.

>>34209628
You have to be charismatic for cold approach, i.e never having suffered in life, knowing the play with words to get people to say embarrassing things to tease them about, knowing the cadence of speech and answer with vague questions to cause fake intrigue.

After enthralling a girl for a while you can ask her out.

Fucking nobody will tell you "yes" if you tell them as a stranger "Yo, I like you, let's go out".

>>34209932
I'm sure you're spot on, but that kind of speech skills come to a certain kind of person only. People who never suffered and could bullshit with their friend group as their heart content, or air headed extroverts who genuinely find everything surprising and amazing.

If you have spent a lot of time in this site, you probably adapted to think carefully before posting and the same goes for saying stuff. If you're the kind of person who never or almost never got romantic experience, you're already self reliant, and that kind of curiosity, asking for help, observation, takes the form of blatantly lying, so you need the skill of being a pathologic liar as well. It's a lot of skills to develop and questionable morals to go through.

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Why do you guys overcomplicate this? There are nightclubs that you can "cold approach" any women there and still be socially acceptable.
All you gotta do is look the part, shower, put on a strong perfume, trim your hair and that's it.

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>>34210963
It always amazes me how people will be willing to compete in terms of suffering and hardship for the sake of believing they are “superior” in some way. No dude you don’t know if I have or haven’t suffered and you’re pure cope posting . If having been dealt a bad hand in life is part of your personality, that’s not enjoyable to be around , even worse if you talk about it to girls , they don’t like that shit , not only because it hints at emotional problems like lack of confidence but even a lack of basic awareness that being negative doesn’t make people feel good , total neglect of this point if you do know but do anyway

>>34211587
>Boohoo, you can't say I haven't suffered! I was sad the other time!
Is that claim the only thing that caught your eye from that post? Because your reply is pure fucking ignorance. Do you think people really lack the self awareness? Do you think they don't know being negative pushes other people away? DO YOU REALLY THINK that they have the means to power on and be positive on demand like a fucking actor can be asked to cry on demand?

It's ignorance and complete lack of empathy. It shouldn't surprise me, that's part of the thing that allows you to succeed, being fucking blind to everything. You think it's enough to put a feet in front of the other to climb a fucking mountain, you can't see past some point climbers die because of lack of oxygen, or they freeze to death, or a falling rock randomly kills them. The people you shit on have been on the shittest of sports for big portions of their lives, and every fucking they they have made a mental effort to evade some harm, that tactic became custom and the custom became flesh in their brain. The best mountain climbers literally have brain damage that doesn't allow them to see fear, people with depression have a sixth fucking sense to see fear where there is none.

I don't know how is it so fucking hard to get that. Maybe you are fucked in the brain too and can't read shit pass 5 lines. What a blessing.

>>34211607
Bro , there’s so much I could say in reply to that but all I’ll leave you with is this

Let’s suppose you’re right and there’s X number of valid reasons you’re worse off or the situation is unfair to you , what would that get you ? Being “right” ? It would be worthless , and I assure you you don’t want to be “right” in this situation , you could succeed but you have limiting beliefs

Finally , that shit about others never having suffered is something you completely made up , we don’t know each other from strangers on the street . I’m sorry that you can’t deal with your pain and that life in general has pain in it , but don’t make the mistake of assuming that just because I can deal with my pain doesn’t mean it’s more or less serious than yours . I overcame and still work on myself and treat it as my life’s task to better myself .

You really could

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>>34209628
I got advice….Mexican Jesus is kickin /b/‘s and /X/‘s babies…

You should also..

>>34209628
Any guy who isn't like, ugly to the point of obviously having a syndrome could succeed in many conditions like the Philippines. And if you count like Subsaharan Africa they'd probably even be receptive to light Klinefelter's if you're from a developed nation

>>34211643
All I can say is you're truly lucky and you should be grateful for it, and it sounds that you are. But you just can't compare others to yourself. You need humility and empathy to know where I come from, and I assure you knowing it is not something you need or would seek on your own.

And no, I don't want to be right. I want the tools to get where you stand. Not your tools, not your road, I just want to be where you're at. All these years alone and I haven't found them, and I have the notion that the answer is having the right kind of people beside me and other things that I don't have direct control over. I have mental chains that stop me and it's painful every time I hold them, the more I try a new chain forms. Even if I rushed towards your direction, it's unlikely I will land in the same spot as you. The only people I can share my burden with are those who walk the same suffered route. It's companionship what I seek.

>>34211895
Thank you , I admit I don’t know you but i believe you are closer than you think

The book that began my life change was How To Win Friends And Influence People , which I bought my brother as he entered high school . I can’t buy it for you but you could seek it out . Avoid the temptation to use it in a manipulative way and it will help you much more than I can here and now

>>34212142
I've read it already and I find it difficult to do step one: To genuinely care about people. Only people I really care about are chicks I want to bang. I think I will start looking for a church, maybe that'll be a start, maybe not.

>>34209628
It's equally about how bad looking the girl is.

>>34209628
Are you this guy?:
>>34213414

There's one schizo posting in this thread feeding his own fantasy that he's "approached hundreds of girls" after he most likely just had 1 interaction with a girl who kinda sorta not really showed interest in him and now he's suddenly Casanova and telling eeeeveryone his life-saving certified advice on 4chan

Fuck off dude, you literally advertise lying in your own little delusional guidebook in your fake back and forth discussion with yourself, and you're surely lying to us now too.
Schizo!!!

The core of getting girls is to be hot, the rest is fucking cope. You can't do shit about your height, so dress well and lose weight and cut your hair and beard chud.

I dunno im probably a 6 but im cool as hell and have a choice of 2 girls seemingly at any moment. The ironic part is 8m not even interested in dating anymore its just a fun game to me now

>>34213863
Cope, you don't have 2 girls interested in you. Fucking cope.
None of you have jack shit since you're here, with me, on 4chan, jooooorkin it

If you "had 2 girls" you would get one of them, but you're not. To me it's clear as day that you can't and you're coping hard to make yourself feel like you have value

>>34213871
I literally have more than that at the moment. Im talking from the time I was 16 to now ive always seemed to have a choice between at least 2 girls at any moment. I thought this was a regular experience for most ppl until I found this hell hole. Not all of them were hot girls but some of the plain ones were cooler like the tom boys but I find them less physically attractive than the more girly ones. I have a hot 19 year old that asked me to be her bf last Easter but I declined bc im in my 30s. Maybe try developing a personality yih fucking dweeb. this shit is easy for me its almost second nature but took some practice to refine it

>>34213871
>>34213877
Also 2 girls at a time interested in me and id pick one after hanging out with them and deciding which one I liked, not their boyfriend at the same time.

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>>34209628
Genuinely what the fuck do you do if you’re a 5/10? I’m pushing 30 and never has a woman ever even barely showed me any interest. I’m not good looking enough to approach a woman and not good looking enough for a woman to come to me.

Are normies just doomed to settling for ugly chicks on dating apps? I’ll live in loneliness forever before i waste my time with a fatty.

>>34213886
Do you have a friend group? Most of my success has been from girls introducing me to their friends it increases your chances greatly if you were endorsed by a trusted person

>>34213892
I recently found a group of friends at my local game store i hang out with often. Honestly this is probably the first time since high school i’ve had friends i regularly hang out with, but it’s all dudes.

It’s nice they get me out of the house around a lot of people but i’m still an anti chick magnet.

>>34213898
Do none of them have girlfriends? Once you get to know them a bit theyll likely introduce you to their own friends

>>34209739
kek

>>34209975
>You are a lot more attractive and charismatic
I am a literal 22 year old virgin and never had an issue approaching women.
I got a date off a girl just waiting at the airport with me simply based off just talking to her about the bullshit flight and what we were going to do and go about doing in our destinations, we went and ate lunch that very same day and she invited me to go and stay for a week at her friends place when we land, I was only going there to get a connecting flight so I told her I could not and she got really sad.
I got girls phone numbers and went on dates while I was working retail, when I was just walking around the mall, when I was getting food at a spot had this chinese girl that stayed and ate her food with me and gave me her number to go out but it never went anywhere after we meet up next time.

A lot of you guys don't realize how easy it is to meet people and make an instant spark, the only trouble I have is I really don't know what to do on the mid to end journey as I am too much of a pussy to escalate and don't know how.

>>34210504
is there anything you reccomend to just give me the structure of escalating and the end game of the process?

>>34211077
Nightclubs are the worst environments actually as you are competing with every guy in the room for the women, and keep in mind most of these chicks are just going there for free shit so its even more ogre in that regard.
And some random /adv/anon is going to go in a panic attack at a high extrovert spot like that.

>>34210963
you know, I think i realized why therapy isn't working for me.

>>34216640
Brother you realize all you’ve said is
>I cold approach all the time and have never been successful at it
You realize getting numbers is meaningless, right? I got tons of numbers and socials and basically all of them led to nowhere. Women are too afraid of confrontation to make a fuss in person so they’ll just give you their number and have some non-intimate first date then ghost and block you. At least in my case I got one date where I made out and copped some tiddy. Your batting average is a complete .000 buddy.