>>34213414
Yes

It's much more likely to work if you aren't the type to frame asking someone out as "a cold approach"

>>34213414
only if you're tall and attractive

>>34213414
The dudes blackpilling are the ones who don't put any effort into their appearance. If you really wanted to be successful cold approaching, you'd make an effort to looksmaxx, and maybe if you're still not good enough, just find a more natural way to introduce yourself

Dating advice without any pills or maxxing or whatever:
>be clean and well-groomed
>dress nicely
>carry yourself confidently
>don't dwell on rejections
and
>don't give up
but
>don't spread yourself too thin

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No.
It's the laziest, most uncreative way to approach a woman.
Get better. You have a frontal cortex. Use it.

>>34213414
I don't think it works if you don't know alittle bit if the interests or values of the woman you wish to pursue. Depends on the physical place you at.

>>34213414
Here's the first and last thing you need to know about this. Yes, if you're attractive enough on a surface level it would work but the kind of woman who would allow some stranger on the street to pick them up and fuck them isn't the kind of woman you'd want to be involved with.

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>>34213414
Only if you are hot

>>34213414
Are you this guy?:
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>>34213414
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>>34213777
No, he's this guy

Ok, I'm just gonna tell you guys about something that happened recently and it'll explain how you "approach":

I was at a ski resort town, at a bar outside that had a fire pit. It was snowing and it must've been -5c or below. A group of people, including a few girls, were all standing around and one of the girls was trying to fan the flames. Since I used to go camping a lot back home with friends and I was always the one maintaining the campfire, I stepped behind one of them and said "'scuse me, mind if I have a go at fanning the flames? like, I'm not trying to put you to shame or anything-" and before I could finish they let me in with enthusiasm. Of course they liked how well I could fan the fire, it didn't matter how long it actually lasted not least cause it was fucking snowing. From there, I introduced myself, we got talking, connected on various things with one girl, got her Instagram before the night finished, talked a bit the morning after, then pitched a date and now we're meeting next week.

You just to have to "approach" as you would any other person, in an organic way - you're not supposed to really think about it. The dudes running up to women on the street and running the coined "I thought you were cute" shitty phrases are most likely staged.

>>34213414
You need to have speech skills to make it work. There's a certain cadence, rhythm and intonation that makes everything sound like telling a story. Also answering back with another question throws the ball back to the other person, makes you look confident and pressures the other person.

By the way, nobody teaches any of this and the ones who know to do it don't care about teaching correctly so lmao good luck loser.

>>34213987
Some people have difficulty connecting with others, throwing the ball in conversations, replying quickly. If you've fended off by yourself for too much, you become excessively self reliant, you start evaluating things in terms of efficiency and such criticism that make people feel demeaned, you got hobbies that can only be done on your own, you have more will to research deeply a niche topic than someone who would go with what their friends do. The lonelier you become, the farther people will get away from you exponentially. I envy that you can talk easily, since people take "normal" for granted. I hope one day I could express myself freely and be received as easily as I try to meet people (regular people are easily put off by the status of stranger).

>>34213462
>not bummaxxing in 2026
Ngmi

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>>34213987
>>34214007
>>34214022
OP is not asking a genuine question. He's a psychopathic stalker who'd been imprisoned for harassing and threatening women online.
He has posted thousands of threads like this.

>>34214042
Well hopefully my post can help out lurkers who genuinely have the same question.

>>34213414
Not unless you're Chad and have a lot of charisma and speaking skills.

I want to pick up Asian girls 10 years younger than me. What's the best way to do this? I'm about a 5/10 on a good day, white.

If you don't have your ducks lined up, then it probably won't.

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>>34213874
>the drive through psychopath
Oh boy... poor wagies...

>>34213559
>but the kind of woman who would allow some stranger on the street to pick them up and fuck them isn't the kind of woman you'd want to be involved with.

That's one of the most retarded things I've ever read on this godforsaken website and I frequent /g/.

>>34214050
This, and I'll give my two cents but from a different perspective.

I'm a lesbian so me and guys are approaching the same women. The amount of rejections I get will be higher because there are less lesbians. But I started as a wallflower waiting to be approached (never) until I changed.

First, get ready for rejection. To do this, approach women by whom you don't mind being rejected.

Second, approaching women is like any other skill you want to be good at. Practice without being in the game. Approach people in general (men and women) and talk to them. 15 second conversations over inconsequential things.
"Does the 15 bus stop here?"
"Is there an easier way to get downtown from here?"
It will get you comfortable approaching people.
Finally, when you see someone you would like to meet, approach with a little more personal approach. Last date I had was by approaching a woman in line to get coffee. I noticed her bracelet and asked where she got it because I wanted to get something for my sister. She was warm and open to talking so I asked if I could look at it. She she said yes, I took her hand and held it as I looked at the bracelet. She was OK with that and 10 minutes later we had a date for dinner. But remember a woman approaching another woman is less threatening than a guy approaching a woman. Granted, I have an athletic, soft butch look and may scare some people, but generally I don't.

But keep in mind there will be a lot of rejections. If you approach people in a kind, nonthreatening, noncreepy way, you'll do fine.

No it doesnt, in real life there's no possible words you can say during this interaction

the only way to speak to a woman for first time is in school or through mutual friends

>>34214879
>the only way to speak to a woman for first time is in school
to a stranger, right? Right?

I got cold approached today and was accidentally mean as fuck
>looking as a spice rub at liquor store that they never had before
>some decently cute guy needs to get by me and surprises me so I'm flustered and say sorry
>he says no problem then doubles back and asks if I've tried it clearly flirting
>accidentally respond in a harsh way and say "No, I JUST saw it here, no idea"
>he looked sad and we just walked away from each other
>feel embarrassed and buy my alcohol as fast as possible to avoid him and leave
I would've been nicer I was just surprised and still feel bad. Just keep in mind women are people too and not to take everything personally

>>34214053
Im not a chad but indo have charisma. Its all you really need if youre really good at it. Flirting is kinda second nature to me plus I've refined it over the ywars through trial and error.

>>34214303
I read that you were gay and expected not to like you but found nothing in your post disagreeable , live your best life and more power to you

>>34214879
Or online

>>34214300
Not all women are that loose, period. Even for chad. Or, to put it in a way your redpill-rotted bowl of chowder for a brain can understand, many women (probably most of them) have such strong last-minute resistance defenses that even chad can't bed them the same day unless they're super drunk or something. Go live in any college town for a year and observe people for proof.

>>34215357
Thanks, but more power to those who feel they can't approach other people.

>>34213414
Sunshine girl :)

>>34213421
What do you think "cold approach" means, lil bro?

>>34214303
This feels like the best advice for this topic. But let me ask: aren't you worried about developing a bad reputation? I only go to so many different places - the bookstore I like, the coffeeshop I like, the same gym and the same mall and the same grocery store etc. If I were to get in the habit of asking out random women, isn't it inevitable that I become "the guy who comes in here and hits on people"? I see that the vast majority of customers just go in and go out, so while I feel pretty comfortable making take conversation with strangers there's a fear that asking people out would make me into a standout figure. "Dude, you've got to stop hitting on people, or stop coming in here". That's what I worry about. I guess it's the fear of transgression in general. Don't like upsetting people.

>>34215501
Learn reading comprehension moron. You are responding to something completely asymmetrical to what anon was actually saying.

>>34218637
I had the same fears as well when I used to hit my town's local pub every Saturday purely to approach girls, it was the only place that didn't play loud music and was spacious. I just accepted the potential "that guy" label as a cost with the territory and couldn't afford to give a fuck. The staff / security probably began to recognise my face after a while but ultimately I don't think it's a problem unless you're really creepy or harassing women - like not taking rejections and all that.

>>34213414
I won't read yet another wondering thread by OP who is too timid to actually talk to people.
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>>34218637
What I suggested was a little more subtle than you presented. You don't walk up to a woman and say "Can I get the 15 bus here? Oh, by the way... wanna fuck?"

It doesn't take much to gauge interest and friendliness of the people you approach. it helps if you approach when there is time to develop that interest. Despite my example, a bus stop isn't the place. But a coffee shop, store, library, etc..., especially when you can ask questions that don't require a yes/no answer is good.

>>34221933
Oh, look... it's the "I won't read..." guy again.

>>34222604
>You don't walk up to a woman and say "Can I get the 15 bus here? Oh, by the way... wanna fuck?"
Of course I would never do that. I probably wouldn't talk to someone in the first place unless they had a tshirt with a band that I like or something. But there's still that ulterior motive, which becomes apparent over time. I feel bad about that part anyway. "Yes, I actually think your necklace is cool but I also think you're hot and that's a big part of why I'm talking to you". always feels kind of sleazy, I've never been good at it. Like I really can talk to a stranger - man or woman - easily but as soon as I'm Hitting On Them it feels like a sales pitch as much as I don't want it to.

>>34213414
A small percent of the time. It’s worth it though